School in my country has reopened for a month already but I don't have any friends or close friends yet. There are 17 boys in my class and they have cliques or good friends but I have none. During flag-raising,pairwork and projects and recess,I'm always alone and my classmates seem to hate me a lot for anything I do...everyday going to school is a torture for me because I have no one to talk to in class..everyone shuns me,I always have to walk alone and do everything alone..help please I'm going crazy..
2007-01-28 01:32:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well,talk to them,invite them to do things together and try to tell trhem u want to be their friends.
2007-01-28 01:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by My Poetry Is Deep I Neva Fail 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The group dynamics have formed in a way where your aloneness serves the purpose of making them feel more important- it shows even more how they are a group. If you were in a different group, and the dynamics were allowed a fresh start, you might even be the most popular!
Barring anyone nice who will take an initiative, give it time, because several things could happen in your favor. There might be an even newer person that comes in, and you won't be the only one left out. You can make friends with that person-also, the newer person will serve the purpose of making you more familiar to the group.
Only do nice things, or don't do anything at all- it's all image control. Then, take some initiative to get into the easiest group to get into, or the nicest group. Finally, make friends outside of school even if it's online.
2007-01-28 01:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man...juz look @d number of plp who have answered this question of urs!!! if ur juz a question can get such a response i am damn sure u in person will b cool 2.... i think tht makin frnds can b easy 4 some but touf 4 others those plp around u always seem 2 have some1 2 talk 2 but i was always blieve tht u can make frnds only by being well....u...BUT not if u dont go up 2 them make them realise wht an awesome person u are!! i am sayin juz like tht coz a blieve every1 is awesome in there own way...........i hope things work out 4 u man...but if they dont or even if they do ....would u like 2 b my frnd 2???
if yes plzz email me...i shall wait byeee
2007-01-28 02:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by teenwhizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to your teacher or a school counselor about how you feel and what you can do to make things better. This is all too common with school kids.
I'm sure that by the end of the year you'll have some friends.
2007-01-28 01:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not sure where u live or how u are getin a pt job usually at work u make good friends or working at your local church in charity functions joining a team, or art classes dance classes karate classes, etc. places with people your age that will have some thing in common with u worst comes to worst stick to your study and dont let it bother you while alone read a wrestling magazine guys love to talk about wrestling,
2007-01-28 01:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by paul lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey! you should think positively, sometimes being alone might be the best thing of your life. but, if u really want to make friends, as a suggestion, ican write this one; make your best in your projects, be the most succesful student of ur class and make them amazed.. well, if they're jealous, this might work. but, you should think that whether you really need a friend.. (but dont misunderstand me, that doesnt means "be a lesbian" :))
good luck..
2007-01-28 03:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by ErAs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, I know what you're going through. I just moved to and i hate it! I learned to deal with it though. Try getting into extra curricular activities and make friends from there. Try to learn what hobbies they like so you can have a conversation going on.
Good luck!
2007-01-28 01:41:12 · answer #7 · answered by Emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont disturd other ppl. Dont make too much fuss out of small things. Keep your own weight. Dont giv them chances to tease you. Soon u will get friends. I can b ur friend add me.
2007-01-28 01:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Myth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't care ur present situation,just concentrate on ur study first.try to answer every question asked by ur teacher in order to impress ur classmates,but ur don't show off.sooner or later,i hope u could get some of them.
2007-01-28 01:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must need to ask them why are you not joining me?if then also they are making alone of you ,you just think you have god with you.you are willing ,but they are hating,but you did n't do any wrong so they was wrong.they are bad get another guys.that's better.
2007-01-28 01:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe, try talking to lots of people. Not everyone will like you, and you have to deal with that. Just try to talk to everyone you can, and be yourself.
2007-01-28 01:43:54 · answer #11 · answered by Franny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋