I am getting 2 know this guy in 1 of my classes. I txt'd him and we've been talking for about 2 wks. I told him who I was and we haven't really gotten the chance 2 talk in person yet. The problem is, he has a gf & she thought 4 a sec that I had a relationship w/her bf. I totally get her. Now things are back 2 normal. I can be friends w/him, but I can't ask him 2 go do anything 2gether as friends. I dun want anything more than friendship w/him since he's off limits. But why do I feel the need 2 hear from him? Is that normal? and what should I do? Should I stop talking 2 him because I don't want 2 make a big mistake that can't be erased...
2007-01-28 04:19:25 · 5 answers · asked by ginie_in_a_bottle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm getting 2 know a guy in 1 of my classes. I txt'd w/him for about 1 1/2 wk b4 I told him who I was. We've talked 2 each other in person, but not like I wanted 2, because we hardly get the chance. We do txt now and then, but he's off limits so it's just based on friendship. His gf did find out that we're txting& she got mad 'cause he has this rep and ppl keep talkin about it. He showed her that we're just friends and now everything's normal. She doesn't mind us being friends, but I can't ask him 2 hang out or anything. The big q is why everytime I see him at school I try 2 avoid him only not 2 talk 2 him? Because when I talk 2 him, I forget what I want 2 say. My mind just goes blank and everything that I planned on saying just disappears. Is that even normal?? How can I build up a good friendship if that happens??
2007-01-30 08:59:58 · update #1
We've talked 2 each other in person by now, but not like I wanted 2, because we hardly get the chance. We do txt now and then. The big q is why everytime I see him at school I try 2 avoid him only not 2 talk 2 him? Because when I talk 2 him, I forget what I want 2 say. My mind just goes blank and everything that I planned on saying just disappears. Is that even normal?? How can I build up a good friendship if that happens??
2007-01-30 09:02:49 · update #2
The more you think about him the more you'll want to be with him. Let go. There's plenty of fish in the sea. If he hasn't talked to you in person yet, drop it! He's just not that into you girl.
2007-01-28 04:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U like him, and want him, and being that he off limits, it makes you want him more, without even knowing that. Just be his friend, you never know... Don't stop talking to him, because it would make everything weird. Then his gf would probably believe that its because u wanted him and he's takin so you stop talking to him, and he'd think that also.
2007-01-28 12:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u truely don't want to break up his relationship then u need to back off.If it is meant to be.Then it will happen without your help.If u break them up u will not only feel guilty but you'll be known for breaking them up. Be patience and just wait. You want to hear from him because u like him.So u need to back away...When he is free then make your move..It's hard but the right thing to do.Good luck
2007-01-28 12:29:58 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well babe, maybe you rle rle rle like him and you just cant admit it to urself.but i ttly get where ur comin 4rom.same thing happened to me except the texing but newayz...if he likes you, u wouldve heard 4rom him by now and sweetie, no guy is worth it if he wont talk to you.
2007-02-05 12:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by i ♥ jimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like guys that have girlfriends.
2007-01-28 12:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by shaun_empire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋