does she not attract you like she did before?? why? or why not?
2007-01-28 04:44:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is not looks that counts It is loving the person inside, not out.
2007-01-28 04:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by peanutbulls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can say that about my husband. Been married 10 1/2 years, started dating 14 or so years ago.
I think the fact that I have matured, he hasn't, the fact that I have to be the adult in the relationship, do EVERYTHING, and the fact that our young children are more self sufficient than he is, that makes him less desirable sometimes. He's a 30+ year old kid.
If I am not as attractive to him it's probably because I am too busy working, taking care of our children and our house, doing everything while he is unemployed and plays games all day long.
2007-01-28 12:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to work at it. Take her somewhere w/o the kids (maybe a short trip) & remember why you married her in the 1st place! Your always around her so the "excitement of the 1st time" is over, now it's time to move into a more mature relationship that has more to do w/ physical attraction.
2007-01-28 12:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by evad nork 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is so common for so many people. You become so comfortable with one person that theres no excitement in her/him. Maybe you need to spend more time apart to appreciate how much this woman means to you. Or why don't you both get dressed up in something you wouldn't normally wear (revealing) if you've been together that long then you'd feel comfortable doing it.
2007-01-28 12:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try buying her some sexy undies to wear under a new outfit you would like to see her in. Ask her to wear them out on a special date. It takes imagination on both parts to make the flame keep burning.
2007-01-28 13:00:36 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it happens on both sides. The spark barely smolder. It's part of life. The important issue is enjoying your relationship together.
2007-01-28 12:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife gets more beautiful every year. Im more in love with her now Than when we were first married.
2007-01-28 13:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Fast Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are getting selfish and boerd with her and your marriage. Buy her some nice new clothes and clothes that are sexy and if she wears them for you then pow this should change things.
2007-01-28 12:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here in Italy we've got this saying:every nice flower becomes hay.
2007-01-28 12:48:50 · answer #9 · answered by Brenno 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look is not every thing it is how u feel about someone.
2007-01-28 12:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by pretty girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋