Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

I am getting 2 know this guy in 1 of my classes. I txt'd him and we've been talking for about 2 wks. I told him who I was and we haven't really gotten the chance 2 talk in person yet. The problem is, he has a gf & she thought 4 a sec that I had a relationship w/her bf. I totally get her. Now things are back 2 normal. I can be friends w/him, but I can't ask him 2 go do anything 2gether as friends. I dun want anything more than friendship w/him since he's off limits. But why do I feel the need 2 hear from him? Is that normal? and what should I do? Should I stop talking 2 him because I don't want 2 make a big mistake that can't be erased...

2007-01-28 04:19:25 · 5 answers · asked by ginie_in_a_bottle 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 04:19:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was married for 26 years my husband suddenly went with another woman no warning our house got sold leaving my son daughter myself homless while he lives it up in comfort with my sons best freinds mother my son an daughter now have houses of there own now but my son is still in denial of it all drinking very heavy help what can i do please .

2007-01-28 04:18:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Intimacy begins with a deep desire to please and compliment and express how precious our partner is to us. And to express that feeling in many different ways, sometimes playful, passionate, and very intense, and most often in simple romantic ways is so desired. A touch. A passionate kiss. Gentle rubs. Everything that arouses you more and more. Creating that burning desire to belong to each other.

On the other hand, sex is also a great expression of how much we get turned on in an instant, an expression of that fire between us. Even a "quickie" can be as intensely passionate as the ones that we take the time.

How often is there a good balance of both in our lives? How desirable it is? Why do we then here people express views that one is better than the other?

2007-01-28 04:18:44 · 5 answers · asked by houstonian352000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I wanted diamond studs so we went to look at some that were a carat total in weight for $2,000. Well today is my birthday and I heard my parents discussing about when to give them to me. Hey you only live once and I would wear them all the time and for many years cause they won't go out of style. But, this whole morning my dad was going you should be greatful for what you have some kids don't even have money to afford to eat. He was also telling me the story of some women he works with who is around my age who has two jobs and is bearly making enough money for her and her boyfriend and has to get rid of one job. I mean in life you do learn there are people who are worse off then you but, when you see your 16 year old cousin who has just gotten a brand new volkswagon pasat for her birthday it's hard to concentrate on those worse off. But, after my parents telling me I should be happy I have a family who loves me (which I am) I feel guilty for wanting the earrings...

2007-01-28 04:18:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive never had boyfriend,i recently bought a body fat % annaliser and im 55% fat! i looked it up an thats the same as a PORK SCRATCHING!!!!!

2007-01-28 04:18:25 · 32 answers · asked by the pleb 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible that any of u would actually date an 18m who gives advice on yahoo answers?
(just out of curiousity)
(Yes. I know curiosity killed the cat!)

2007-01-28 04:17:53 · 13 answers · asked by caring black guy 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so my ex-boyfriend of 6 monthes came up to me at my locker and said, " i have to talk to you." we havent talked at all since we broke up b/c it was a really bad break up, and we still loved eachother. there was this big conspiracy of the leak of my giving him a b.j. but thats been over for more than a month. i dont know what this means. please help, any ideas? he ALWAYS hyas a girfriend, and he hasn't had one since we broke up. we dated for 3 monthes, and were inseperable [sp?] at the time. i miss him so much, and i know that its been a long time, but do any of you have any idea what he wants to talk to me about?

2007-01-28 04:17:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because i was considering dying my hair that colour......Just wanted to know if guys are "put off" by that colour.

2007-01-28 04:17:06 · 17 answers · asked by nur a 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 04:16:22 · 8 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law died recently. My husband died 5 years ago. He has one surviving sister. My husband and I had 2 children. Should they receive part of my mother-in-law's estate?

2007-01-28 04:16:08 · 13 answers · asked by perplexed 1 in Family

What do you say to your parents if they forgot you Birthday agian? for the last 4 years my parents forgot my birthday. And I never said anything about it. What should I do?

2007-01-28 04:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-28 04:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by melizalucas@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

I am unemployed. I ought to step up my search for employment. I have an elderly mother, that has her mind slowing going sour, and will blank out at times. I need work, but also feel the need to watch her as well. I need to work, to hire and pay for some one to stop by and care for her while I am not home, wich again requires that I find work, wich again raises the problem of her safty when I am not there. nursing facilities are out of the picture. This is totaly a situation, ware she lives in her own home till the end.

2007-01-28 04:13:13 · 1 answers · asked by duster 6 in Family

I've tried everything except church music but the girlfriend remains unimpressed and would like to know of a musical track that has moments of quick tempo followed by slow rhythmic tomes.

I thought I'd found it with my new album - Military Theme Tunes but the Dambusters tune was a bit overbearing.

Anyone have any ideas?

2007-01-28 04:12:53 · 44 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

And i aint talking doing the nazzty....i saw oprah this week and these ladies (all over 35) were single and were having trouble findig a mate. One was a doctor, one attorney, the other a single mom with 4 kids. Anyway..they all seemed like they were "missing" something in their life. But would a man really fulfill this? dont they need to be happy with themsleves first?

2007-01-28 04:12:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well there is this guy I like. He was talking to my friend over IM and she told him that I liked him. He said he might ask me out sometime in the next few feeks, but he would have to see how much we had in common first. After we talked on IM for about 3 and a half hours, we both agreed that we had so much in common and my friend had told him to ask me out on Valentine's Day. Then after we talked he told my friend that he didn't know if he could wait until then. So you would probably think "Oh, that's great!" and all, but I'm worried about my reputation. I know you would think that it doesn't matter what other people think, and I agree. But I'm also concerned because of another problem. This problem had happened to me before, in a way. I found out this really weird guy liked me, and I always lied to my friends and said I hated him and all, when really I had somewhat serious feelings for him. He asked me out, but then I had to break up soon after because it didn't feel right. Help me.

2007-01-28 04:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by luvguitar432 1 in Singles & Dating

I dont have problems finding dates, but it seems every year I am single during this romantic day. What can I do to get a girl to "crush on me" this Vday? Would it be wierd to have a first date on V-day?

2007-01-28 04:11:30 · 9 answers · asked by graphix 5 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like this guy and i want to ask him out but i kind of dont because im not allowed to date till im 16 (which is a few years away) and i REALLY like him but whenever i decide to ask him out i decide not to the next day! HELP!

2007-01-28 04:11:29 · 7 answers · asked by Ginny 4 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for a girl of my dreams

2007-01-28 04:11:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 04:09:57 · 5 answers · asked by Dragana P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 04:09:43 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-28 04:09:15 · 11 answers · asked by sal 2 in Singles & Dating

this is my first date with this guy..we are 1 year apart and what do you think we should talk about? im nervous that there are go0ing to be awkward silences..and then (yay! 2 ?'s in one!) how do you go in for a kiss and where do you put your hands? (for girls)

2007-01-28 04:09:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seperated from my wife for a year now. Also, there were problems with her son for the past year but he has left and joined the Army. My wife claims to love me with all her heart but those words ring hollow. She does not show me the attention & affection I need and she does not value my love.

It has been a year now and I can't go any longer without the attention that I need. I have never been much of a flirt my entire life. However, I awoke last week realizing that that I have tried and tried to woo my wife, (we are seperated), and she will not reciprocate. Sooo, I have started to flirt with other women. I am enjoying their attention. I like it especially when a woman thinks I'm attractive and I find her attractive.

Should I flirt or not?

2007-01-28 04:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by Michelangelo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After threatening him,she left,then a few mins later he got a phone call from a man saying he was a friend of his wifes and was going to burn his house down with him and his children in it.He rang the police but they seem to be dragging there heels abit.Any suggestions on what he might do?

2007-01-28 04:08:39 · 9 answers · asked by babychamjo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me & my gal make a lot of love making(No sex) and i even touch her b**bs with the clothing.

But whenever i try to remove her top she simply says NO. She is not shy, not fat, but tells it wud be "too extreme."

Gimme sum lines or just about anything to say the next time she refuses.
And yes, i am not pushing or anything just wana say sumthing to let her ease up!

2007-01-28 04:06:33 · 20 answers · asked by Romps 2 in Singles & Dating

We have a beautiful son together, so I go see him at her house several days a week, and sometimes when she is there w/ the guy or alone, and she knows I am going out w/ some other girls, she will act kind of jealous, and sometimes when her boyfriend is not there, she will walk around the house in the nude, I just turn away and don't look. Does this mean anything?

2007-01-28 04:06:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & i have been married a year and it sems like we never have any sex he works all the time from 7am to 9pm everyday. i work from 9am to 3pm no weekens and we never seem to have any time for us so how long can a young couple last with no sex at all?

2007-01-28 04:05:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband had a mistress that he just couldn't stay away from for 2 years. She finally left him and we have been trying to work things out. I can't get past the affair yet, but the wounds are still fresh. He has been acting kind of sad, like he misses her. Will he be able to get over his loss and be able to work on our marriage? Or will he end up trying to get her back in his life?

2007-01-28 04:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce