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2007-01-28 01:33:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Family

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you cant do anything. they are NOT fighting because of you so thats why you can't do anything to stop them from fighting. them fighting is not your fault.
they will fight whether you are there or not, it has nothing to do with you.
they are adults and too bad they are not mature enough to know they shouldnt fight in front of their kids. they are selfish and you may feel powerless that you can't help, but trust me, even adults can't help them. people have to take responsiblity and help themselves.

the best thing you can do is be more mature than them. know that fighting is not the answer to anything. if their fighting bothers you, go take a walk in a park and distract yourself. go read a book or do something productive. let them grow up for themselves. you are not their parents:)

2007-01-28 01:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honey, there is not really a way that you can stop them from fighting, you can however try to sit them down together when they are being civil to each other and tell them exactly how you feel, tell them that you dont like to see them fighting, and that it really upsets you and if it is a physical thing where they are hitting eachother you need to step up and call the authorities because that is not a safe situation for anyone.

2007-01-28 09:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥shannon c♥ 3 · 0 0

there isn't much you can do to get them to stop fighting but urge them to get counseling. you perhaps could talk to them one at a time to see what the problems are and see whether there is anything left to save or they are beyond that. If you are talking about physical fighting, go to ncadv.org and learn about domestic violence there. I hope that works out for you but remember when two people fight too much in a relationship they set a better example by divorcing than by a relationship where no one is happy and fighting is considered normal!!

2007-01-28 09:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0 0

There is nothing that you can do unless they are fighting over you. They may need professional help and learn to communicate and listen to each other instead of yelling over each other and not hearing what the other is saying. I feel bad for you but maybe you can make the suggestion...if they will listen to you. Good luck!

2007-01-28 09:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lina D 2 · 0 0

just call the cops every time they get loud and tell the cops when they come what's going on.maybe you can shame them into acting like adults.Or if that's too drastic,every time they start fighting go outside in the yard and scream at the top of your lungs so the neighbors can hear.shame on them.

2007-01-28 09:57:19 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 0 0

What you need to do is to tell them, that they need to go for counseling, or try and work out their problem, that this has been going on long enough, and it is time for them to work on their issues. That life is too short, so why waste it fighting.

2007-01-28 09:53:51 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0 0

try to find out the cause. money or you may be one of the reason. do not post you verdict on them. because you need both. if you are a girl child then talk with your father not to quarrel for simple reasons. if your mother is adament then leave her own way. one day or other she will definitely realise

2007-01-28 09:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by ayal p 3 · 0 0

you can tell them to each take a deep breath
if they fight a lot i suggest counseling
if they fight right infront of u just walk away to show u dont like it, and its safer

2007-01-28 09:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by &heartsBri&hearts 2 · 0 0

not much. tell them you much they are hurting you and hope that they care enough about you to make a grown up decision on what to do that's best for all of you.

2007-01-28 09:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Kick em' in the bag. :)

2007-01-28 09:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0 1

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