I asked him out to the movies. He said "when"... I said "Maybe this weekend"... I had to go to class so he said "He'd talk to me tomorrow".
Tomorrow came around, and he must have forgot. I didn't want to bring it up because I wanted to see if he showed interest in going to the movies. That night he did send me an email saying "He'd forgot to ask today, and to give him a call and work out a time".
I seen him the next day and when he was giving me a drive home, I mentioned it. We were just talking about a day, and said his schedule was really busy... except for a Monday or Thursday. I kept suggesting the weekend. And I said "If you don't want to go, We don't have to"
He quickly dismissed this saying "Yeah, we should go."
Ok, so... We didn't work out a time, but he said he'd still go to the movies.
Is he just playing with my head, or does he really want to go out with me?
We've been good friends for a long time, so I am just wondering if he is just doing this to be nice tome
2007-01-28 04:45:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, this is a very familiar situation I had.
If he says "Yeah, we should go." Then you guys should go.
It seems like he likes you but is trying to hide his emotions and is playing it off cool and casual.
Does he lead a busy life? Because he may actually be telling you the truth and that all the days he can go to the movies is Monday and Thursday. Don't you think sacrificing one of his free days for going to the movies with you and saying that you guys should go means that he may actually like you?
2007-01-28 04:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by wordwaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Your bloke is a wet lettuce and if he was any cooler he would freeze up altogether. My take on the situation is he lives with mum, and works in the public sector.
If I had a girlie interested in me I would take her out as a priority to find out what she was like. EVERYONE has a story and that is a priceless virtue. You are probably analysing the situation too carefully and, I have to say, if you find yourself doing that then there really is no fun in the event. If you have been friends for a long time then going out should be as natural as falling off a log.
2007-01-28 13:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by yakatang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the problem you and that guy both have busy schedules and he said that he's going to the movies whats the problem
2007-01-28 12:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by day shaun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I feel he is interested but not ultimately, keep on your movie date but don't suggest going out any more, let him take this move next, have fun and don't worry
2007-01-28 12:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by zozza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if you've been good friends for so long, this is probably so casual for him that he doesn't see how big a deal it is to you. Maybe he doesn't know your interest goes deeper?
2007-01-28 12:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Omni D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt sound like a bad dude so my guess is he's just to nervous and shy to go through with it
2007-01-28 12:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Gillotine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be carful he might just just not want to hurt you
2007-01-28 12:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetness this guy is really not interested.
pull back and make him come to you,...if he doesn't therein lies your answer.
2007-01-28 12:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋