I have a boyfriend and he told me about his exgirlfriend and how they broke up and that the way she hurt him he will never go back to her but the thing is he always tell me how beautiful and stylish the girl is and i always ask him to stop talking about her when i am with him. He is even jealous that he doesn't want the girl to have a relationship,he is saying that the girl uses her beauty to sleep with men and i asked him;why are you concerned a lot about her?and he said:just. Does my boyfriend still have feelings for his ex girlfriend?
2007-01-28 02:26:36 · 16 answers · asked by peedee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long ago did their relationship end? either he is not over her completely yet, or he was hurt so badly that he still has unresolved issues with her and needs some closure.
try pulling the same stuff on him and see how he likes you talking about your ex-boyfriends. he probably will realize how it makes you feel and hopefully stop...
good luck :)
2007-01-28 02:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um..OH HELL YA. Listen....he is not emotionally available to you. I am going through a similar situation where my new guy talks kind of too frequently about his ex and still even has contact with her. I am really thinking to start moving away unless he gets his act straight and stops talking with her immediately.
I would bail on this situation as soon as possible, the guy is still not over his ex, so he will never be completely available and open to grow with you. It sucks, but that is how it works out sometimes.
2007-01-28 02:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to have to say this sweetheart...but I'm afraid he hasn't gotten over his ex yet & would gladly go back if she'd have him by the sound of things......you should get yourself a new b/f before this b*stard fukcs up your head & confidence....don't do this to yourself Babe, you're worth more than this selfish pig surely.....Kick him to the kerb where he can dream of what he'll never have again...his ex & you can get on with your life & be more settled & happy..
Stop allowing yourself to have your self esteem bashed & pulled down.
Good luck. â¥
2007-01-28 02:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy theres no point in continuing with him. you have to tell him straight that its just u and him in the relationship - not his ex as well and that you want to hear nothing more of her. if that doesnt work id leave him hun because ur worth more than that!
hope u get on ok !
2007-01-28 04:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by michaelas920 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loved his ex more than you. (i'm sure you notice it too, right?)
The thing is, the way he talked about her, I'msure he will never ever go back to her.
I suggest, Tell him how you feel and leave him. If he realise his mistake the problem will solve.
p/s: if he doesnt come back, forget about him, you deserve better.
2007-01-28 02:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by loo l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is still screwing her behind your back. Tell him to shut the fcuk up about her or he is out. You got to lay it on he line to this punk. I am not american. London & proud of it. Have had a tad too much sherry trifle for pudding.
2007-01-28 04:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tracey b that was very uncalled for! i think that he has got feelings for this BEAUTIFUL girl, because it does sound like he never shuts up about er... tell him, if u don't keep quiet about ur ex then were finished. and if he continutes, just tell him where 2 go.
2007-01-28 03:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by claire f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Peedee. Yes - of course he still has feelings for his ex - but they're selfish feelings that he's displaying. It's obvious he cares more about himself than he cares about you OR his ex.
So dump him.
2007-01-28 02:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think you should get rid quick, hes nowhere near ready for another relationship yet
2007-01-28 02:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Tallulah♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest Hun, we does not respect you at all, to be talking about his ex like that. He still cares for her, i know he would hate it if u started talking about ur ex.
Start talking about your ex and see if he likes it.
Take care
2007-01-28 02:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Playful~Beauty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋