i have a boyfriend of two years. But ive been getting very close with another boy (I'm 16, the new boy is 18) my boyfriend it my age.
I talk to him every day. we tell eachother we like eachother. And i feel SO bad for that. i know i sound like a horrible person. And all the responces to this will say "you cant love him that much"
or "you shouldnt be tied down at 16". But im so happy with him. (My boyfriend) i do truly love him with all of my heart. And there is no way in the world i would even 'go out' with the other boy. i just like him an awful lot. he gives me a buzz which ive never experienced before.
Is anyonelse going through the same thing??
please help me
2007-01-28 02:27:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He gives you a buzz because you honey pot is boiling with excitement. Be careful or you'll end up with the new guys stinger inside of you.
2007-01-28 02:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not cheating what i believe is that u just like the attention this other guy is giving you. U have been in a relationship for two years. after a while at some point he just doesn't give the same attention like he used to. your attracted to this guy but it's up to you to make a move. if you don't want anything to happen then nothing will. now if your lusting that's a different thing it's possible i did it and i've been with my bf for 4years. Also u got to think about this. u did start young and normally when that happpens people grow apart. which is it for you?
2007-01-28 10:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i've been in ur situation.i'm 14 n i've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years already too. ur saying dat u feel a buzz. maybe u do really like him. maybe ur just with ur boyfriend just to be with someone. u should give yourself some time to think about everything.
2007-01-28 10:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by torres5772@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not cheating until you do something with this other guy. I would question why you're so close to the other guy, though. Also, does your boyfriend know about this other guy? If he doesn't, that certainly raises some questions as to why you haven't mentioned him before.
2007-01-28 11:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by RichMac82 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your friends. Don't get so serious at 16. Now is the time to just be social and have fun.
2007-01-28 10:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you care about your boyfriend one that your age you shouldn't be with 18 guy. besides he is an adult at 18 so becareful. he could get some jail time if he ever touched you. don't rush into anything.
2007-01-28 10:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to be friends with you. or maybe he likes you. if he knows you have a boyfriend, that could go badly.
if he tries anything, i would tell him the whole story and that you don't want to ruin your relationship with your boyfriend.
2007-01-28 10:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by dcarcia@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did the same thing to you would that bother you? If it does, then you shouldn't do it. If it won't, then it's time that you break up with each other. Good luck
2007-01-28 10:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleeps with the guy, have sex with him or kiss him, you're cheating on your boyfriend, otherwise you're not!
2007-01-28 10:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Evalita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋