My friend is 17 he has a girlfriend who is 29 he has been with her since he the end of 15. Well, basically he was happy with her at first. She has 2 beautiful kids that he adores, they love him. The woman is a liar and she does have alcoholism, she has smoked marijuana before with a co-worker who is African-American. She is Caucasian & her ex boyfriend she had the two kids with is in prison for selling drugs to the police, he is Filipino. Basically the woman has started causing him a lot of hassle lately & has been lying to him, then confessing the truth about it later. He doesn't really trust her... but she says she has never cheated on him, he knows this woman better than me and told me that he still isn't sure if he can believe her anymore. She still lives with her parents! She abuses drugs when she has them. She drinks a lot, he has tried to help her & given her many chances. but, still she isn't changing. She still isn't what he thought her out to be. what should he do? He <3s her
2007-01-28 02:33:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get rid of her Babe, she's caused you enough problems & clearly isn't interested in helping herself....she'll pull you down & you sound like a decent guy...get the hell out of there & get your life back on track....she'll fukc your head up along with your self esteem...you don't need this at any age let alone yours....how the hell do you ever trust a liar anyway? If you continue to be around someone like this you'll end up not being able to trust yourself....you're nearly there already.....& that's not a nice place to be.
How do you know that when she's denied playing around on you that she's telling the truth....she's a LIAR remember...Get your life back & don't have any more to do with her....There's a lot of decent girls out there waiting for a guy like you....this woman doesn't deserve you.....& you certainly deserve better than her.
Love has nothing to do with this....you can't build a relationship on lies & deceipt.
Good luck....
2007-01-28 03:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to leave this relationship and find a healthier one. This woman needs more than a boyfriend she needs someone to coach her all the way. This woman is 29 and she has not gotten her s**t together!! When he leaves she just might clean up her act if she really loves him. He should give this relationship a break and then watch from the sidelines to see if she will change if not there are some wonderful woman out there who deserves his love she is not worth it!!
2007-01-28 02:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by santasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs to remember that she is on drugs, is an alcoholic, and a child molester and he needs to ignore her and stay away. he can find someone his own age and not have to worry about being at her house when the police arrive to arrest her for the drugs and he ends up in jail or prison with her!!
2007-01-28 02:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was only 15 when he started having sex her, she should be arrested!! She is just playing with him to kill some time until something better comes along but YOU knew that already, didn't you? You won't be able to convince him to leave her though. Just be there for him when he wants to talk.
2007-01-28 02:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to leave her. He is too young to have his life mixed up in her trouble. It is obvious she is a user and he is being used. Tell him there are plenty of (hassle free) fish in the sea.
2007-01-28 02:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Winston S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go whilst he can.
But also make sure she get's help, but don't force she has to be willing to accept help, and willing to change. If you think the children are in danger then get help, for their sake.
2007-01-28 02:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Bekka ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
santasha summed it all up, also if he wants he can adopt the kids, a friend of mine did that eh adopted him exs kid and he loves him and they are happy together and she is in rehad, he needs to get her into rehab and to stay away and to forget her as soon as possible!
2007-01-28 02:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should leave her! come on she's 29.she could be going out with somebody right now. and he's too young for her. he can find someone better.
2007-01-28 02:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by torres5772@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to never speak to her again. Starting yesterday.
2007-01-28 02:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋