Guys: do you feel differently about a girl after she sleeps with you?

Question

I gave it up on the 3rd date...

Answer 1

if a guy genuinely likes a girl & respects her, then this wouldnt make him feel differently. if he wasnt genuinely into the girl, then he would have split w/ or w/out the sex. my brother told me that sometimes a guy will stick around for a few f u c k s but he'll still cut out eventually.jmo.

Answer 2

It depends on the guy. Its a context thing- how long have you known each other etc. I think it depends on how much he likes you as well. In fact you yourself have an insight and an intuition (having been there ;)) about how he reacted.

Look maybe dumb guys would think differently, but a good guy wouldn't. Its that simple. I mean you're a person that he likes. so although things change somewhat after sex, its not the emotional shift that women experience (generalising here) where feel as if they should fall in love, but at the same time a good guy will have a similar regard for you as before he slept with you, but feel closer.

And if he's not a good guy then, you've had you're fun and you move on. Good Luck

Answer 3

It depends. If the sleeping was just based on some infactuation, even the question has to be altered. It ought to have been " what do you feel about a girl who volunteered to have sex with one person." Sleeping is supposed to result only after establishing a relation. both partners are supposed to know each other. If strangers are going to spend their night together, there is nothing more than sex in it. Forget and feeling about any body. So if a girl whom you respected, loved and wanted, sleeps with you on your insistence and out of emotional attachment, you feel bound; bound with a feeling of oneness. On the contrary, if a girl whom you considered " Difficult" suddenly falls for it and agrees to sleep with you. you will definitely look down upon her.

Answer 4

It all depends on the guy. Some guys become total *** holes afterwards, and think they can get away with being an idiot. Some will be nicer to you, and understand that it's going to be different, but not in a bad way. Careful though, once you have sex there's no turning back, so expect him wanting to sleep with you again. But just have fun with it and try not to worry

Answer 5

I depends on if u mean "sleep" or just layed in bed with you. IIt would bother decent guys. When you sleep wih someone and nothing happens, it's okay. If something happens it could have a long dramatic effect, because theres pressure on stds, and if you got her pregnant, stuff like that. But it depends on the guys mentality

Answer 6

you probally shouldnt do that again, trust me. I gave it up to my ex boyfriend on the second date...he broke up with me 2 days later. ive been used so many times, I realized that next time im gonna wait until im in love, you should probally do that too. we deserve respect from guys, we shouldnt let them mistreat us like a disposable. yes, the guy you slept with may think differently of you

Answer 7

How old are you? Anyways... I'm a virgin so i would'nt know, but for you to "give it up" that fast , i would feel that you were kinda easy honestly. You need to make him beg for it. We enjoy the chase. Better yet, don't give it up anymore. Unless it was a genuine expression of love, you just gave yourself up for nothing.

Answer 8

There's like 10 diff answers for that. Sex makes it more emotive and so he will be more loving..... Does a man respect a girl more after sex? Not less and not more. Like he did it with her so he's not taking moral high ground or anything.

Answer 9

yess !!
Its like a crest u fall and be either ditched or reach another peak. But it hs to b there without this luv has no rewards to b in. Just enzoy the waves.

Answer 10

Not really. If I'm interested I'll be looking forward to date four. If not, there probably wouldn't have been a date four anyway (I'm just not that patient).

Good luck.