what would be the best way to ask out a long time crush on valentines?

Question

i've known this guy for almost 3 years. at first we were like the closest pals. we got along gr8 n i reli liked him..but as a frnd. but then off late i think ive fallen for him!...big time!!! ive never felt this way about ne1...hes the only person hu makes me feel all shy n nervous. when i told some of my frnds bout these recent developments...they told me that he had a huge secret too. that he had liked me for a long long time. almost ever since we bcame frnds. he tried very hard to convey his feelings but i guess i was too blinded by his amazing frndship that i didnt notice how he looked at me or wtever. but now they tell me he has moved on after a lot of help from frnds n has consoled himself to a world widout me. we r still frnds in the same grade, but we act reli akward arnd each other.he feels his old feelings welling up again n i find it hard to hide my true feelings for him. which are pretty strong at the mo! i reli have to do sumthin. either let him kno how i feel or frgt him!

Answer 1

Hello,
If this very close friend of yours is single and not seeing anyone, then I can tell you this for certain, he is not sleeping alone, he has you on his mind, in his heart, and your name is very often on his lips, and his visions of you in his dreams are having such an effect on him He is silently screaming for you to be there with him, at his side, and maybe not even in the same bed, but he can't help his dreams, nobody can, he may even tell a close male friend, that you don't know,of his adoring love for you, but cannot tell you in case you remove that beautiful feature in his life by turning away from him. So, it's time now after 3 years, to do something positive about this strange set-up... What I, as a man would be looking for, from you now, is a glint in your eyes, and a wobble in your voice, you will have to put up with this trembling in your sight and speech, because between the two of you, once you have kissed him like you never kissed him before, then you should tell him, how long it is that you have waited for this feeling to come into you, and He will probably say it before you, so you will only then, have to agree with him, I bet you don't go home alone on the day this happens.
You neither of you need to feel as though you are trapping each other, yoyu have known one another for years, not like some couples, the meet one night on a dance floor, or in a pub, and before they know where they are, they are at each other tooth and nails, and other bits as well, most of them doomed to failure.
It is only a couple of weewks awsy from the most romantic evening in the calendar, 14th February, I will tell you this young lady, go get him on that day, no more stupid Valentines day cards from you to your young man, get him the most romantic card and present you can find, and don't post it to him, Hand it to him personally, then be with him when he reads it, so you know, that he understands where you are coming from, and Honey! He is yours right there and certainly right then at that moment, go ahead, tell him you Love him, and that you always have, then Kiss him that kiss I told you about near the top of this urging letter, You very likely will NEVER REGRET THAT KISS, OH, AND HERE'S ONE FROM ME, Just TO GET YOU STARTED,,, xXx

Answer 2

the most annoying individual interior the international, my boyfriend. i like him to demise, yet we've a tendency to dissagree on properly... each little thing. Like no longer even interior of an identical ballpark. he's centred on G.W. Bush even as i do not even count number on capitalism, he performs video games all day and that i study books. I talk Latin and every time I aspect out something about it he blows up, screaming that i'm dropping my time because it really is a useless language, etc. yet we've been mutually for a year and a 1/2 and in spite of the undeniable fact that he can be a discomfort, I nevertheless love him.

Answer 3

You two need to talk about this before you both explode!
Why on earth did he never tell you? How could he resign himself to a world without you when he never even told you how he felt? Get busy, girl! Tell him you have something for him for Valentine's Day, and tell him now. That'll let him anticipate, and give him time to get you something too, or at least figure out what he's going to say. Just get it overwith already! Gosh!

Answer 4

if u both like each other and u know it.. then i would go for it... let him know how u feel... ask him out, if he rejects u get over it, move on.. ur strong and u will find someone else.. if he does like u then take it and run. who knows what will happen in the future.. but if u don't take that leap then u will never know and he will get over it and move on.. trust me i know i lost my best friend and crush over shyness and now he is married and i'm stuck in the single life trying again..

Answer 5

Ask him to McDonalds and share some fries and a coke.
You sound about 14? Yeh?

Answer 6

Just ask him out. But I wouldn't ask anyone out on Valentine's. Being rejected on Valentine's day sucks. You 'd better ask him out a week before, and see what happens..

Answer 7

I think u should personally make him a valentine, maybe put a cute, but romantic, poem inside it. if he really likes u, he'll definately say yes 2 that!!

Answer 8

All I can say is.. JUMP IN, GIRL! Tell him how you really feel.. if he likes you (AND HE BETTER ;D) then I feel the best for you.
If not, then at least you still have your friendship :) either way..

Good luck! x

Answer 9

maybe send him a flower, and contrive to make it obviouslyfrom you; then, if he sends one back, you act all girly or something like that, and then wait for him to ask you out on a date. Could work...

Answer 10

TELL HIM!!! omg... i was in the same situation as you but luckily for me he admitted hid love and from then on we were an item.. tell him! make a move!