Me & my gal make a lot of love making(No sex) and i even touch her b**bs with the clothing.
But whenever i try to remove her top she simply says NO. She is not shy, not fat, but tells it wud be "too extreme."
Gimme sum lines or just about anything to say the next time she refuses.
And yes, i am not pushing or anything just wana say sumthing to let her ease up!
2007-01-28 04:06:33 · 20 answers · asked by Romps 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she is virgin & wants to be virgin!
respect her.
your love & time will solve everything!
2007-01-28 04:18:12 · answer #1 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Instead of trying to use your smooth lines on her to get her to remove her top...why not take a more caring approach and try and determine what her fears and worries are about removing her top. Perhaps she has something she doesn't want you to see (scar, birthmark, etc.). Hopefully it is not a third nipple or anything that may potentially freak you out (ha ha!)...but even if so, try to be more compassionate about her feelings and determining why she has an issue with removing her top instead of pressuring her to do so. If it truly is because she feels it would be too extreme than chances are you guys are both young and inexperienced and she probably doesn;t want to take the risk of having it turn into sex...good for her if this is the case!
2007-01-28 04:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by chick33 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She knows you want sex, its really obvious. She either wants to wait right now, or she has a different reason for not tkaing off the top. She might not like the way she looks under the clothing. There isn't anything you can or should say right now. Wait and keep yourself under control.
2016-03-29 06:26:00 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude how old are you???? "i even touch her boobs with the clothing" removing her top "too extreme"? Youve gotta be in middle school or just starting high school, And if thats the case just chill and find some other chick. You should be going after as many girls as possible that way when you are older you can commit happily when you find the one.
If you are older than high school and you have this problem...jump off a bridge cuz you are LAAAAAME.
2007-01-28 04:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jackson 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do you really love this girl?
well then if u loved her...you would show her some respect by not trying to make a move on her so fast. She'll see that u love her not just for lust. THen she'll let you do whatever you want to her if u treat her with respect and true loves feelings.She might feel NOW that u only want her body, maybe thats why she wont let you. Just take her out to dinner or something really romantic.
2007-01-28 04:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by sailormars_38 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about you ask her why she feels uncomfortable taking off her shirt to begin with? Perhaps she has an abnormality or bad experiences in the past so she's developed some issues.
2007-01-28 04:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What are you on about? Love making is sex.
It's not about what you say that would ease her up, it's all about how you behave. Don't be so desparate, be cool and lovin'.
2007-01-28 04:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude just asure her if what ever happens you will not leve her and will be there through everytime that she needs you by her side
note:This always works
2007-01-28 04:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by CarZ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how long have you been dating? she could simply not feel comfortable with that yet but she will eventually. I would wait for her to be okay with it. By waiting and being patient, she will feel more comfortable with you faster.
2007-01-28 04:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by rachie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just reassure her that you like what she has or you wouldnt be with her, lift her shirt and touch her while commenting how much you like how she feels and what she looks like, she'll get over it...been there
2007-01-28 04:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Respect your girlfriend's boundaries. Do not push her to do anything she is uncomfortable with.
2007-01-28 04:11:09 · answer #11 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋