Family & Relationships - 28 January 2007

I have got to know this girl real well at college. We hung out a lot first semester and we both told each other that we liked each other. We kissed a few times and made out once for a while. She seemed to be enjoying it because she thanked me for coming over. She told me that I was the kind of guy that she wanted to meet in college. Over our winter break we called each other and hung for a day at a waterpark which was fun. Now after the first week back to college she tells me that she is not sure what she wants and tells me that she would rather have me as a friend then not have me as anything at all. I DO NOT want to fall into the friends zone because there is no getting out of that. Please give me some useful knowledge that I can apply to this situation. I would like to hear what some girls think about this. Thanks.

2007-01-28 04:04:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Happy as he may seem, he is really torn up inside. Every day he wakes up in this **** hole he calls home, puts the headphones on and heads off to school. as he waits on the bus he sits there and thinks. He thinks about all the problems in his life, then she gets on
and his problems go away, he thinks about how bad he wants her but he knows she is out of his league. People tell him she is messing with his head when really it is him messing with his own head. she treats him so great and he took it the wrong way. As confused as he was he did what he was advised, talked to her about it. he becomes nervous and it comes out wrong, he thought she was leading him on when he was only seeing what he wanted to see. Now she wont talk to him and he realises that he had something so great with her, friendship but he wanted more, he finally understands she was right. it was better off this way,

2007-01-28 04:04:06 · 12 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Singles & Dating

im in 7th and hes in 8th...do you think that is ok? i mean i know it is but whats your opinion?

2007-01-28 04:03:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A co-worker/girlfriend asked me why I wasn't married.
I'm over 40 and have never been married.
That's a question a lot of single women are asked but get this.
The co-worker/girlfriend that asked the question has never been married and is 35.
It gets deeper.
She is 300-400lbs.
I felt like she was the pot calling the kettle black.
I really haven't spoken with her since.
I felt like she over stepped her bounds.
It was also the way she asked the question.
She asked the question like a nosy person who gets in your business.
If she would have said, you are attractive, smart, outgoing, blah, blah, blah.
Maybe I wouldn't have been as ticked off.
I just want to know what kind of responses would you have given to her question?

2007-01-28 04:03:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Typical man wanting the best of both????!!!!

2007-01-28 04:02:33 · 20 answers · asked by whyowhyowhysocomplicated 1 in Singles & Dating

I have an ex-girlfriend who is a real b itch. While we were together she posed nude for several photos that I still have. We have not been together for a long time and she is still being a b itch to me, and purposely trying to make my life hell every chance she gets. So should I put the photos on the internet to get back at her?

2007-01-28 04:00:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lets be honest...if the opposite sexx was so great....there wouldnt be as much divorce , now would there?
Why do u think little boys and little girls dont play together...they hate each other! It is only AFTER hormones kick in that they want to get together.

2007-01-28 04:00:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex girlgriend just invited my best mate to her house and they are playing xbox and ps2:S...am i being a total paranoid a hole or is summin happnin...altho he alreadt has a gf

2007-01-28 03:58:54 · 15 answers · asked by shishuzy 1 in Singles & Dating

Today, my neighbour stopped me in the street and said that she can hear my girlfriend and me making love through the walls (My gf is very loud and we do have a great time in bed!). This neighbour said that it made her feel jealous of my gf as she hasn't had one org.asm in 10 years of marriage. She stroked my shoulder and walked off. It made me think. This lady is in her 30s, very beautiful, nice body. Should I offer to help her out - purely as an act of kindness?

2007-01-28 03:58:53 · 26 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll slip in a rubberery suprise! Are you game?

2007-01-28 03:57:01 · 16 answers · asked by to hot to handle 1 in Singles & Dating

Soon to be 16 and having read the quotation 'When I became a man I put away childish things', I have mentally consigned all my stuff to the store cupboard. Now I'm left with nothing to do.

2007-01-28 03:56:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you, as a woman, fall easier for: a bumbling slacker, or a go-go eighties reaganaut career chaser ?

2007-01-28 03:56:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1- A 5'1 100lb state champion gymnast, with brown/almost black hair and deep blue almost violet eyes, She has a great personality and is looking for a somewhat serious relationship, but doesnt get serious on the first date, and is a virgin, she is always sweet, even when you break up with her
OR
2- A 5'6 157lb 3rd place conference Swimmer with blonde hair and brown eyes, She has a good personality,Is open to any type of relationship but gets serious fast, but is not a virgin
She is usually sweet, but can get mad easily
Please answer and say why you choose the one you do!!
THANX!!
This is just a bet between my friend and I about our g/f's.

2007-01-28 03:56:47 · 9 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone claims they are a minister and they never went to anykind of ministerial degree program can they asume the duties of a minister anyway. Do they have to register at the court house and make a "public statement" that they are in deed acting
as such. Does that make them "legal" to marry and bury people.

2007-01-28 03:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by Paul 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok...
i haven't seen my dad in 3 years now. he was an alcoholic and drug addict and he abused my mother and family but never physically, just verbally and emotionaly. when i was 12, me, my mum and my brothers and sister had to leave the house in the night because we were too scared to stay. he saw us and tried to grab my little brother and told him he loved him and he wanted him to stay with him because my mum was a bad person. he kept shouting and crying and it was just horrible. i still have flashbacks of that day...
so he moved to another flat and we had to go and visit him every sunday. i dont really remember much of that except that it was very awkwardand i didn't like it. eventually, my mum decided she didn't want us to see him anymore, so she went to court about it. the judge said that i didn't have to see him because i was old enough not too, but the others did. i was 13 then. now i'm 16.
he met a woman on the internet shortly after and moved to italy to live with her. but it

2007-01-28 03:54:19 · 15 answers · asked by Emma :) 4 in Family

I just met a girl about to days ago at a dance. How long shouulld i wait to call her?

2007-01-28 03:54:04 · 5 answers · asked by TJC Gamer 2 in Singles & Dating

My cuz and i are quite close

2007-01-28 03:54:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm a 16 year old girl and currently stuck with a dilemma. I used to live in a small town when i was little and then moved to a larger city, but this year I moved back to the small town. There is this guy who I shared the puppy love of younger years with, and we became good friends. He goes out and goes partying, sometimes illegally. He wants me to go with, but he knows and respects that I will not partake in anything illegal. Our school only can punish you for being at an illegal party if you either distributed it, or were in possesion of it. So i'm pretty safe. I really want to go, and I know that he would never make me do anything I didn't want to do, but something about the whole situation feels kinda weird. What should I do?

2007-01-28 03:52:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I miss my daugher terribly, I send a lot of money every month to the child support office in Texas who sends it to Georgia.

I live in texas and my daugher lives in Georgia. My daughter's mother has not contacted me for two years and my daugher used to sneak and call me when her mother was sleep however, I have not gotten a call in over a year. I send birthday cards and christmas gifts but never any reply. I have continued to send my $900 support obligation every month in spite of this. where can I get some help???? When I ask the TX child support office- they say it is Georgia's call on visitation. If I don't get any help soon= I think I may do something drastic. I hate this situation.

Is it possible for me to find out where my kid lives? If anyone can refer a good Georgia Family Lawyer, it would be appreciated.

2007-01-28 03:51:18 · 5 answers · asked by jimmyluger 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well other day i caught him going out with other girl and i got upset and i dont know what to do because he is my true love and i am hurt so should i dump him or keep dating him but have no trust in him

2007-01-28 03:50:13 · 17 answers · asked by coolgirlsoccer2003 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-28 03:49:40 · 16 answers · asked by Harriet 5 in Weddings

When I was 12-16 years old, I used to talk to myself. Whenever I was sad and lonely, that was a thing I did, talk to myself.

Anyways, I used to like this boy in middle school and he told me he liked me too. BUt than, one day, he saw me walking down the stairs talking to myself. So, now he don't like me no more.

Right now, I'm almost 19, I go to school with the same people that I went to school in Middle school so they think I'm the same girl who used to talk to herself. Whenever I have problems, I talk with family and friends.

How can I face the people who used to see me as that weird, crazy girl?

2007-01-28 03:49:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Dont Jews have good-looking woman?

Dont these women care that their children will lose their faith, be doomed to hell, etc?

2007-01-28 03:48:56 · 4 answers · asked by wonderwhy2100 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he's in a long-term long-distance relationship. I told him I liked him and that it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is he's ignoring me and has been for the past 4 weeks. Last week, was my birthday and I got a card from some coworkers. He wrote Happy Birthday in it, but didn't sign his name and he's till not talking to me.

2007-01-28 03:48:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm only attracted to guys who are really clever, and if they say stupid things, i loose interest.

2007-01-28 03:48:43 · 4 answers · asked by dasistgut_15 2 in Singles & Dating

heres the deal my neighbors mom is in the army then she got cancer next the house she lives in burnt down she has 2 kids and they have almost no clothes for school what do you guys think i can do to help i am on student consil so i thought maybe a fund raiser like a bake sale how does that sound plz help :-)

2007-01-28 03:47:29 · 7 answers · asked by PatsLax39 2 in Friends

2007-01-28 03:46:21 · 35 answers · asked by dgoree060805 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Need to get revenge on a friend.. we have a little joke war going on and it's my turn!!!

2007-01-28 03:45:55 · 16 answers · asked by whyowhyowhysocomplicated 1 in Friends

I filed for divorce in late 06 and i am gettin ready to go to court after waiting 90 days, but i just found out that my divoce decree , which was prepared by a paralegal, says , on this day of ________ of 2006..., when it should say 2007. Will that be a problem ? Would the judge reject it for that error? Anyone with something similar? I am very nervous as i dont know what to expect , any comments are welcome.

2007-01-28 03:45:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

U know a lot of tounge and slobber. And he spins with his tounge like a windmill! I don't want to tell him but how can i make him kiss normaly. I AM NOT GONNA TELL HIM!

2007-01-28 03:44:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating