Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

2007-01-28 04:55:27 · 9 answers · asked by sasha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

like if your on a date, or you meet someone for the first time. by strange i mean-made you run for the hills.

2007-01-28 04:55:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together 6 years.
3 months ago she came to me and said i am not as happy as i used to be i think I'm sick of waiting to get married. We took a break she came back and said i can't live without you. We got back together and fought 2 more times since and when fighting she said i don't want a boyfriend anymore i just want to hang out. When i want to chill with guys again i will call you. We stayed together and for almost a month now we haven't fought about it. We talk all the time and hang out 2 or 3 times a week. She is always busy with school and work and only has Sunday off. Now i ask her when do you want to hang out she says i don't know what i want to do yet like i am not a priority anymore. It used to be i'm coming over at this time. It was never a question whether or not we would hang out. Now i feel lucky to see her she says when we hang out it's never my choice anymore. Will she grow out of this phase or is she changed for good?

2007-01-28 04:54:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like normal the popular kids always get dates.That's besides the point but i recently notice this new phenomenon of nerds in my school getting dates!!!.....and me and my friends who are just the average bunch of kids don't even get hit on by guys(okay maybe i'm exaggerating a little there)!!!!........

2007-01-28 04:52:14 · 19 answers · asked by nur a 1 in Singles & Dating

i've known this guy for almost 3 years. at first we were like the closest pals. we got along gr8 n i reli liked him..but as a frnd. but then off late i think ive fallen for him!...big time!!! ive never felt this way about ne1...hes the only person hu makes me feel all shy n nervous. when i told some of my frnds bout these recent developments...they told me that he had a huge secret too. that he had liked me for a long long time. almost ever since we bcame frnds. he tried very hard to convey his feelings but i guess i was too blinded by his amazing frndship that i didnt notice how he looked at me or wtever. but now they tell me he has moved on after a lot of help from frnds n has consoled himself to a world widout me. we r still frnds in the same grade, but we act reli akward arnd each other.he feels his old feelings welling up again n i find it hard to hide my true feelings for him. which are pretty strong at the mo! i reli have to do sumthin. either let him kno how i feel or frgt him!

2007-01-28 04:50:52 · 15 answers · asked by Nolee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend keeps popping the question during sex! I realize that guys will say anything at that critical moment, but this happens early and mid-nookie. The last time that it happened he asked, "will you marry me?" only a minute or two into sex then several minutes later(but still a long time before orgasm) he asks "I'm serious, will you really marry me?" I typically answer in the affirmative, I don't want him to get offended even though I obviously am that he would bring something up like that during sex. We have talked about getting married when we're not having sex but never anything in the form of a question and it's usually more of a "sometime in the future" discussion. I don't know what to think, is he just saying things like this because we're so intimate or are his inner thoughts just coming to fruition during sex? I never bring it up after sex because I don't know that I should. What's the deal?

2007-01-28 04:50:16 · 13 answers · asked by justpeachee22 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean, all i see is "guys help!!!!!" questions, and other crazy stuff.
many people in this category seem desperate. and it seems to come from the people in high school and the 8th grade the most.
its not always the women either.

Aaron

2007-01-28 04:48:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To take a woman to bed on your first date. The whole works?.

2007-01-28 04:48:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not going to get married any time soon. But I already know who I will be with. She has been my best friend since second grade, and since last year we have been romantic and sexual with each other. I think I will end up marrying her. Am I too young to be thinking about that?

2007-01-28 04:48:03 · 18 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a christian arabian girl 39 years old, live in framingham , MA, looking for a good christian man and honest to get married can u help to find the right one who interested

2007-01-28 04:47:48 · 11 answers · asked by maiskh 1 in Weddings

My Bestfried has a "momma's boy" for a husband. She says that she does not feel important anymore and he is always comparing her to his sister, telling my bestfriend that she is jealous of his sister. Now i'm not sure what to tell her. He thinks his sister is so "beautiful" but she's more so flaunts herself around trying to act as though she's all that even though this chick is married.

What shuold she do... how can this be solved. Plus he tells his mom everything and she thinks he may even be keeping secrets that he won't tell her that the family talks about.

2007-01-28 04:46:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a guy farts, other guys give him high fives

2007-01-28 04:46:33 · 13 answers · asked by El Masterbater 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 04:46:11 · 18 answers · asked by mmkknnnn jjjjjjoooooooobnyyyyyy 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you feel about a girl after she sleeps with you? do you still love her or do you feel different? and also why do you feel like that?

2007-01-28 04:46:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked him out to the movies. He said "when"... I said "Maybe this weekend"... I had to go to class so he said "He'd talk to me tomorrow".

Tomorrow came around, and he must have forgot. I didn't want to bring it up because I wanted to see if he showed interest in going to the movies. That night he did send me an email saying "He'd forgot to ask today, and to give him a call and work out a time".

I seen him the next day and when he was giving me a drive home, I mentioned it. We were just talking about a day, and said his schedule was really busy... except for a Monday or Thursday. I kept suggesting the weekend. And I said "If you don't want to go, We don't have to"
He quickly dismissed this saying "Yeah, we should go."

Ok, so... We didn't work out a time, but he said he'd still go to the movies.

Is he just playing with my head, or does he really want to go out with me?
We've been good friends for a long time, so I am just wondering if he is just doing this to be nice tome

2007-01-28 04:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a girl who has always struggled with money and finances. She is always telling me that she doesn't know how she's going to afford the house payment, or the telephone bill, or the groceries for the week, yet she keeps having babies! Then after she has them she starts about the money situation again! I don't understand it and it irks me! Why keep having kids if you can't afford it?

2007-01-28 04:45:25 · 21 answers · asked by sweet_and_fabulous_female 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

As a 40 year woman I have stopped looking for men in their 40's because they all seem to be players but now I am shocked at the men in their upper 50's who are not ready for marriage or committment. Do these guys actually think they are going to be able to get women forever? These men are not famous or celebrities so their looks are going to fade and they are going to fact health and issues and sexual function issues in the near future (viagra and all that other stuff isn't suitable for alot of men with other health problems) so why don't they find one one to settle down with to love them so that they can enjoy a future of love and happiness and committment, even when health fails and things happen rather than believe that they are always going to be chick magnets? I know if I was married to a man I would stay with him through everything but I certainly would not chose a man with a bunch of issues to date. What is with these men?

2007-01-28 04:44:55 · 12 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

this is an email i sent my dad after that i'm done trying. is that ok?
i'm not sending you an email to cause any trouble or grief. i just have a few things to say. respond if you want to or leave at this.

i feel like you missed so much of my life because you didn't want to be in it.
i feel that you never wanted kids.
i feel that you thought raising kids without mom was too hard and gave up.
i want what we use to have.
i miss being your pumpkin.
one day i want you to walk me down the aisle because you want to not because you feel obligated to.
i hate how you tell chelsea that i'm a *****
i hate how you don't want chelsea talking to me because you think i'm a bad influence.

dad,

i graduated with honors, i have a college degrees, i'm supporting myself and i know the real world is hard but i'm making it and have been for 3 years now. i'm 20 and i feel you've missed so much. i'm not trying to pull a guilt trip just trying to get **** off my chest.

love,
natash

2007-01-28 04:44:10 · 3 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family

does she not attract you like she did before?? why? or why not?

2007-01-28 04:44:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to do the nazty? Is this too old fashoned?

2007-01-28 04:44:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I finally got up the courage to start talking to him again last night on aim. We were IM'ing eachother for a few hours and the last time we talked was in November!!! He was like,"I wasnt talking to you cuz I thought you hated me!" And I thought the exact same thing!!! Well this guy asked me out on Thursday, and I dont think we'll be going out for too long... and my ex says he still likes me, but what if my ex asks me out? I like my ex more than this other guy!!!

2007-01-28 04:43:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my best guy friends likes me, and I like him. One of our mutual friends keeps asking me who I like, and I have a theory that she and my friend are in cahoots. He asks her to find out who I like, she finds out and tells him, he asks me out. I'd rather not get her involved in this, though. I'd like to tell him myself during one of our free periods together.

Any ideas to get him to feel more relaxed around me so he can just ask? Or for the guys, why does he want to get our friend involved? Any input is welcome. :)

2007-01-28 04:43:49 · 4 answers · asked by Cassie 2 in Singles & Dating

And hes always looking at your lips?

2007-01-28 04:42:24 · 29 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

please help me i like to masturbate i use anything ut i like vibrators best does anyone know a good way to get orgasms so it feels real ? please help it takes me almost an hour to get one at the moment thnx x

2007-01-28 04:42:18 · 16 answers · asked by ???me ??? 1 in Singles & Dating

I gave it up on the 3rd date...

2007-01-28 04:41:43 · 24 answers · asked by ♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

this question is for girls. i dont no whether she loves me or not but she likes me

2007-01-28 04:41:08 · 8 answers · asked by smarty 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. We are now, I guess friends with benefits. I still love him, but how do I tell him?

2007-01-28 04:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by lynn 2 in Singles & Dating

Are young women (such as yourself) comfortable with who you are,how you look, and do u really need a guys opinion to move on ahead in life?
(mean no disrespect toward any women no matter race, religion, age, or pesonal issue)
Explaination would be appreciated.

2007-01-28 04:39:52 · 16 answers · asked by caring black guy 4 in Singles & Dating

I have experience with both types of men: 1. Really handsome, model type with shoe size 14 that take your breath away just being next to them and 2. Average looking with a great personality. My experience has been that the really cute guys are typically insecure and centered on themselves. They like women that will adore them. The second type of men is very giving, they go out of their way to make you happy. So here is my dillemma what's better. After all looks will fade, right?

2007-01-28 04:39:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 04:37:53 · 6 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Marriage & Divorce