to do the nazty? Is this too old fashoned?
2007-01-28 04:44:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i dont think its weird everyone is intitled to wait until is feels right to them
Personally though i think its crazy, what if the person you end up marrying turns out to be crap in bed and your stuck with them forever!!!!! Good god thats one of my worst nightmares lol
2007-01-28 04:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's a good idea. There is no 100 percent effective birth control (other than abstinence), and many women don't want to take the chance of a pregnancy without marriage. And that is understandable. Child care is expensive, and for many single working mothers, financially difficult. Also, many people still believe in the family unit, which is mother, father and child (children) all together. Another aspect is that many cultures and religions believe virginity is something held onto until marriage. Such cultural and religious beliefs can be strong convictions, and you should respect them. Old fashioned, no. Strong willed, yes. This woman has ideals, and probably does not succumb to peer pressure easily. Good for her!
2007-01-28 12:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mangy Coyote 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! I think that women giving their bodies to men they're not even married to is what's truly weird beyond belief. Not even to mention pregnancies and a host of diseases that could occur.
Liberalism has brainwashed everyone, so that the normal people seem weird and the weird seem normal. Liberalism is a mental disorder, and it is also the plague of the modern era.
I also think that men should set the standard of waiting until marriage, and that men who are promiscuous are weird.
2007-01-28 12:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think that is great that some people still have old fashioned ideas and morality. It is a personal decision for all but I personally wish more were like like that,men and women.
2007-01-28 12:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not. Actually its a sin 2 do it before marriage so ur in the right direction. If a guy tells u he'll break up with u because u won't do it he's only in it for sex.
2007-01-28 12:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by JoJo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. It's common now. People see things from different viewpoints, ppl are waiting and they're not ashamed of it. I think ur doin a noble thing, and I respect that. More power to u. Yeah
2007-01-28 12:50:58 · answer #6 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in your own beliefs as to when you should do the nasty (just remember to be some type of protection for us men never remember to).
Please do not some religious inquisition factor the fate of your woman hood.
2007-01-28 12:51:02 · answer #7 · answered by radday5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not weird but I would want to know how compatible we were physically before I married the guy. Just like I'd want to know what his communication skills were like or if he was financially responsible.
2007-01-28 12:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by sisterdynomite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont thnk so dat its weird for waitin until marriage. its a sign that you r waitin for the right moment with the rite person. and i also thnk that it would add more fun after the marriage rather than not waiting till the marriage.
2007-01-28 12:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by passive84 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not weird-wonderful!!!! Good for you! At least you will know that this man (who ever you choose to marry) is really a soulmate, not a "sexmate"! Good luck.
2007-01-28 12:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by Denise P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋