am i 2 fat 4 love?

Question

ive never had boyfriend,i recently bought a body fat % annaliser and im 55% fat! i looked it up an thats the same as a PORK SCRATCHING!!!!!

Answer 1

sorry but thats funny... a pork scratching with legs arms and a head... lol no offence

your not too fat for love

Answer 2

Nobody is too fat to love!

We're just hammered by society to want certain body styles that fit in better with the lifestyle that we're supposed to want.

I see couples all the time where one or both people are heavier than their clinical ideal but they're just as sickly-sweet in love as any other couple.

I admit that I prefer a girl I can pick up and carry, so my practical limit is somewhere over 50 kilos and I've always told myself I'd not like to date anyone heavier than myself (gives a limit of 80 kilos) but then I realize that I've never dated a girl that was model slender. We date the people that make us laugh and feel good with ourselves, the people that share good times with us and they come in all shapes and sizes.

Congratulations on deciding to do something about controlling your weight if you're not comfortable with it. Check out what you're eating and see what you can substitute for healthier stuff so that what you nibble helps your body turn the vicious circle on itself. The human body has a great balance for processing food and some foods upset this balance and send the whole thing awry so you end up feeding the fat, not yourself. Talk to a dietician. Remember that a diet is what you eat, not what you leave out.

The weightwatchers suggestion above sounds good. We've all heard stories of couples that met each other there :D

Answer 3

Confucious say... "It's not the size of the pork scratching, it's what it tastes like"

Honey, no one is too fat for love. Everybody has a soul mate out there somewhere. It's just that you've got to get out there and meet them.

The high percentage of body fat that you have is putting your health at risk, though. You should consider speaking to your GP about a healthy eating and exercise plan.

Good luck with it all hon xxxx

Answer 4

look hun, nobody has to be a certain weight to be able to love or to be loved.

But if this fat % annaliser is correct, it isnt safe or healthy to continue being this weight, perhaps you should focus on looking after you for a while, eat healthy and do some excercise. Not so you can be skinny (where's the fun in skinny) but just so you can get a bit healthy, maybe after this you will begin to feel better about yourself and a bit more positive about love and life. If you dont feel positive about yourself other people can sense that and its a turn off.

Good luck hun!!

Answer 5

start to value yourself

tell yourself that you CAN lose weight and they all better watch out when you have done it coz then all those people who judged you on your looks before will suddenly want to know you

look in the mirror and see the real person behind the size

you are a valuable human being - not a 'thing' to go on scales

be proud of who you are and if and when you fel ready to lose some weight there are plenty of people out there who can help

you don't need to spend a fortune on clubs or gyms you can go to see your gp or health visitor but you can also start to make small changes like using the stairs, even if it means only one flight and using the lift as well or making small diet and exercise changes

i know because i did it a few years ago, i was so fat and depressed i hated myself - i've also had councelling for self esteem because i was getting myself out of an abusive marriage at the time

always believe you can do what ever you set your mind to do, it may not be easy but you CAn achieve your dreams

: - )

Answer 6

I don't know what a pork scratching is...is that a pig or something? but yes, when more than half of your body is pure fat, then you have problems. You need to lose weight and not just to get a bf, but 55% is VERY unhealthy, so you need to do it for yourself so you wont get serious problems later in your life, like diabetes. If you are financially well off, i'd suggest some liposuction. Depending on where you live, you can get a decent bit taken out for $5k. This, combined with some exercise and better eating habbits, will dramatically loser your weight and body fat.

Answer 7

You have nevee had a boyfriend because yoyu didn't try it.How old are you I wonder..but I want to belive that there are still men out there who don't go for the looks only.And being fat doesn't mean that you are not cute and beautiful.

Answer 8

if 55%'s a pork scratching, i'd better put the belly pork away!

Answer 9

well its good that you have humour! your not to fat for love!
Are you happy with yourself! do you want to loose weight! you should never diet just to get a man as that is false! if you feel you want to loose some weight then fine do that but never JUST to find a man! you maybe looking in the wrong places, also how old are you? you may be still growing into your body, most people drop the weight as they get older! if you are really bothered see a doctor for nutrition advice!

Answer 10

What a ridiculous question
No you are NOT too fat for love. You've quite clearly not met the right guy, since all of them you WANT attention from are too cocky to look for what's on the INSIDE, not on the otherside.
And that's the kind of love you REALLY want