I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he's in a long-term long-distance relationship. I told him I liked him and that it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is he's ignoring me and has been for the past 4 weeks. Last week, was my birthday and I got a card from some coworkers. He wrote Happy Birthday in it, but didn't sign his name and he's still not talking to me.
2007-01-28 01:21:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you love the someone - you try to understand.... if you do not love.... up to you
2007-01-28 01:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you were honest with him from the beginning. You let him know how you feel from the get. There is no reason why he should be mad at you for this long. It's not like you got drunk and crashed his car. You just got mad at him cause he was yanking your chain. Cause that's exactly what he was doing if he asks you out and then leads you on, only to diss you like that. I think he needs to get over it and you need to forget about him. Think about it in the long term. Do you really wanna be in a relationship where the guy makes something like this into such a big deal? What if something drastic actually happened? You mentioned something about him have a gf. He's a cheater too?
Get away if you have any sense.
2007-01-28 09:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring him. Men hate that also, I would say let him see you being snouty especially if he walks by you put your nose-up and turn your head and do that cute walk. They #1 hate being ignored it's ok for them.#2 that action will spark some type of reaction. Also after that make eye contact at a distance after a while he will want to know what you are thinking. and SMILE ALOT!
2007-01-28 09:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the beginning, you told him that you wanted to ignore each other to give you time to move on. He is doing that now.
Do you really want to be with someone that would cheat on a girlfriend anyway? If he does it to her, he would do it to you!
Move on and be thankful that he is giving you the space to do it...prepare yourself, I am sure that once you move on, he will try to start to whole thing all over again.
2007-01-28 09:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by daisy31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello he's got a girlfriend. Find a guy WITHOUT a girlfriend. To him you're just his co-worker. Your feelings are betraying you.
2007-01-28 09:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by rusty_1491 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let things go life to short and in life friends come and go things happen for a reason
2007-01-28 09:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by paul lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time, im guesing he isn't sure how to react, so hes ignoring you or, he actually has feelings for you and isn't sure how to react. either way, be open and friendly no matter what.
2007-01-28 09:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your fault he should try groing up don't get involved whit some one you work with
2007-01-28 09:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by LAWRENCE Plamchops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋