We have a beautiful son together, so I go see him at her house several days a week, and sometimes when she is there w/ the guy or alone, and she knows I am going out w/ some other girls, she will act kind of jealous, and sometimes when her boyfriend is not there, she will walk around the house in the nude, I just turn away and don't look. Does this mean anything?
2007-01-28 04:06:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she really isn't sure of what she wants to do, is trying to see if she can get u to react to her, may just be an ego thing, may be she is trying to get u back. as long as she is with the other man she can't begin to think about you. if she were sincere she would leave him. why not have a talk with her and see where her heart is at. maybe she wants her cake and wants to eat it too.
2007-01-28 04:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she doesn't respect you or truly have real feelings for you. She cheated on you and left you, how much more are you willing to let her do to you? She didn't try and work out any problems with you..she took the child you shared together and started a new life with a new guy. Now she is attempting to tempt you to be intimate with her because she wants this new guy buy also wants you as well. Chances are she's not 100% happy where she is so now she wants both because you both have qualities she likes. I think now's the time to start taking the son away from the house for visits or visiting when the new guy is home only. You don't want to find yourself in an awkward situation or a situation where you let your emotions get the best of you and become intimate with her knowing she will never come back to you. So it overall it really doesn't matter how she feels about you now...she's shown how valuable you are to her through her behavior. There's nothing to else to know.
2007-01-28 12:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come right out and ask her why she has been behaving as she has - and use specific examples. You may have misunderstood some of her signals - but, then again, you may not. The walking around in the nude is bizarre; does she do that when your son is present? If yes, you may just want to say something to her because of your son.
You need to get this resolved - and it wouldn't hurt to remember that she did leave you. You have the right to clear the air with her - in a calm and reasonable manner - and to get on with your life, if that's your choice. It's never good to just let things ride; you deserve some sort of resolution to all this - plus the right to decide and act upon what's best for you. Good luck!
2007-01-28 12:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by MomBear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she still has feelings for you but feels bad for leaving you for that other guy. But she can't leave that other guy because then she'd feel bad all over again or because she thinks you won't take her back.HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!
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2007-01-28 12:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She walks around nude in front of you when her boyfriend is not there? Well, I think it is time to "retap" if you catch my drift.
2007-01-28 12:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she is just messing with your head. leave her alone and get on with your life.
2007-01-28 12:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just weird.
2007-01-28 12:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a tramp and is playing with you.
2007-01-28 12:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋