Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

I'm afraid that if we start dating, it will mess up our friendship and I don't want to lose him as a friend. I just got out of an engagement, but he's been pursuing me since a couple months before I broke up with my fiance. I'm starting to like him even more than I did before I broke up with my ex. I don't want to hurt him if we ever do start dating. Give me some suggestions people.

2007-01-28 02:44:22 · 14 answers · asked by diamoniquejazz 3 in Friends

2007-01-28 02:44:15 · 17 answers · asked by Sam C 1 in Friends

go to read it?

2007-01-28 02:42:09 · 48 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

if you were me, should i contact or reply to answer and ask how she is? As i `m now considering her my friend,i should be kind and not to rude,isn`t it? What you all out there can say about it?

2007-01-28 02:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay. I jsut turned 16 and I want to have a sweet 16 birthday party. I am totally blank and have no clue to to do. I dont know who to invite because Im friends with a bunch of different groupes and some of them don't get alone witht he others. I want to invite them all but i dont want to have a girl battle night. Send over Ideas.

2007-01-28 02:41:30 · 8 answers · asked by thelocalgirl22 2 in Weddings

Say you've met a woman you have an interest in and you've expressed that to her . . . how often during the week do you contact her?

Would you like for her to call you also ? If so, how often.

Overall, what do you feel would be the 'guidelines' for contact early on in a potentially developing relationship that you have a interest or wonder of ?

Phone calls . . . e-mails . . . getting together to see her . . . ?

Or, do you not want to appear not too interested initially and not contact her so much ? Which is what this man I've met two weeks ago is doing.

How do you guys, after having expressed interest to a woman, handle the 'early stages' contact ? Your " Do's " and " Don't's " ?
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Appreciate your insight.
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2007-01-28 02:41:07 · 7 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Singles & Dating

my mate walked in whilst i had my jeans round my ankle, luckily enough i had a duvet over me. But i reckon she knew what i was doing, she didnt say anything though.

Anybody got caught in the act? and how did you / they react?

2007-01-28 02:40:40 · 16 answers · asked by Stacey S 1 in Singles & Dating

me and bill will be married at city hall the reception will be at my house we have lots of people we went there the thing is my house is very small how can i think it out because i don't want to hurt people feeling please help?

2007-01-28 02:40:29 · 10 answers · asked by iris b 2 in Weddings

Just a question,should interacial relationships be allowed?Or should we as people stay pure?Im coloured from south africa,im mixed and inlove with a white guy,whats yall views,comments?

2007-01-28 02:39:46 · 14 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-28 02:39:39 · 20 answers · asked by ms_jaffa_cake 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 02:38:55 · 9 answers · asked by vodka 1 in Weddings

okay so me and my friend brittany have been friends with her for a long long time!! like 6 yrs almost. but everyday she makes fun of us and makes fun of what we were and how we r "skinny" and she always is just soooo mean and tells us to shut up and stuff......but she lives next door to us and she calls us all the time to see id we wanna hang out and we always make uo excuses like my pants r in the dryer and we have to eat or take showers and yada yada ,.....but what do we do! we dont wanna be friends with someone who is mean and its sooooo hard to ignor her! what do we do?

2007-01-28 02:37:52 · 13 answers · asked by Krista K 1 in Friends

2007-01-28 02:37:38 · 3 answers · asked by fairity27 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 02:36:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is considering going into the army, and i want to know how this could affect our family life. I really dont know anything about the army so i dont know how all that stuff works but if anybody who is could please tell me how being in the army and having a family works out please let me know!!thankx...

2007-01-28 02:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by alex jade 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend who's a pothead, but tries to keep appearances clean. She had a job interwiev and was not accepted because her vocabulary denoted she used illegal substances! Could this be true?

2007-01-28 02:35:05 · 12 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Singles & Dating

Is it true that if a guy says 'you're beautiful' or 'you look nice' - with being asked or provoked about it first (example: "do you think I'm beautiful?") he is more apt to mean it?

2007-01-28 02:34:57 · 22 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

My friend is 17 he has a girlfriend who is 29 he has been with her since he the end of 15. Well, basically he was happy with her at first. She has 2 beautiful kids that he adores, they love him. The woman is a liar and she does have alcoholism, she has smoked marijuana before with a co-worker who is African-American. She is Caucasian & her ex boyfriend she had the two kids with is in prison for selling drugs to the police, he is Filipino. Basically the woman has started causing him a lot of hassle lately & has been lying to him, then confessing the truth about it later. He doesn't really trust her... but she says she has never cheated on him, he knows this woman better than me and told me that he still isn't sure if he can believe her anymore. She still lives with her parents! She abuses drugs when she has them. She drinks a lot, he has tried to help her & given her many chances. but, still she isn't changing. She still isn't what he thought her out to be. what should he do? He <3s her

2007-01-28 02:33:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Everyone knows they way to a girl's heart is to be sweet, sensitive, and caring but how do you win over a guy? Though the guy I like is a little bit out of my leauge I have a hunch he likes me, so how do I win him over?

2007-01-28 02:33:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently joined a clothing company doing merchandising for them unfortunately I am fallen for a man who is technically my boss's boss. He was the one who even specifically hired me for the job - which I am extremely grateful for. But I find myself thinking constantly about him. He is a very sweet person and single but at the same time he is 15 years older than me, and above all it is completely unprofessional for me to say anything. I do not want to jeopardise my job also as I enjoy my work and get along with alot of people within the company.

How can I get my heart in line with my head?!?

2007-01-28 02:32:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well im 15 and my bf is 16. I'm really really really in love with him. A few months ago we broke up for 2 days, and he just told me last night that during those two days he got drunk did some stuff with his ex [the one he broke up with for me] and now they have a kid on the way. at first i started freaking out and screaming at him then he started ignoring me [he hates it when i cry] and i told his mom to tell him its over, well she started telling me i need to seriously think about this, she said that i can choose to walk away or stay, but if i chose to leave he might not make it through, but then if i stay im gonna have to have his ex and their baby in my life forever, and im gonna have to deal with him paying attention to them. i'm gonna have to give up alot and become a step mom to this baby at age 15....... what should I do?

2007-01-28 02:32:56 · 28 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

drops her laundry every time I snap my fingers?

2007-01-28 02:31:58 · 21 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

If i go on a date with a guy, and i don't want to go out with him afterwards, how do i tell him that. I've already told him i that i just want to be friends. I will be hanging out with him today.. which i think in his head is a date, but i told him it's not.. so i dunno what to do.

2007-01-28 02:31:34 · 6 answers · asked by Luckystar25 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 02:30:58 · 28 answers · asked by Teema 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This question is especially for females. Girls, when you are with a guy you like, but you haven't gotten past 1st base yet, what is something physical that a guy could do that would surprise you but also really turn you on? (examples: slowly start to unbotton your blouse, buttons on your pants, touch you someplace special, a soft bite...WHAT?)...something in your past that happened which turned you on like crazy and you can't stop thinking about.

thanks

2007-01-28 02:30:44 · 9 answers · asked by X me Out 2 in Singles & Dating

School in my country has reopened for a month already but I don't have any friends or close friends yet. There are 17 boys in my class and they have cliques or good friends but I have none. During flag-raising,pairwork and projects and recess,I'm always alone and my classmates seem to hate me a lot for anything I do...everyday going to school is a torture for me because I have no one to talk to in class..everyone shuns me,I always have to walk alone and do everything alone..help please I'm going crazy..

And I always hear people say that friends are so-so-so important in school and without friends it will be really bad...i'm really beaten by these words and i just wanna run away from these..help im going mad

2007-01-28 02:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This Girl, she in the beginning of the school year said she didn't like me, to one of my friends. Said "She is obnoxious cause she laughs to much." But then I was really hurt cause I didn't do anything to her and she judged me b4 knowing me. Then later on she seemed to be easier around me, so I commented her on myspace and stuff but no return messages... I hate it when ppl don't like me before meeting me what do I do?

2007-01-28 02:29:56 · 4 answers · asked by lalalala 1 in Friends

Mine is 6 inches long and about 2 wide and 5 all the way around, how does that compare with guys you have been with!

2007-01-28 02:29:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner & i seperated in October, we have an 11 month old baby together. I found out he was still taking cocaine & had debt of £20,000 that i knew nothing about. I couldn't handle it all & in the end we broke up. I still love him though & miss being a family and i just cant get over him. He was living at his parents but they had thrown him out (i'm not 100% sure why but i think it was to do with him taking drugs) and he started live with a 17 year old girl (he's 29 & i'm 22)and her parents. Last night we decided we were going to make another go of it but on the condition he leaves her house today. He agreed and promised faithfully he would leave today but today he is saying he wants to get his own flat & house before rushing into things. I agree that that would be ideal but i cant cope knowing he is living with this other girl when we want to be togther. What shall i do? If he really wanted me & our son wouldn't he risk everything to be with us?

2007-01-28 02:29:12 · 23 answers · asked by lubeymor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im in taiwan, and the parents here are so "old-fashioned"
they dont let my cousin, who's 12, have a bf and stuff
is 12 really al that early? dont exactly think so
and why do they have this kind of though in their minds?
i believe having pre-teen relationships is preparing for more mature, serious relationships in the future o.O
haha i sound all scientific and stuff...EW
RAWRR

2007-01-28 02:29:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating