ok so i like this guy and i want to ask him out but i kind of dont because im not allowed to date till im 16 (which is a few years away) and i REALLY like him but whenever i decide to ask him out i decide not to the next day! HELP!
2007-01-28 04:11:29 · 7 answers · asked by Ginny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so ive already been on 2 real dates before both with my parents knowing i was going to go on a third last year when my parents started to crack down on everything! they really dont trust me much anymore...
2007-01-28 04:26:34 · update #1
if you really love him follow your heart. the whole thing with your parents not letting you date i had the same problem i just told them we were going out and that i really liked him. it is mainly a trust thing with parents they want to see if they can trust you enough to let them know you like someone and you two are going out.
2007-01-28 04:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your situation I would consider doing the group date thing. Im sure you are already chatting with this guy so get a couple of your girlfriends together and have him get a couple of his guy friends together and go catch a school basketball game, go to a movie, bowling, pizza etc. as a group.
This way you can go on a kinda date while respecting your parents wishes (not getting in trouble), hang out with your guy and see if you really like him and have the pressure of dating lessened because your in a group environment (no awkward silence if your both nervous). Better yet you might be able to set up one of your girlfriends! Good luck!!
2007-01-28 04:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jackson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to date he guy invite him to see a movie with some of your friends and some of his own. Then itll look like a teenager social thing to the parents and you can have your date, however it may be not as private as you like. go for it, life's too short
2007-01-28 04:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend for now if you are not allowed to date. No pressure just relax and have fun, everything will fall into place when the time is right. You have lots of time.
2007-01-28 04:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you need to make your mind up first, you cant change your mind the next day or hs going to think your messing him about. Once you have done this, If you do want to be with him :
ask him out. if he says yes perfect!
if he says no, o well theres pently more fish in the sea.
i dont get why you cant be together till your 16 sorry?
xxx
2007-01-28 04:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait and let him ask you out. Then ask your parents. Patience is a virtue.
2007-02-05 03:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really like this guy then I can tell you this " RULES ARE MEANT TO BE BROKEN!"
2007-02-04 22:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋