I'm not going to get married any time soon. But I already know who I will be with. She has been my best friend since second grade, and since last year we have been romantic and sexual with each other. I think I will end up marrying her. Am I too young to be thinking about that?
2007-01-28 04:48:03 · 18 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. But for sure, don't get her pregnant. Finish your schooling, and she as well, go to college, she as well, so that you can provide for yourselves a nice life. Don't have any children until your marriage is solid, and each of you is well into your 20's. Realize that you may have known each other since you were each 3, and you may well grow up, marry, and stay married, and how lovely. And do all you can to be sure that it will be a success by making sure each of you individually is a success so that the two of you together in your marriage will even be more successful.
Often two people meet very early in their lives, and think that marriage is in their future.... Then they have a child, and quit school..... and suddely, it is all over.... children are divisive, not bonding.... screaming kid at 2am, vomit in the bed, fussiness for no reason, and here is this third demanding thing in your life, way before your bond was strong enough and mature enough to stand this trauma.
Stay kind and sweet toward each other, get educated, grow together, and remain childress until you are both adults, and likely you will have a lovely life.
Remember that marriage is respect, admiration, passion and trust --- the four biggies. Keep those for each other, learn to solve problems without rage and do the stuff above.... have a nice life... that is what it is for... good luck, hon
2007-01-28 05:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
At this young age, it's more of an infatuation. It's quite possible that you will break hearts or yours will get broken still... it's life, and it sucks!
Enjoy what you have today for what it is. You can dream of being with this person as much as you want to, but be realistic about your age and your life experiences.
The world is huge! The best experiences are still to come for you. This is the most difficult time in a young woman's life, and that things are going so great for you is wonderful... but remember, just as fast as they are wonderful, they can turn ugly quick..
The most important thing you should always remember is that life moves on, and tomorrow will always come, it's up to you what you get out of it.
Best of luck, best in love, and best in life... and DO be safe in sex, regardless of who you are with.
2007-02-03 22:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by swilkes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid, yes you are too young. Don't even think about marriage until you are in your late 20s. Also, sleep with a few people before you decide to get married.
2007-02-01 22:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's bad to realize that you are going to need certain qualities from a future spouse...BUT....being 15 and believing you already have the person picked out, is normal 15 year old behavior. It's more than likely not who you think it will be at this age. Plus you don't really know who you are until about 28. You will think you know....until you really find out through life's trials and tribulations. Be safe.
2007-01-28 12:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
15 too young to think about it - I think it is normal at that age to at least think about it. This person may be the person you marry, and maybe not, but I think it is quite normal for teenagers to begin thinking about who they will marry. I remember the first girl I thought about marrying - I asked her to marry me when I was 10 (so I was already thinking about it). No, I never married her, but I was thinking about it and I guess I turned out pretty normal!
2007-01-28 13:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you really are too young to think about this right now... I would wait till at least 17 years of age to even starting thinking about it. Enjoy your youth and have fun. If she is the right one for you then she will lbe there when you are ready to think about marriage in a few years and when you are ready to settle down as an adult.
2007-01-28 12:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not to young. But your young and things change when you get older. people change. You will have a lot of things to look forward to when you move out of your parents house assuming you still live with them and going to college or starting a career which ever is in your future. its a lot to take in and sometimes people just go their seperate ways. I was dating a guy in high school same age as you and we dated till i left for college. I was hanging out with some friends, some boys some girls, and he got really possesive tried to tell me i was cheating on him cuz i wouldnt spend two hours on the phone when we had been talken every day for an hour.. but thats just my story. Im just saying be happy now and worry about other things when they get here. no need to rush.
(PS>i did not cheat on him but after he threatened my room mate(girl) i had to break it off.)
2007-02-03 11:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by proudtobeme_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are too young to be thinkin about that and I would at least wait until I am like 17 or 18 before I start thinkin bout that!
2007-01-28 12:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by brandibabe07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have so much life to live. Focus on you and what you want to be in life. You can't be sure, at your age, who you'll end up marrying. People change as they get older. It's all about you now. Slow down, buddy!
peace
2007-02-02 21:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jessie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
You have years ahead of you. People change as they grow older and have different life experiences. What you think is true now may not be over time.
2007-01-28 12:55:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋