well other day i caught him going out with other girl and i got upset and i dont know what to do because he is my true love and i am hurt so should i dump him or keep dating him but have no trust in him
2007-01-28 03:50:13 · 17 answers · asked by coolgirlsoccer2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust is the relationship. If you cant trust him then its no point. If you know for sure that he cheated on you, then you have to break up with him. You have to be strong, dont let anyone take advantage of you. If he's passionate about what he did then he'll work hard to get you back, and the rest is your decision.
2007-01-28 03:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys just dating? Did he say he wants to date other women and did he say he's dating this girl? If not, he totally went behind your back, sneaking behind you back! With another woman hoping he wouldn't get caught by you. If I were you, I know I wouldn't trust him. If he can't come clean with you on this, dump him. You're not going to get used and you are better than that, girl! This isn't true love. You will find true love and you will know it when you find it, the men will always be with you no matter what :) Good luck.
2007-01-28 11:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by rspheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him! he has no respect for u. if he loved u too he wouldn't be cheating on u. there are other fish in the sea. you'll find someone who really cares bout u and respects u and you'll respect him and love him back. that will be ur true love. good luck getting over him. "love deeply and passionately. you might get hurt again but it's the only way to live life completly"
2007-01-28 12:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by ch3rryontop2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so let me get this straight:you guys are dating but you caught him going out with another girl? ok not good. he's keeping his options open by going out with other girls so he has a lot of options to decide from. thats not fair to you and its low. let him go and move on. realize that if he was your true love he wouldnt be doing that to you. dont get caught up in the drama. you may like him a lot, but get out now before you start loving him for real!
2007-01-28 11:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Trust is the foundation of any strong relationship.
2007-01-28 11:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u have no trust for him, than u need to dump him and move forward in life. if u caught him with someone else he doesn't value u or the relationship, his heart isn't in it.
2007-01-28 12:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not your true love if he's seeing others. You're setting yourself up for becoming a door matt if you keep seeing him. A girl without pride is just a piece of meat and that's how boys see her. You'll actually get more respect if you respect yourself more.
2007-01-28 11:56:31 · answer #7 · answered by TJTB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first make sure that he actually went out with her and if he did find out why. if u can still trust him and believe that he wont do it again, go for it. but if he screws up again, then dump him and move on.
2007-01-28 11:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Blondie!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont have the right to tell you dump him!!!
look at your relationship.
can he trust the relation?!
did you tell him i love you directly or you just dated him & want him to understand it by him self?!
i think dumping him or staying with him all depends on you self & the type of your relationship.
2007-01-28 11:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by M*K*H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, but i cant tell u what to do.I gave my opinion, but just know it could be mistake and that it might be real. I'm just a guy so I wish u luck.
2007-01-28 11:55:56 · answer #10 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋