Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

i am an older woman who has fallen in love with a man 15-19 years younger than me. (from another country, so his birth certificate says he was born 4 years younger than his actual age.) he is charming, romantic, and makes me laugh. i have even considered having another child. is this some sort of middle age thing? i really would like some serious answers from women who have faced this situation. thank you
in peace,
lily

2007-01-25 17:48:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am recently married,
And she broke out all the rules,

I can't drink more than eight beers,
I can't stay out past 2am,
I cant't go to the strip club,
I have to be home in time for dinner,
I can't see other women,

And a divorce is not a possibility, she is mega hot.
Anyone else thinks she is being unreasonable?

2007-01-25 17:48:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres this girl i know, and when i see her sometimes she looks me in the eye from across the room but doesnt wave or say hi, but then when im not expecting it or i dont see her, she will call my name to get my attention and say hi. also she trys to make smart jokes when i ask her a question, like if i ask if shes leaving she will say ... "no....haha yea i am"

anyways one day i was minding my own buisness and she came up to me and said "you never talk to me." and i reply kinda cocky and was like, there a problem with that?. and she said "yeah it makes me sad". then i walked off.

but yea most of the time i talk to her she has a smile. so i dont kno if she likes me or just being a nice person.

2007-01-25 17:47:59 · 5 answers · asked by wickerpark 2 in Singles & Dating

She has recently found out that her husband of over 5 yrs. has a wife and kids overseas. I told her to divorce him. What advise can you give her?

2007-01-25 17:45:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you married for like, did it grow into love? And if you married for love, did it grow into like?

2007-01-25 17:44:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well for the past couple days ive been freakin out over this nightmare i had, it thinks its kinda silly but it just wont leave my thoughts, well neways here it is(in my dream i woke up in my bed by a rumbling in my closet, when i sat up to see what it was i saw two aliens come from the closet into my room,the one fom aliens the movie [you know ripley killed these things],well ne ways it did not see me at the time so i took the advantage and ran into my computer room and hid behind a couch, the aliens then went through my house looking for victims and killed my mother and step father, as they walked back upstairs to look for me my oldest brother then appeared out of nowhere and hit them in the face and told me and my other sibling to get out of the house as he distracted them,it was still night time in my dream so the street was lit up with street lights as i went out of the house the aliens standed at the at the door and wouldnt come outside so me my brothers all headed to my grandma's

2007-01-25 17:44:03 · 4 answers · asked by n3ver_frost 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

cause no sex no love.

2007-01-25 17:43:56 · 4 answers · asked by canaan k 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, so there is this guy that i really extremely like.. and we have been on two dates. but we have not been on one for three weeks now, because he says he has been really busy working and such, and has been sick. he also used to talk to me every night texting or on the phone, but he recently ran out of texts, so he said he would just have to call. but he did not call for like a week, and when he did he only wanted to talk for like ten minutes, when he used to want to talk for hours. he is a senior, and i am a junior.. and so do you think maybe since school is almost over for him or something that he is just wanting someone to like right now and such... because he has had a gf before and so it's not like he is scared or something to make me his. but i would think he would want to talk to me more and such if this was ever a possibility....... so what do you think is going on??? am i worrying too much?! any thoughts would really help me out! so thanks so much to all who answer!!!

2007-01-25 17:41:14 · 6 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years we live together. I do not like his Family cause they always try and cause problems between me and him. Example : his sister gave his ex gf my cell phone # He knew nothing about it but his sister did it cause she dont like me. His mom told me she could see me getting married but not her son ( my boyfriend) His dad tried to get him to cheat on me and leave me multipul times and even kicked me out of his house while me and my boyfriend was living there ( before we got our own place) His dad called me and told me that I needed to bring him groceries since he dont drive and to tell my boyfriend that he needed two new parts for his truck so for my boyfriend just to pay for it when at the time we was having money problems of our own. Now my boyfriend wants to go see his dad next weekend. And his dads gf will prlly be there. Her daughter will prlly be there also ( the one his dad tried to get him to cheat with ) I am not going to his dads.

2007-01-25 17:41:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why?

2007-01-25 17:40:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hello guys, i just want to ask you, if someone you loved hurt you deeply, i mean not physically but in heart, what are your reactions and what are you more likely to do ( to relieve your pain or do you live with this pain)? Because i think that guys don`t like to show their feelings, well are you sad, frustrated....? People may not be around you, when you`re alone, what is your reaction? Does your reaction in this case is different when you`re alone or when other people are around? What do you do? I would please like genuine and detailed answers, thank you very much...

2007-01-25 17:40:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We argue, fuss, and fight all the time and it's draining me mentally and physically. I'm tired. What should i do?

2007-01-25 17:40:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-25 17:39:23 · 15 answers · asked by Lei 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The ongoing debate is really about, whether or not a male and female can be "just friends." If there is attraction on either side, its very unlikely, at least in my experience. BUT, regular friendships DO exist under those situations. So how does the girl/woman feel about that friendship? What do they think of their friend once they know he is 'interested' even if he acts as if nothing has changed...?

2007-01-25 17:36:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-25 17:36:09 · 21 answers · asked by Glitter Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

What exactly is a good man? What are women looking for? Would you know a good man if you met one?

2007-01-25 17:35:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know some do, but it seems that so many girls like medium men- like 5'10. I'm 6'2'' and some girls absolutely love it, but most girls say they would prefer a guy a couple inches shorter than me. I like short girls, but they always think I'm too tall...I thought tall guys had an advantage...so my question is, do girls really like tall guys all that much? Explain...thanks.

2007-01-25 17:35:01 · 23 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

it the 1st time i fell in love with a girl i usually do not talk with them as i am afraid . i did not talk with her too . i evn did not tell her what i felt now she is somewhere and i am here i am afraid to tell my famile so help me out

2007-01-25 17:34:55 · 2 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 17:34:05 · 31 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 6 in Singles & Dating

when a guy is eyeing you from across tha dance floor and sometimes comes up and stands next to u and ur friends but dosent say anything. and then after the dance comes up to me and my friends and dosent even acknolodge me but just my friend until i say hi to him. and then dosent say goodbye to me but yet hugs my friend. also he frequently asks me if i like him.Which i do but i tell him no. i don't know why.but what does it all mean?

2007-01-25 17:34:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I go to get my hair cut the girl that washes my hair starts massaging my back in a way that I feel that a happy ending would be the next logical step. However, this is in a public place and she's not chinese, she's hispanic. So what exactly is the proper etiquette in this situation?

2007-01-25 17:33:33 · 13 answers · asked by wafflehouse 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 17:33:09 · 8 answers · asked by clifford 1 in Singles & Dating

So I asked one of my guy friends to a dance and he said no and two days later asked someone else. I asked another one of my friends who is the first guys best friend. (coincidence) but we were planing to drive together by ourselves but the other guy called last min to get a ride. We did. The first guys date ditched him at the dance and the 3 of us ended hanging out. But the next day he posted a video blog pretty much bashing me and how I asked his best friend and did not say any more. But would not talk to me (2 weeks) and he claims he is not mad and me he just dislikes me. Why would he be mad? Is he mad at me to take it out on someone? Why did he do this?

2007-01-25 17:32:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi all...i have a cousin...we havent seen each other since 15 ..he travelled to another country when we were so young and i dont remember him..but this year i met him on the internet and soo sweet and beautiful and smart and i liked his personality and i think hes the right guy for me..hes 22 and im 19 ..so pls tell me what should i do i think i love him and is it right to love ur cousin???? pls i need an answer

2007-01-25 17:31:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well me and my girl broke up after a year cuz she wants a break and be single but wants to still be good friends..and i want her back...shpuld i stop talking to her all out and not be friends or should i be friends and see where it goes from there...i know we r ment to be ..we were perfect and she tell me that too and says she doesnt know y she feels like this..

2007-01-25 17:30:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my family employs a mexican girl that does not speak spanish. i speak very little english. she only talks to me when i talk to her. i make her laugh and we have somewhat good conversations. when i see her in the kitchen she avoids eye contact with me. what does she do this. it is akward.

2007-01-25 17:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by Mos Def 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl at my school she is a new student she came in 1 month ago does not have many friends she is really beautiful but she does not know me how can i get her to know me without freaking her out? i dont have her in any of my classes at all i only see her at lunch by the way im in high school

2007-01-25 17:27:12 · 11 answers · asked by Quinton 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy in my year, I'm not sure if he likes me, but I really like him! How do I get him to like me???

2007-01-25 17:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, My boyfriend is obviously insecure. I think he's wonderful and tell him this constantly. He, in return, calls me names and makes fun of the things that I'm insecure about. He's a bully! I tell him that it is completely inappropriate behavior and I'm not going to put up with his crap. The way I see it is that he apparently LIKED how I look or he would not have approached me in the beginning (just 6 months ago!) I'm certain that he has good potential, but I'm afraid that I can't handle his issues. I'm not a therapist! haha! When he makes fun of me I get frustated and say "fine, I'll fix it." "It" being whatever he's picking on at that moment. But then he argues and says "no don't, if you do that then why would you want to be with a loser like me?" my response is always "Because I LOVE you, and that's good enough for me!" I've tried reasoning with him, attempts to boost his ego, and well, crying to be perfectly honest (though I use this when all else fails) What's a girl to do?

2007-01-25 17:26:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is married? There are no kids involved.

2007-01-25 17:26:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce