Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

My bridesmaid is my cousin and the best man is my fiance's brother

2007-01-25 18:45:59 · 13 answers · asked by angelicpanda27 3 in Weddings

I married my high school sweetheart. I couldn't wait to be married to him and now that i am, i have falling in love with my ex. I see my ex everyday at work which makes it no easier. I am so confused about what to do. and i have only been married for 1 month. I feel horrible but i can't help how i feel. There both great guys and i feel like i don't deserve either of them. And suggestions??????????? what would u do?

2007-01-25 18:45:28 · 22 answers · asked by curiouskitty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 18:44:41 · 6 answers · asked by weird_ques 1 in Weddings

2007-01-25 18:44:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

12 years ago my mother got custody of me and sister my mam had a partner who she later married but i went to live with me dad just after they married they have been divorced for two years seperated 2 years prior to that please help me we are very much in love he is 35 im 22

2007-01-25 18:44:29 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

12 years ago my mother got custody of me and sister my mam had a partner who she later married but i went to live with me dad just after they married they have been divorced for two years seperated 2 years prior to that please help me we are very much in love he is 35 im 22

2007-01-25 18:44:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my aunt's estate. A will was never made, but a living trust was. Are they recorded, and if so, where? Again, there's real property and Approx $700k that now has diwndilled to less than $300k. Ummmm. Where did that extra $$ go?

2007-01-25 18:42:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi I am 35 years old man. Been married for 14 years. My sexual life is negligible for the past 10 years or so. Got two children. I am very much tempted to have relationship outside marriage. I have had one or two short sexual encounters but have always thought of my famli first. I love my wife and children but sex is a major problem i dont want any harm come to them. But I have got enormous sex drive. Tried and gone tired talking to my wife but to no avail. Exhausted all possible means. I know no counselling will affect her. She just too busy and in indian culture ( not always true though) once you have kids that's it, sex life is gone out of window. I end up getting frustrated and having argument. I feel like crap then. I bet she thinks I am some sexual freak or maniac. But i got desires and been blessed with enormous appetite for sex. Alternative, look for sex on the internet with no strings attached. Do you think am i doing right?

2007-01-25 18:42:43 · 31 answers · asked by indian_hunk_no1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Something I've always wondered: How is it dealt with if one is several months, or a year older than their girlfriend or boyfriend? Technically, they'd be breaking the law, right? Does it really matter if the age gap is that small?

2007-01-25 18:42:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anita 5 in Singles & Dating

She is constantly on his mind, he worries about her phones her when he has news spends lunch time with her and does her shopping. Do Ieave him now or do I wait and see if things get better

2007-01-25 18:41:50 · 13 answers · asked by Earthangel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a workmate asked me if he could get a lift home 2 weeks ago and i said no problem so now every day he asks is it ok to get a lift and i havent got the heart to say no, it only takes me 5-10mins out my way but now i wish i hadent started it, how can i get out this situation? i dont want him to think im being nasty / selfish, any advice as i dont want to fall out with him.

2007-01-25 18:41:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been married 4 years. We have been together 7. I love him with all my heart. We have 2 kids, a 3 year old and a one year old. Well he is 28 and is still immature. he works , sleeps and plays video games all day. I stay at home because our son was born 23 weeks early and has medical problems. Well my husband doesnt help around the house or anything. We havent well you know in over a year. He says that he is always tired or he is playing a game or watching sports. I am tired of this and have told him. He hasnt changed. We have gone through theropy and still nothing. I do love him but am tired of the BS what do I do?

2007-01-25 18:41:15 · 12 answers · asked by lil_sis458 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 18:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm only 24.. Alcoholism runs in my family... My mother, my father, my older brother & sister... They're all horrible alcoholics. I have a pretty strong feeling I am following in their footsteps, but my sister never got DUI, and my mom only got one when she was 22. I am on DUI #2. I know for sure that I can't handle my alcohol (simply because I'm an idiot when I drink, hence the 2 DUIs at least). I don't want to be in denial, but I have mixed feelings of what a true alcoholic is. I don't want to classify myself as an alcoholic as some sort of cop-out to quit drinking..but I don't even want to quit drinking. I've been raped twice in complete blackouts, and pursued charges the first time with no luck (I showered before I went to the hospital...), I've gotten 2 DUIs, I've been in countless physical altercations, and I've had many blackout periods that I didn't get raped, just completely didn't remember the night before. So does this make me an alcoholic?

2007-01-25 18:39:00 · 8 answers · asked by wickidgrrl82 2 in Friends

how to i overcome this. he has lied to me in the past and it is haunting me all the time. when he is late getting home i go into a panic. its like i will never be able to trust him. how can i stop letting this ruin my life without breaking up with him.

2007-01-25 18:38:31 · 7 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I dated long time ago; after so much drama we talked to each other again

he says he does not take me seriously because I repeat too much yes I have done that a lot because when I ask he ignores what matteres he answers whatever is only convenient for him and is cruely indifferent and it is worse than hatting you at times that attitude of "pride"

He has been rude and offensive; I have been rude and at times offensive; he calls that at times to be honest I call it truth too but with rudeness and offense no matter how true I can be on my side too

He keeps on doing certain things like before that got me to not want to see him many time that hurt him but now he has said to forget it all offenses and almost that we dated; he can see me like nothing act like nothing happened even when I have been rude

He does things but does not want me to say anything at all; to just keep quiet and act iike nothing is like shutting your feelings no matter what

What to say how?

2007-01-25 18:38:17 · 7 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Friends

He says he loves me but doesn't want commitments.
Three months relationship and we're crazy about each other. Everytime we're around each other we can't get enough of each other. He wants sex but i want him to wait, eventhough he thinks that it's nonesence. He is 29 and i think at some point he wants me to be next to him but he is scared of losing his singleness. He has a lot of friends and none of them have a stable relationships and i think by just looking at them he think it's the right way to be. I also think that he's scared of change but he doesn't know that the change might benefit him. Anyway i want serious things with him and want him to make up his mind. And my question is should i just be direct with him about me wanting more out of relationship or should i just give him some more time to get to know me better.

2007-01-25 18:37:14 · 15 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Singles & Dating

are guys unatracted to girls that wear coverup makeup?? is it a big turn off wen there wearing foundation or powder or watever?
let me no cause i wear it

2007-01-25 18:36:27 · 23 answers · asked by brunnetebabee89 1 in Singles & Dating

I am working, but took the job so that it fitted in with his career and the children,I only earn a small amount,but am qualified to earn 40 k a year plus,but it's gona take at least a year to break back into my old career,should i get the financal stuff sorted now or wait untill I'm back earning,anyone been in the Benefits trap

2007-01-25 18:35:04 · 13 answers · asked by live life 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Define the difference between a nerd and geek in terms of weirdness. Like a nerd is weird, but a geek is really weird, or something like that. Yahoo Answers suggested I put it into Singles and Dating, and it's one of the most popular sections anyway, so don't go around saying how this isn't related to Singles and Dating.

2007-01-25 18:34:56 · 14 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Singles & Dating

I was going out with this guy for a year and then he got in a car accident just after our aniversary. He lives in FL and was driving to meet me when he crashed. He was in the hospital from June until yesterday. I hadnt heard from him in 5 months so I thought he was dead. I finally decided I count wait anymore to find out so on New Years Eve I decided I would move on. The next day I asked out this guy I have known for a few years (He lives in NC) and he said yes. We have been going out for 25 days now and then all of a sudden my old boyfriend called today. I want to be with him again but I dont want to just leave the guy I'm with now. I really love my old boyfriend but I dont want to seem heartless and leave my new boyfriend. My newboyfriend is suposed to visit me this Saturday. My old boyfriend wouldnt be able to see me for a long time still. I have never seen any of them in person or on a webcam or anything. All I have is pictures. What should I do?

2007-01-25 18:30:56 · 15 answers · asked by oykawoo 1 in Singles & Dating

what's called true love when parents, siblings and friends aren't happy when i'm really down. instead of rendering their support they quit. when i really do well they shower me with lots of love(?). i beleive our love should be standard at all times. i don't know how many of you will agree with me. please write....with love

2007-01-25 18:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my gal wont stop buying me things. i have gotten to the point of not showing interest in things i dont have, for fear she will go out and get it for me. i keep telling her to stop buying stuff for me, but she wont stop. it really gets on my nerves. i can i get her to stop?

2007-01-25 18:26:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do married guys stay faithful to their wives all the time?
do they still go out n find other gals?
if they do go look for other gals, do they lie to the gals that they are single?
if they really fallen in love with the gals outside, why do they do that when they actually got wives at hm?
how can they go out with other gals but they have wives at hm?
should the gals they have fallen in love with stay on with them or should the gals leave them???

is a guy able to love 2 or more gals at a time???
should the gal stay or not to stay?

2007-01-25 18:22:35 · 3 answers · asked by -LOST- 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok today this girl that i liked came up to me and my friend at my locker....she handed my friend a note for our teacher cause she couldn't make it today (plz note that she and my friend are like strangers)...when she did that...she completly ignored my presence like...she didnt even look at me
my questions is....why would she ask him to hand in the note when her friends are in the same class?

2007-01-25 18:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by Regular Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy, we hit it off instantly! We've been "dating" for about three weeks. He calls almost every day, and when we both have free time we are together. I stayed at his place a few nights ago, after watching a movie, talking a laughing, and laying in his arms, he all of a sudden says..."I'm not looking for anything serious". He is still calling everyday, and we are planning to go out this weekend. Help! What's this about?

2007-01-25 18:21:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother passed away last year. He has a son who is only 8 years old. His mother (one of my closest friends) is now living with another man who is violent with her and has hit her on more than one occasion. They argue and scream in front of my nephew on a daily basis. Many times I have seen my nephew show concern for his mother's safety and even tries to get involved in the arguements. I know this behavior is harmful to my nephew and I remember how I felt as a child when my parents faught. I fear that he will either grow up to be abusive like his mother's boyfriend or allow someone to abuse him. My brother was a stand up man and wanted better than this life for his son and so do I. I have voiced my concerns MANY times to my sister in law and to her new boyfriend but neither of them listen or do anything to change it. It only seems to be getting worse. Sometimes I think I should call child protective services, but I worry that could put him in a worse situation? What should I do?

2007-01-25 18:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by Aunt Buffy 1 in Family

how are japanese men like in a relationship... pros and cons?? do they dominate the woman??

2007-01-25 18:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 18:17:44 · 7 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating

Long story short. 4 years ago my wife started cheating on me with a friend of mine. 3 years ago I finally get sick of her insanity and move out. She drove me out really with her irrational behavior. She had lied to me and I never knew that she had cheated, in fact, i never even suspected it. She blamed the fact that she didn't want to try to make it work because, "i left" and she could never trust me again.

So I had been carrying around this guilt that it was all my fault if only I hadn't left etc... Well, 10 days ago my friend tells me that he had been with my ex wife for a year during and 2 years after my wedding ended. Karma got him though because she did the exact same thing to him.

In his case, it was obvious she was cheating whereas in mine it was not. However, he still had doubts, he couldn't be sure. So I confronted her and she apologized for what she had done to me. So I ask her about the other fella' and she denied having cheated on him. But she's lying. Im confused now.

2007-01-25 18:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by warweaver 1 in Marriage & Divorce