My Bestfried has a "momma's boy" for a husband. She says that she does not feel important anymore and he is always comparing her to his sister, telling my bestfriend that she is jealous of his sister. Now i'm not sure what to tell her. He thinks his sister is so "beautiful" but she's more so flaunts herself around trying to act as though she's all that even though this chick is married.
What shuold she do... how can this be solved. Plus he tells his mom everything and she thinks he may even be keeping secrets that he won't tell her that the family talks about.
2007-01-28 04:46:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs to sit her husband down, and talk to him, tell him it is time to try and make their marriage work. The next time he compares her to his sister, tell him she is not his sister, and if that is the type of person he wanted for a wife, then he should have married someone like her. Tell him you are not jealous of her, that you like her, it is just you are always comparing the two of you. Also tell him, what goes on in your house whole should be private. that he needs to be a man, and stand on his own two feet. Say I love your family, but it is like you are the one who is trying to divide us. now if she is still having problems, then they need to go for counseling!
2007-01-28 04:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a "momma's boy" for (6 years). From experience, sorry to say that it will NEVER change. As time goes on it will get worse and now that his mom knows everything. It's only AMMO to use against your best friend. It won't be easy, but, I would suggest for your best friends sake to get out of it. I hope this helps??
2007-01-28 12:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of weirdo goes on about how beautiful his sister is?
Does that not sound a bit freaky to you?
Also he obviously has no ******* balls if he's running to mommy all the time, he's ****** up and pathetic,
Tell your friend to:
RUN AWAY FROM THIS FREAKY FAMILY AND NEVER COME BACK!!!
2007-01-28 12:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Delete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend need's to talk to her husband.What does she think he is telling his family that she does not know about.It sound's like they have a trust issue.Trust is everything in a relationship/marriage without trust you have nothing.Your friend need's simply to talk to her husband..
2007-01-28 12:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something isn't right to me. I'd just leave him because you can't change a mama's boy.
2007-01-28 13:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to dump him and get someone who loves her and does not put her down like that.,
2007-01-28 12:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should leave this guy, he shoulds like a ***
2007-01-28 12:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋