2007-01-28 02:36:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
(I MEAN FOR THE FIRST TIME)
OF COURSE BEFORE...
WHERE DO U LIVE?????????????????
2007-01-28 03:01:52 · update #1
before and after....by after, I assume you mean your divorced mate...sex with divorced mates is best. You can also do it while married, but few do for long.
2007-01-28 04:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny how society can dictate ones sex life. Take muslim culture for example. In Iraq, if a woman has been found to be impure before she is married there is a good chance no one will accept her as a bride. In the United states, that nation has attempted to be a society with morals but premarital sex is a common occurence, and there is no direct correlation with how that will affect a marriage. This decision ultimatly comes down to you, but really just think of how short life is. I decided to connect with people i love instead of waiting and i could not be happier. Variety is the spice of life; and humans were never meant to be monoganous creatures. Monogamy is something society ultimatly created, but you alone hold the decision in your hands whether or not you want to share your love before you are married.
2007-01-28 10:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on your beleif system. I personally think waiting until after marriage for your first time is not very romantic considering the first time is rather uncomfortable and often doesnt last very long. So i think doing it before marriage si best becasue then after marriage you can have a hot ramantic night on your wedding
2007-01-28 10:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe couples should wait till AFTER marriage. Because sex before marrige is wrong. God created sex to be between a husband and wife AFTER they are married.
2007-01-28 11:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage definitely. It's safe and gives you the secure feeling that you had done it with your husband. Instead of some bf whom you claim to be in love at that moment and no more after a few mths or yrs later.
2007-01-28 10:54:03 · answer #5 · answered by th1608 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would hope after and before is up to the people involved --- as you get older and come from a marriage you tend to look as sex as just an enjoyable pastime between 2 consenting adults
2007-01-28 10:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before. You should have a few partners before making any marriage decisions. That way you won't wonder later.
2007-01-28 12:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by so 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After marriage is the best way to go... That is what God wants.
2007-01-28 10:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is up to you. Their is nothing wrong with either one. I live in the USA and proud of it.xxx
2007-01-29 06:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all your boyfriends before you get married to some one.
2007-01-28 10:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋