I have been seperated from my wife for a year now. Also, there were problems with her son for the past year but he has left and joined the Army. My wife claims to love me with all her heart but those words ring hollow. She does not show me the attention & affection I need and she does not value my love.
It has been a year now and I can't go any longer without the attention that I need. I have never been much of a flirt my entire life. However, I awoke last week realizing that that I have tried and tried to woo my wife, (we are seperated), and she will not reciprocate. Sooo, I have started to flirt with other women. I am enjoying their attention. I like it especially when a woman thinks I'm attractive and I find her attractive.
Should I flirt or not?
2007-01-28 04:09:14 · 13 answers · asked by Michelangelo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should move on and find someone that is going to treat you how you want to be treated. Everyone likes attention and wants to feel loved. You deserve that too. Move on and meet new people.
2007-01-28 04:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have communicated with your wife what you need to keep the marriage going and she is not willing to compromise or try to show you that she loves you, then stop trying to stick around while the real Mrs. Right will slip right by.
After the divorce is finalized. You should start dating again.
2007-01-28 12:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seperated from your wife now, why not just get a divorce?? If you and your wife have seperate lives and you want to move on and flirt there is obviously no place for your marriage. I say finish with this seperation with divorce and then move on.
2007-01-28 12:13:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seperated after a divorce, then no there is no problem.
But, if you are seperated taking a break and still married, then I would say be careful with the flirting scene. Flirting sometimes leads into other things. I think that if you are so unhapy, then just divorce her.
2007-01-28 12:24:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweetybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have waited enough - 1 year is a lot. If she has not reciprocated for a year, she is not worth 2nd chance.
You are doing the right thing - forget the past and move on.
2007-01-28 15:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off how much attention did you give to your wife?It is a two way street and I am not speaking about sex.If you love her then give it another try.I know how it is when there are kids involved,no matter if they are your,hers or both.Now that he is out of the picture as far as living with her,give it another try.
2007-01-28 12:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by uncducks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, marriage is admiration, respect, passion and trust.... the four biggies. And if she ain't there, these don't exist.... Weevolved, I think, to be partnered.... I think that's just the way most of us are.... If she's not there, you don't have a marriage....
Not only should you be looking, you should end your marriage so you can find that neat lady to be in your life..... Lots if women, will not date a guy only separate.. they just don't want to be involved in triangles that might still exist... Free yourself up, and find that nice lady.
Good luck, hon
2007-01-28 12:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Forget the wife. She is waiting for someone to come along so that she can emotionally dump you. Flirt on!!!
2007-01-28 12:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting always brings on affairs, so be sure before u go there, that u are really ready for your marriage to end. if your unhappy maybe u need to seek a divorce before u go on to the next step, so no one gets hurt over it.
2007-01-28 12:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Sounds like its time to move on from your wife (as hard as that must be) and find someone else. Go for it!
2007-01-28 12:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by michelle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋