I'm really starting to run out of possible reasons why people seem to be avoiding me anymore. Sure, maybe it's because I have no life and spend a lot of time on the internet. That can't be the reason however. I realize people have lives, but come on, one little text message?
1. I've done nothing wrong to these people
2. Never spread any rumors or talked trash behind their backs.
3. I'm not negative or whiny when I'm trying to talk to them
4. I've noticed them responding to other people through friend/networking services waaay more than they ever respond to me. Not that I care or am jealous, but they can't even type a simple "hello" or "I'm busy, can't talk now" to me? I would accept that and move on, but they can't even respond.
5. More often than not, it just seems like I'm there for them when it's convenient for THEM, not me, but do I complain or avoid them because of that? No.
6. It seemed to just start out with 1-2 friends at first, and is growing. Maybe from me asking about it?
2007-01-28 01:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They are probably mad at something else and need to be alone for a little while. it's okay. Ask them why they are angry or something like that. Show them that you do care for your friends and you want to help them. And try to find out what's going on. Ask them why they are ignoring you. if they "can't talk now." They are DEFINETLY hiding something. Maybe they have other friends. Try to not bother them and talk to another friend that isn't ignoring you. They'll soon know that you're not trying to figure out why they are ignoring u and start to talk to you again.
Good Luck!!!
2007-01-28 01:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by xchia101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think these people are really your friends anymore. Even if they were before. Who knows why? I can't really tell from what you wrote. If you're on the Internet a lot and not hanging out with them, that might have something to do with it. Might as well not hang out with them at all and save them the trouble of having to ignore you. Make new friends, one who share a common interest with you. Like. . .maybe over the Internet.
2007-01-28 01:38:43 · answer #2 · answered by maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all they look like bunch of ucking pricks! You dont need them and guess what F them too. Dont put yourself down to that level where you have to beg for friendship and to be talked to. Dont! Do us all a favor and find yourself one of two friends to start with and keep in touch with them. Most of the time i know from experience if you are not a party animal and all you do is sit home on internet then you most likely bore them to death so there is no reason to even reply to you at all. When you text them they most likely thing you going to ask something boring and what is not part of their plans. If you so called friends do party a lot and go out to get drunk and have that fun and you never really participated and showed them that you can be fun too then most likely that is the situation and the real reason for them ignoring you. Trust me my brother is in a same stage until he realize he need to get out there. Breath a freakin frsh air or something because he spend too much time on the net. Waaaay too much time that he wear glasses now. Sometimes its just not healthy and you may pass for a geek. I am not trying to offend you but really all the points you listed that you havent done anythign bad to them is fine but have you ever done anything good to them either? Even if that good happened to be go out and support them in a drinking contest at the bar when one of your friends celebrating a bday party? Have you ever thought about that? Like i said not trying to get on noones bad side or make you feel like ish but i am trying to help and this is the only way by being str8 up to the point with you. Hope it helps!
2007-01-28 01:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one who doesn't like you or is jealous of you could've started a rumor about you. Try talking to your friends about it. They can't avoid you for long. If they still ignore you than you know they're not your real friends.
2007-01-28 01:36:54 · answer #4 · answered by Emma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just email them from time to time. get out and meet new people, don't worry if people are not spending time with you on the net.
2007-01-28 01:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋