School in my country has reopened for a month already but I don't have any friends or close friends yet. There are 17 boys in my class and they have cliques or good friends but I have none. During flag-raising,pairwork and projects and recess,I'm always alone and my classmates seem to hate me a lot for anything I do...everyday going to school is a torture for me because I have no one to talk to in class..everyone shuns me,I always have to walk alone and do everything alone..help please I'm going crazy..
And I always hear people say that friends are so-so-so important in school and without friends it will be really bad...i'm really beaten by these words and i just wanna run away from these..help im going mad
2007-01-28 02:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is VERY hard, I know. But, things will get better. I didn't have any friends in school, and I'm watching my son grow, and he doesn't have a lot of friends in school. It won't always be like this always. I promise you. Find some interests outside of school. School is only a few hours a day. Is there a scout troop or local youth group you can get involved in? Chin up, big guy. Be strong and confident. You are a great kid; the rest of the world just isn't smart enough to know that YET.
2007-01-28 02:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends are indeed important in ones life. They are the ones that can help us if we are in need of help or they can hear us out besides our family. It's nice to see people who has so many friends and being the center of attention but what's the use if these friend are not the real / true friends!!! Having one true friend is like finding a gem in the ocean but it will take time. It is the best to go and try to make friend than wait for others to become friends with you. It's hard to start a conversation with someone you don't know but if there's someone who you'll like to be friends with, just gather the courage and talk to that person. In school it is quite impossible to not to have friends cause you'll get one or many. It's just a matter of time and without friends is not a really bad thing. It means that you have to be independant. Life can be tough for you at the moment but eventually the tide will change. An advice to you is that you must treat a person how you want them to treat you. Don't ever take friends for granted and a great friendship takes time to flourish and it's like a seed which needs nutrients to grow and take time. Don't shatter to this kind of challenge. Be strong and hopefully things turn out the way for you. Life can be unfare sometimes but we must be strong to overcome such problems.
2007-01-28 10:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by someone's lurking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some confidence. Confidence attracts people.
Try to be friendly to people in class. If you have any classes where the teacher decides where you sit, then you'll more than likely be put next to somebody. Talk to this person.
I can remember when I moved schools that I had a lot of classes where this was the case, so I got to know a few people. Don't sit on your own; if someone else is on their own, sit with them. Sit on the end of the table if there's a long row. But I wouldn't suggest sitting in the middle of a group of people - because I'm betting they would talk AROUND you, rather than to you, and you'd also probably be asked to move as well.
Be confident. Be friendly. Be interesting. Be alluring.
MaybeLater_x
2007-01-28 10:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by Deconstitutionalization 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to make friends is be one. There may be others who may be in similar circumstances as you.
How do you do scholastically or in sports? If you have strong points in these areas, that will help. If you don't, try to concentrate on some other strong points.
2007-01-28 10:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by expatmt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there. i understand what u mean. im 34 now, and i'm going back to school soon to pursue a diffrent career. but i am not bothered at all if i'm gonna have friends from school or not. u see friendship just happens. it isnt planned. if for now, u havent found one yet, just hang on. just continue to improve yourself thru your studies and interest. meantime, u may may email me, and we can be friends on line. God bless you.
2007-01-28 10:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by mela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IN MOST cases friens bring YOU DOWN
THEY HATE THE FACT YOU ARE DOING BETTER THAN THEY ARE,BE IT IN SCHOOL OR NOT THEY WILL BRING YOU DOWN SO STAY WITH YOU, YOU MATTER
THINK OF YOURSELF FIRST
2007-01-28 10:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by caveman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, try to make freinds with ppl who dont have freinds too. i do that even thogh i have freinds. trust me it works.
2007-01-28 10:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by jelly ♥s him 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋