I was just wondering why is it you always see beautiful women with guys that treat them like crap,like a piece of meat instead of a beautful woman, and guys that will treat a lady like a lady can't seem to find a woman that wants to be treated with respect why is that? can someone answer that question please?
2007-01-28 00:35:27 · 7 answers · asked by BBFAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a lie.
Nice guys don't finish last. And just because you're finishing last doesn't mean you are a nice guy.
2007-01-28 00:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tavita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This really can go both ways. It's unfortunate, but a lot of people (guys AND girls) tend to place physical attraction as a higher priority than a person's other attributes. Naturally, this is what will first catch your eye about someone when you see them across the room/on the street/wherever, but it's by no means the sole reason you should get in a relationship with them.
I'm not sure if this question is based on something that's happening in your life right now, but my advice would be to re-evaluate the situation. Not all of us ladies will put up with being treated like that--I have flat out refused to even start a few relationships, because I knew the guy in question did not treat girls very well. If the woman in this relationship is not in serious trouble (i.e. abuse of any kind), I'm not sure there's much you can do (although her girlfriends are probably already nudging her to end things). I'd make sure that you yourself aren't falling for the physical attraction trap and find yourself a girl who is going to treat you well in return. Trust me, pretty girls who will respect themselves and their partners exist. ;)
2007-01-28 00:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by aoiazul05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be nice - but you still have to be strong. You have to be the alpha male. Women have this instinctive urge to want to be protected by a man - and if you are too nice - her instincts tell her you would not be able to protect her.
Its not that you have to treat her like crap - you just have to be strong and vital and in complete charge of your life.
2007-01-28 00:41:14 · answer #3 · answered by beach 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
can't answer that cuz in my case Im a hot girl and have a totally sweet guy and love him to bits! So mine finished first.
2007-01-28 00:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like fishing. When you use lures or dead bait , it is hard to get the fish to bite, when you use live bait , they bite like crazy. Most men that use this matra tend to be boring and like a puppydog to women.
No excitement or entertainment.
2007-01-28 00:44:44 · answer #5 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just in your head..
2007-01-28 00:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by van hastling 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im wondering the same thing dude!! girls are just s*!$!!
2007-01-28 00:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by Stifler 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋