I have a huge problem. One of my guy friends Kyle had asked me to go with him to the Semi Formal. I like Kyle. He is amazing, funny, smart, cute and makes me feel good when I am with him. I have a boyfiend though. My boyfriend Danny and I have been together two months. We have been through a lot together. I love my boyfriend a lot but I like Matt too. My boyfriend is smart, funny, cute, amazing and makes me feel good about myself. Kyle had asked me to go with him to the dance even though he knew I was going out with Danny. I want to go with Kyle because I really could never see Danny going to a dance. I mean if I ask Danny if I could go with Kyle he probally would get mad and break up with me. But If I dont go with Kyle he would be really hurt and I dont want to do that to him. Does anyone have any ideas on how I could go with both of them at the same time, or a way that I could go with Danny without hurting Kyle or a way to go with kyle without having Danny mad and break up with me
2007-01-28 00:32:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. That's...hard. Okay, here's what I would do. Kyle likes you. A lot. He knows you have a boyfriend, but he still put himself out there and asked you. That took a lot of nerve. I think he sounds like the nicer guy in this one, but then I like confidence in a guy. Talk to Danny about it. If he throws a hissy and breaks up with you, so be it. You've only been going out two months. You may feel really bad for a while, but you'll both get over it. If you can't choose, then consider not going to the dance with either one. Go with a group of girlfriends and have fun.
2007-01-28 00:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by P!ATDrules! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months does not make a relationship. Nor love. go to the dance with kyle.
Danny can do what he wants say what he wants. You want to go with Kyle so go. You know you want him, because if you were so "madly in love with Danny you wouldn't be posting the question here, you'd have told kyle "no, thanks, I have a boyfriend."
You are just afraid of being alone, after you leave Danny.
So go. Leave Danny, Date Kyle.
Two years from now, this will seem like no big deal.
2007-01-28 08:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with Kyle, as a FRIEND. If Danny cannot handle the fact that you have male friends, then he is not the guy for you.
2007-01-28 08:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋