My boyfriend and I broke up a couple of months ago. We are now, I guess friends with benefits. I still love him, but how do I tell him?
2007-01-28 04:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by lynn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've been in this same situation ... for me i just sat my girlfriend down and had a heart to heart with her and told her how i felt etc. it then turned out that she still loved me, a few weeks later we got back together. you should take things slow, give them time and just see how things turn out
2007-01-28 04:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by dawsonboy09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have stayed friends with benefits. Then what is the whole purpose of breaking up? You are just giving him liberty to be with other women while being also with you. He sees that he can have you while having liberty to do what he wants so, why would he want to get back with you?. If you have feelings for him I suggest you sit with him and let him know and ask him if everything can be back like it used to when you were boyfriends. If he says "NO" then tell him the whole benefits situation has to stop. Do stop it completly if he doesn't want to be your boyfriend. Have respect for yourself. I know it's hard, but if he doesn't want to be with you then you are losing time to go out there again and find yourself someone worth being with you that will respect you.
Take Care and Good Luckl!
2007-01-28 04:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by PiZzA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits, hmmmm. Why torture yourself with an attachment that obviously means alot to you and possibly not enough to him. You are still close enough to still have benefits I would think you should be able to just be forward on your feelings. After your next benefit tell him you would like the current situation to mean more, you want all of him and are not interested in sharing yourself or him with anyone else. If he ever loved you he will agree and all will be well.
2007-01-28 04:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by jillybean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits??? For who???
Release and fun for him, pregnacy and a hard life for you.
Get over him, he is using you, Get a new person to make a life with. Stop living in the past, with a one sided relationship
2007-01-28 04:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by bob shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him find out how he feels and then tell him how u feel since ya'll broke up.
2007-01-28 04:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by pretty girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋