I met this wonderful guy whom i connected very well. he's smart and successful. he's nice except for the fact that he kept on standing me up and doesn't even bother to explain why he wasn't able to make it and acts like nothing happened the following day.
One time, he invited me to come over to his house for some dinner and offered to pick me up. when the time came for him to supposedly pick me up, he sent me a message to just meet halfway in a resto coz the traffic was jampacked. i told him that i couldn't make it coz it was already late at night. He told me to just wait up and he's gonna call me back whether he could pick me up or not. After more than an hour, no call came. I got really mad, gave him a call and just ended up everything with him.
The problem now is that I do like him so much. We really had a nice time together and i kept on wondering whether we could have work things out or have i really done the right thing. And if i did, why do i miss him so bad? Pls help me.
2007-01-28 01:16:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit wasting your time with this jerk. He's playing with you. Move on and find someone else that will actually want to be with you.
2007-01-28 01:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to know something crazy? There's a guy who I had an opportunity with twice in the past 4 years but never let things proceed. Our past attempts never worked out. If they didn't work out, it ended for a reason. I tell myself that, but I still think about him to this very day (our last run-in was a few months ago).
Why? I've realized that it was because I really liked him and felt like I wasn't given enough of a chance, so I'm still left wondering about what could've been or that if we still have a chance.
If we had really given it a shot, I wouldn't be bothered right now. If I had never really liked him, I wouldn't care about it today! But I did really like him, and I did want more of a chance, so I still wonder.
2007-01-28 01:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has probably got some other woman or wife and he just wants you on the side you should just cut your losses and move on seeing how he never had any intentions to get serious about you anyways because if he really wanted to meet you he would have. Open your eyes..
2007-01-28 01:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is married or in a relationship.
My lady friend went through the same thing. Move on.
2007-01-28 01:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sounds like he's either married, or had a girlfriend he didn't want you to know about. Just move on. There's better "men" out there.
2007-01-28 01:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Gasman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he does not sound like he has made you a high priority perhaps he is even married or has a girlfriend --- even if he is not cheating he is inconsiderate and uncaring --- no matter how much you like him he does not place the same importance on your company ---- im sorry you have my best wishes
2007-01-28 01:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes just doin that so u ont gt bored of him and feel lik u have a bit of a challenge
2007-01-28 01:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋