Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

why only guy need to work
why donot girls go fo husbands who can remain at homes
why girls always need working husbands....are the greedy
why only monetary status of guy is considered in marriage

2007-01-28 01:37:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My daughter is 20. Very long to explain so I will be as brief and concise as possible. I started having problems with her when she was an adolescent. Defiance, etc. I am divorced from her father, (abusive to me and very manipulative to children). I got remarried when she was 6. Her stepdad and her got along great. I have 3 other boys, one from my previous marriage, one from my ex's marriage and our own child together. When she was in High School things got worse. She would play both ends against the middle, and then her behavior grew worse and she was very disrespectful to me and the house rules. She left and moved in with her father. After just 3 months she wanted toc ome home so she did. All was forgiven. I redecorated her bedroom and gave her a big party to welcome her home because I missed her and loved her so much. Then, about 6-7 months later she started again acting weird. She ran off and told me she wasn't coming home. Her grandmother picked her up from school and she

2007-01-28 01:37:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What did she mean by that? What does militant mean?

2007-01-28 01:35:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok well she dated him and i liked him while she dated him but they broke like months ago adn yesterday he want to go out with me so i said ya and my freind is like i like how could u and i was like no u say you hated him and now i dunno know if we are going out srry if u cant read this?!

2007-01-28 01:35:41 · 13 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Singles & Dating

Any successful fishing wanna share with us ?

2007-01-28 01:35:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just can't understand this boy. First of all I'll tell ya story about him. We're studying in one German school and last summer all 10 classes (and we too) went to the mountains camp , cause we needed to prepare to our examination in November. There were a lot of our teachers from Stuttgart and another countries. We lived in one big house but in different rooms. So , once my friends told me that one guy is always looking at me - as the reaction I just laugh and I though that they lied. However I noticed that he tried to be near me: in the dining room he sat near us , when we played soccer he sat near my friends & etc. And I began to think that it's true, cause once I caught his eyes and there was like lightning between us. But when we had a big party , with dj and loud music , he was sitting on the bench alone. He didn't even try to talk to me. It's strange but it was not just simple sight , I felt that he really likes me.But now I can't help thinking that he ignores me but why?

2007-01-28 01:34:20 · 4 answers · asked by woo 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 01:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We have to sell our house and move soon to another state..(from NY to SC) all my family is here in NY and my dad is in a nursing home..I visit him @ least 3x a wek and talk on the phone to him 3 times a day !! My husband wants to start his own business and all the reasserch weve done tells us our best bet will be in SC... I approached this subject with my mom last year and she practically freaked out !!.. I know I have to do whats right for my family (Im married with 2 small children)..but how do I convince my mothe she has to be more accepting of our decision ??? Im torn.. about my dad..he will be Devastated if we leave.. we just cant afford to stay here and support our family..Help any ideas ?

2007-01-28 01:32:15 · 8 answers · asked by DRD 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

School in my country has reopened for a month already but I don't have any friends or close friends yet. There are 17 boys in my class and they have cliques or good friends but I have none. During flag-raising,pairwork and projects and recess,I'm always alone and my classmates seem to hate me a lot for anything I do...everyday going to school is a torture for me because I have no one to talk to in class..everyone shuns me,I always have to walk alone and do everything alone..help please I'm going crazy..

2007-01-28 01:32:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-28 01:32:01 · 8 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Singles & Dating

He always looks at me during class and last time he borrowed something from me... when he returned it to me, he said thank you while looking straight into my eyes in a very sincere way...

2007-01-28 01:30:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm really starting to run out of possible reasons why people seem to be avoiding me anymore. Sure, maybe it's because I have no life and spend a lot of time on the internet. That can't be the reason however. I realize people have lives, but come on, one little text message?

1. I've done nothing wrong to these people
2. Never spread any rumors or talked trash behind their backs.
3. I'm not negative or whiny when I'm trying to talk to them
4. I've noticed them responding to other people through friend/networking services waaay more than they ever respond to me. Not that I care or am jealous, but they can't even type a simple "hello" or "I'm busy, can't talk now" to me? I would accept that and move on, but they can't even respond.
5. More often than not, it just seems like I'm there for them when it's convenient for THEM, not me, but do I complain or avoid them because of that? No.
6. It seemed to just start out with 1-2 friends at first, and is growing. Maybe from me asking about it?

2007-01-28 01:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-28 01:28:09 · 6 answers · asked by buttafly_biattch 4 in Singles & Dating

can you name messengers other than yahoo, rediff, msn...which provides facility for chatting..
provided it is free.

2007-01-28 01:27:56 · 6 answers · asked by simran m 1 in Friends

I sometimes see couples groping each other without even thinking who might be watching. Are they not embrassed by their actions or are they just overcome by lust and blinded by love?

2007-01-28 01:27:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok..so the father of my 3 month old daughter hasn't seen her yet since she was born..a week after i gave birth, i sent my sister over where he works so that he can at least visit the baby..he said he's already married and he didn't call..i took some legal action and hired a lawyer for child suppport and patternity matters...he got the letter and he wanted a DNA test..then a company of DNA testing called wanting me and my daughter to come in for testing but i asked my lawyer and he said it has to be court ordered...his sister requested the test..the child is his...she's like a female version of him...i don't think his wife knows...why is he acting this way?

2007-01-28 01:26:10 · 21 answers · asked by Irish C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 19. My parents dont accept my girlfriend cause she is a different race. I am Tamil and my parents want to get me a Tamil girl. I have a Sinhalese girlfriend, and my parents said that if i marry her then they will disown me. What can i do?! I dont want to be unfair to my girlfriend. Even though it will hurt, i think I have to eventually break it off but not too far away, I dont want to lead her on and then break her heart. I think its her right to meet other people, I dont mind being miserable, I just want her to be happy. Please someone help me.

2007-01-28 01:23:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

can i get married
i am 34 and i am still a student. i was in job and dropped it just because i thought i need complete my education.Well once i complete my education ,i can be a good money earner...but right now ,in indian context,are there any hope for me to get married?

2007-01-28 01:23:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

actually i love a gal ,since last 1 year ,she is my very close friend ,but problem is my best friend was also in love with her ,so coz of that i've never told both of them that i love her !!!!!! but i was ok that atlist that gal dont feel for any guy ,but one day she came n told me that she also likes my best friend,i was very disturbed but i controled myself n helped them 2 start ther relation ,after that it was very difficult for me 2 c them 2gether but then also i convencened my heart !!! then 1 day some how they got 2 know that i love that gal ,then all things changed ,my best friend was not me best friend any more ,he started hating me rather i was thinking that he will understand my feelings n our friendship will b more strenthened ,i was very upset ,,,,,, n after some time they both brok up ,n then also i soported my best friend n fought with that gal i loved,and now they both sorted out ther problems n they r good friends now ,but i lost both of them ,,,,,

2007-01-28 01:22:51 · 6 answers · asked by ravi p 1 in Friends

and said that i wrote it. i didn't see it, but one of my bffs saw it, and said that it looked exactly like my handwriting! i know that i didn't write it because i don't even like the guy. he is a total perv, especially to me. (ex- he stuck a pen up my butt four times!) my bff said that she tried to take it off of the desk(because she knew that i didn't like him), but it was too late. the guy saw it, and said that if she didn't show him the letter, he would pants her right then and there. i don't know what to do! people used to say that he liked me, but i don't like him back. i don't know who wrote the letter. should i go around asking people? should i confront the guy? i have NO IDEA what to do!

2007-01-28 01:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by ♥2cute4u♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he's in a long-term long-distance relationship. I told him I liked him and that it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is he's ignoring me and has been for the past 4 weeks. Last week, was my birthday and I got a card from some coworkers. He wrote Happy Birthday in it, but didn't sign his name and he's still not talking to me.

2007-01-28 01:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So here's the deal. I've been chatting with this boy that I met online for quite some time now (since about November of last year). I'm really starting to like him, which leaves me with mixed emotions. I would like to meet him, but I also feel that it would be wrong to. The only thing is, though, that we happen to live in the same town! It's extremely bizarre, but there is a university in my town (which makes it a bit more normal). I'm still in high school and he's attending the local college. He said that maybe we could hang out some time. I'm really not sure if it would be safe to, though. Is there any way that I could meet him while being safe at the same time?

2007-01-28 01:21:39 · 18 answers · asked by dancerforlife! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a hot guy from Calcutta, India and want any female for friendship for life long. Can I?

2007-01-28 01:21:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend seems to be addicted to having her hand in my lap. it's always there ,even in public while riding the bus. what can i do about this?

2007-01-28 01:20:48 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to write a romance novel, and want something to base it on. Can someone give me a few ideas on what to write on?

It can be something completely fiction. It can be from your own life. I don't know, but if it just sounds like something people would like to read and discuss, then please go ahead and say it. Thank you!

2007-01-28 01:20:30 · 4 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Singles & Dating

i would never dream of getting into a swim/bikini, whatever. i don’t know why.i'm not overweight, i am probably a little more underweight/average. i'm just naturally like this. i also survive in baggy t-shirts and hoodies! everyone always asks me why i do....i don't have an answer for this because i don't know!

in school we have to go swimming and i never go, for the obvious reasons. i've got i don't know how many detentions oover this because i just have to say i forget my stuff.....

i want to wear so many of those tops other people do....but i just can't pull myself to do it!

i have been like this ever since i was about 12/13. it's been so long i don't think it'll change over the years.

yes, before you tell me other people worry about this, i know other people do but i go a little overboard on it....

2007-01-28 01:19:07 · 15 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this wonderful guy whom i connected very well. he's smart and successful. he's nice except for the fact that he kept on standing me up and doesn't even bother to explain why he wasn't able to make it and acts like nothing happened the following day.

One time, he invited me to come over to his house for some dinner and offered to pick me up. when the time came for him to supposedly pick me up, he sent me a message to just meet halfway in a resto coz the traffic was jampacked. i told him that i couldn't make it coz it was already late at night. He told me to just wait up and he's gonna call me back whether he could pick me up or not. After more than an hour, no call came. I got really mad, gave him a call and just ended up everything with him.

The problem now is that I do like him so much. We really had a nice time together and i kept on wondering whether we could have work things out or have i really done the right thing. And if i did, why do i miss him so bad? Pls help me.

2007-01-28 01:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-Would you expect a 14 or 15 year olds to be one?
-What do gentlemen do?
-How do they behave?
-What is your "dream gentleman"?

2007-01-28 01:15:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so this has been going on for a while and I REALLY need your guys's advice:
My roommate is a total slut. She's dated at least 3 seniors (and we're freshman) and cheated on at least two of them, not to mention she also cheated on her bf of 2 years with a total ***. Anyways, I found out recently she is now with a new senior and they go and make out randomly and when she does this she always tells me lies as to where she is going. What do I do? I share stuff about my love life with her, but she is always mysterious and never tells me anything. The problem is, when she's not around guys she's amazing, and the best friend I've ever had. I'm so cunfused...

2007-01-28 01:14:24 · 1 answers · asked by Shorty 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has said the following during our time together and still feels the same way after over a year: "I love you but I am not in love with you," "I am not ready for a commitment or marriage," "I don't believe in living together," "I like having my own place," "I don't like change," "I don't like moving." And yet he still wants to date me. He still wants to see me all the time (sex or not). He likes coming over and leaving whenever he wants to. When I suggest breaking up or cooling off, he feels hurt. He says that he doesn't want to be with anyone else. And that he might change his mind for the better when it comes to us. Its just that it will take time. What am I supposed to do?

2007-01-28 01:13:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating