Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

My bf was out of work at 12:45.. but i saw no lights when i passed by...not that important.. so i guessed he was at a bar... not that bad... then his friend comes home without him... so i went by the local bar and looked for him so i saw him. Then this girl was there that is known to be a whore.. I flip.. because He didn't call me.. and he said he texted me but never went through.. so on the road.. he started getting really angry.. and brought up something that i did like got his car scratched.. I asked him why he was even bringing it up... he was soo angry.. I just dont understand why he didn't call when he knew his friend was comming home without him. I dont know what to do.

2007-01-28 00:41:31 · 3 answers · asked by Sunkn 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a sexless marriage for 15 years. Each passing year I've tried to help my wife discover her desire. Some of you will make jokes about me and my looks and ability. For those who want to help ... I'm good looking, I'm well endowed, and Im unselfish in the bedroom. I know my way around too. That's what I don't understand. I have the ability to really make a woman say WOW! Yet my own wife could care less if she ever has sex again.

I'm pushing 40 and feel neglected. I know it sounds weird for a man to say this; but I'm too young to accept a sexless life. Recently a family female friend from high school who we've been friends with our entire marriage started emailing me with just simple hellos. Then we started talking about more serious subjects. Then one day she started on the subject of sex and she seemed to be testing the waters. She then sent XXX Ecards and I sent some back. She then sent naked pictures of herself. She now wants me to have an affair. She's gorgeous and I'm so confused. HELP!!!

2007-01-28 00:41:17 · 27 answers · asked by jennyboy1960 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-28 00:41:12 · 18 answers · asked by sur1282 2 in Singles & Dating

Well yea the guy is hot but I've only seen him twice or sth! I feel bad for having dreams about him! What does it mean?

2007-01-28 00:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 00:38:38 · 21 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-28 00:36:59 · 10 answers · asked by spencer007luv 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 00:35:44 · 15 answers · asked by Nada K 1 in Family

I was just wondering why is it you always see beautiful women with guys that treat them like crap,like a piece of meat instead of a beautful woman, and guys that will treat a lady like a lady can't seem to find a woman that wants to be treated with respect why is that? can someone answer that question please?

2007-01-28 00:35:27 · 7 answers · asked by BBFAN 1 in Singles & Dating

The stereotype is that black women hate going down on men, latin women can tolerate it and white women enjoy it. especially swallowing.

what do you think?

2007-01-28 00:33:49 · 8 answers · asked by American Bad Ass 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a huge problem. One of my guy friends Kyle had asked me to go with him to the Semi Formal. I like Kyle. He is amazing, funny, smart, cute and makes me feel good when I am with him. I have a boyfiend though. My boyfriend Danny and I have been together two months. We have been through a lot together. I love my boyfriend a lot but I like Matt too. My boyfriend is smart, funny, cute, amazing and makes me feel good about myself. Kyle had asked me to go with him to the dance even though he knew I was going out with Danny. I want to go with Kyle because I really could never see Danny going to a dance. I mean if I ask Danny if I could go with Kyle he probally would get mad and break up with me. But If I dont go with Kyle he would be really hurt and I dont want to do that to him. Does anyone have any ideas on how I could go with both of them at the same time, or a way that I could go with Danny without hurting Kyle or a way to go with kyle without having Danny mad and break up with me

2007-01-28 00:32:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It sounds stupid, egoistic, or whatever, but it's true. So, why?

2007-01-28 00:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by cmilja m 6 in Singles & Dating

An old girlfriend did find me on the Classmates.com. Now I also have been trying to find this person but was not able to. (I did search for all old friends, not just old girlfriends since I got on this computer). Now I am happily married and live good. It is hitting me hard to see this old friend again and I write more to her than she does to me. She also says that she is in a 4 year affair now. Should I just calm down about this and just wait for her to write to me instead of me writing to her every chance I get? Now, I do not wish to have an affair with her, just to see how this person is doing now. It has been 30 years since we were together or seen eachother. I just like it now that I know this person is alive and well. Advice Please!

2007-01-28 00:32:20 · 9 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

A man true intentions, when he say's want to come over to mine for a coffee. I fell for this believing that he wanted to have coffee together, not sex. I did know him for a while, but wasn't expecting this.
I'm furious that noone explained this. This happened years ago.

2007-01-28 00:31:21 · 5 answers · asked by SOL SIREN 2 in Singles & Dating

From my prev question "How do you meet more guys in view for a serious relationship towards marriage?" posted on Sat 28 Jan. Thx for the views. More info - I go to church, hang out with new pals including those of my other friends' and sisters, join activities like dancing. However, still have not been able to meet a guy whom i have chemistry and could how a conversation. I am a pretty social person and is at ease working up a conservation with anyone including guys. So just wondering and also really wondering where have they all gone to. I am sure there are other guys looking for gals to be in a serious relationship but are not successful too. Any views from anyone?

2007-01-28 00:31:16 · 9 answers · asked by littlepurplebugz 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are separated with no activity between us for over 90 days. In my state, after 60 days of inactivity, you qualify for a divorce. I want to know if I can file and legally "back-date" it?

2007-01-28 00:30:21 · 10 answers · asked by Nina T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a guy I love a lot!! hes my best friend and we chat everyday
but he likes some1 else. and I feel very hurt whenever he tells me about her.
what shud I do? tell him? or will he avoid me after I tell him?
I'm damn confused! plz. help.....

2007-01-28 00:28:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean my feelings, my opinions my secrets and other sense should be share with wife or not.

2007-01-28 00:28:17 · 6 answers · asked by Green Valley 2 in Friends

Theres a guy I love a lot!! hes my best friend and we chat everyday
but he likes some1 else. and I feel very hurt whenever he tells me about her.
what shud I do? tell him? or will he avoid me after I tell him?
I'm damn confused! plz. help.....

2007-01-28 00:27:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I moved to a new place a few months ago and i started to like a guy a year older than me. I am not sure if he likes me too and his birthday is coming soon and i want to get him a present or a self burnt cd. Any song ideas for a teenage guy. He is more into maths, science and sailing

2007-01-28 00:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by Sabrina w 1 in Singles & Dating

I am really loving a girl who is my business friend. She is so innocent and very cute angel. I didnt propose her so far. But before i propose her, I need to check if she has any interest in loving me. I really cant tolerate if she rejects my love and i should not also loose my business. Give me a idea to check her interest level in loving me in any chance.

2007-01-28 00:25:23 · 6 answers · asked by Answerer 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in for 2 years we both from middle east and from different nationality but we live in same country we start thinking about the future to be together his family they need him to marry from his country but he refused us he told me his dreams to be with me he promise me he will talk again his father he don’t want another girl this happen 2 weeks ago so I am waiting the answer yes or no but he told for my friend if he talk his father he will give him same word he have to marry from his country and I am confused what I have to do sometimes they way he behave with it is not normal did I keep distance from him or did I tell him we cannot be any more together I feel he will follow his family’s word sometimes I have some feelings may be he need reason to be far from me please I need your opinion please I am tired

2007-01-28 00:24:50 · 3 answers · asked by noona 1 in Weddings

We have been involved off and on for 2 years. We have tried to let each other go, but it never works.

I moved in with him 3 months ago. He spends nights with his wife and other nights with me. She is suspicious that I am here and he has been deceiving her into thinking I'm not.

He told me that she wanted to come by his apartment to see if I am here. We talked about it and both agreed that we are not ready for a confrontation with his wife. He asked me "as a friend" what he should do. I told him he should let me go and try to work things out with her. He said he's not sure they have a chance but he would like things to go back to how they were before me. He said maybe I should "hide out" for a few days so she could come by and not see me. He said he will try to keep her away, but if she pushes him then he will have to confess.

I started crying and I as I walked out of the room he said "don't think I'm telling you to leave, I'm not." So what was he saying?

2007-01-28 00:24:39 · 26 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend asked him if he liked me, and he said "Yeah" but then he walked away before my friend could ask him more, he doesn't live far from me, and when we're sat in Registration, he looks at me, all the time... He smiles at me sometimes, and he often says hi, but he's really shy, and doesn't give off any signs, help!

2007-01-28 00:18:22 · 21 answers · asked by Bekah! (: 5 in Singles & Dating

and I just wanna be alone. I wanna switch off the phones and go to a place where nobody knows me and just go crazy and have fun!!
For my bad luck, I'm going on vacation next week but with my whole family, cousins and aunts included. They're nice people but I just wanna be left alone. What should I do? I feel like I'm on the verge of a breakdown and I dont really know why I feel so stressed!

2007-01-28 00:17:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-28 00:16:04 · 3 answers · asked by DEBBIE M 1 in Friends

your all cruel. you know that?
why are women so cruel. Generally ive found women are capable of being much more insensitive.

Its because they know they can get away with it.
your all real sneaky

2007-01-28 00:15:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-28 00:14:56 · 6 answers · asked by majjud 1 in Singles & Dating

Apparently your chances are MUCH better of a lasting relationship if you judge your partner within 2 points. Not a lot of people know that. More interestingly, is there anyone out there who would say that their partner is MUCH better looking than they are and if they were strangers they would be out of your league.

2007-01-28 00:12:48 · 18 answers · asked by Truman 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-28 00:11:38 · 15 answers · asked by chikku 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i are married now for 17 years the problem is that now he has chosen to live in his working or where he does business while the children and i stay in another country when he comes to visit us he only stays 2 to 3 months he says its better for the children to be in his country of origin and have better education am i his kids keeper or wife whose being deprived of womanhood desires

2007-01-28 00:11:17 · 28 answers · asked by chiko 2 in Marriage & Divorce