U know a lot of tounge and slobber. And he spins with his tounge like a windmill! I don't want to tell him but how can i make him kiss normaly. I AM NOT GONNA TELL HIM!
2007-01-28 03:44:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has had 4 gf.
2007-01-28 03:51:52 · update #1
maybe he is new at kissing, and try directing his tounge when u kiss
2007-01-28 03:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't know? If a guy or man is kissing and trying to use his tongue, it means he is trying to get you turned on. I do not know of anyone that would do that and not be after your body, whatever lady was with them. It is best, although sometimes hard, to save yourself for one man and for marriage. It is possible and it makes the marriage much more loving and less vulnerable... This is not the usual belief as most want to suggest all will have SEX before they marry as it is inevitable! It is not and it is possible even for the hormone driven male! The average male has 10x the hormone, testosterone, than the average girl and this is why we men have a much greater desire to have intimacy and go all the way. But one can wait for marriage and I know some couples who have! Giving your girl slurps means he wants to go all the way..If you want God's ways in your life, wait for marriage... Earl
2007-02-05 05:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha! It's funny how different people kiss differently. I've kissed a few "labrador's" in my time. In fact, my wife's kissing style wasn't exactly my style, and I don't think I ever told her, we just adapted a bit to each other's style. I think the best thing you can do is try to lead by example. You initiate the kissing with closed mouth, then gently lead into slightly open mouth kissing. Don't allow so much room in your mouth, and he'll have no choice but to slow down a little and adapt more to your style. Try to make him pay more attention to your lips, and less to your tongue. Happy Kissing!
2007-02-05 10:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by fluffyhead42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he probably is not a very experienced kisser. I have a guy now and im afraid to let him kiss me to long because I can't kiss! Just tell your boyfriend..."maybe we should do something a little different today.....something slow and romantic.....let me take control" he may like the fact that your going to "pleasure" him. after you kiss the way you want, "say that was the best kissing we've ever done" he will get the picture and try to kiss like that more often so u like it.
2007-01-28 11:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by cleo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time your talking about kissing say "i love it when guys do ...... i hate it when theres lot of tounge and slobber and he spins with his tounge like a windmil" you dont have to say your talking about him, but hel probably think "i should be more like that, i should be less like that"
2007-01-28 11:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by dasistgut_15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While he is sitting down, you should straddle him. Then give him a sexy look and tell him that you want to kiss him. Let him know that he is NOT to do anything, that this is for him. Make sure you say it in a sexy way. Then kiss him the way that you want to be kissed.
2007-02-05 00:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to try kissing in other ways. Gentle kisses (with or without tongue) and rather than tell him he's a bad kisser, show him how you like to be kissed. I've done this and it works. The "sloppy" kisses can sneak past once in awhile, but kissing is very intimate and you want to enjoy it. So tell him what you DO like rather than what you don't.
2007-01-28 11:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. L 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to kiss him slowly, but that can end up messy too. The last guy I kissed just kinda flapped his tongue into my mouth, and I had to like suck on it. If y'all are together, you should be confortable enough to talk to him about his kissing habits. If you can't talk to him about this, than you won't be able to talk about important stuff, like sex when the time comes
2007-02-05 07:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out by asking him what he would like you to change to making love more pleasurable for him...This might encourage him to ask you the same question.This will give you an open opportunity to tell him what turns you on.
2007-01-28 12:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by oohJOHNNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be Cary Grant when it comes to kissing but from your description I bet he is wonderful at something else.
>wink<
2007-02-05 10:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋