Say you've met a woman you have an interest in and you've expressed that to her . . . how often during the week do you contact her?
Would you like for her to call you also ? If so, how often.
Overall, what do you feel would be the 'guidelines' for contact early on in a potentially developing relationship that you have a interest or wonder of ?
Phone calls . . . e-mails . . . getting together to see her . . . ?
Or, do you not want to appear not too interested initially and not contact her so much ? Which is what this man I've met two weeks ago is doing.
How do you guys, after having expressed interest to a woman, handle the 'early stages' contact ? Your " Do's " and " Don't's " ?
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Appreciate your insight.
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2007-01-28 02:41:07 · 7 answers · asked by onelight 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i like a lady and she seems to like me then i contact her as soon and as often as she allows me and then see her as frequently as possible ---- i do not play games and be hard to get --- its infrequent enough that a lady is interested in me that i do not let the opportunity slip away
in your case i must say the guy does not sound interested
2007-01-28 02:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is gorgeous, beautiful and appears to be interested in me also..its a PRIORITY in my life to contact her within the next few days by telephone, if I have her number or by any-means which I have to communicate to her...
I would initially request that we meet for coffee and talk so we can get to know one another a little more....
Because dating is such an analytical thing.. I am always on the look-out for potential issues..e.g. maybe she doesn't have the time for me, maybe she has other men chasing her... These are just a few questions that I need answered before I let my emotions start thinking of " what we could have" together...
Said differently.. once I have made contact and we have talked.. I put the brakes on ----> and let the relationship grow into whatever its going to be...
2007-01-28 02:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. If you say you are going to call, then you call in the week and try to set up a date. If she's interested, she'll call sometimes too. When it's a new person, if I call a couple of times and think I am being screened, I throw the number away: I can't stand passive-agressive women who enjoy playing hard to get: I want the woman to help me out in the process, and if she's not interested enough to help, then my interest in her evaporates.
2007-01-28 02:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is interested in you or you them, things just happen. If you require guidelines you probably won't have the interest very long. Love is not a time frame it just takes its course. Just see where it goes.
2007-01-28 02:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i see her every day then every so often i would whisper little secrets in her ear. if not txt messages and phone calls to flatter her. not every day but enough to let her know i care and am thinking about her. but two weeks without contact? thats just rude and nearly unforgivable.
2007-01-28 03:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have the answer to your question but i think im in a similar situation to you!it kinda sucks not knowing wher you stand doesnt it?!
will be interested to see your answers x
2007-01-28 02:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by fairity27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I make a lot of eye contact, dumb jokes, and try to woo her awkwardly. I'm a pro, what can I say....
waaittt, I'm single.
2007-01-28 02:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by Black Rabbit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋