Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

whenever I have a crush on some girls , I really enjoy that feeling that crush gives me.

I date , make romantic or sexy relationship( of course I do not always succeed) and I begin to lose interest , and sooner or later I want to find new one or new crush happens to me.

When somebody sang " stop collecting temporary hearts , look for a soul mate" I thought its collect answer.

But actually in my life its like teacher*s words that I want to learn but difficult to follow.

I REALLY WANT to find Soul mate.

Sometimes I think I WAS BORN to float around who cant make solid permanent relationship. any advice?

2007-01-25 17:08:32 · 4 answers · asked by earthlove 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Where can a party of about 15 go after my sister in laws wedding not too cheap but not to pricy?

2007-01-25 17:07:48 · 9 answers · asked by Maid of Honor Jitters 1 in Weddings

My bf's ex girl sms him last night i accidently saw it this morning when his alarm went off. He didnt reply, but why didnt he just told me?

Her sms 'Hi there hows things going?'

2007-01-25 17:07:33 · 11 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay, soo when i first meet a guy and he's interested in me, he'll tell me things about his ex-girlfriend that "disappoint him" and tell me how much of a good person I am. (not straight up but just from how and what he's saying, it seems i'm more of a girl he approves) About a couple months ago, I met this guy and it was kinda obvious he might have had a thing for me. On the phone, he RANDOMLY just mentioned, "yeah i was at the club and i saw my ex - she was dancing on tables - she's a regular dancing at the club..ehhh...whatever..." he didn't say straight up he hated it but you can tell he was annoyed. His ex was a good girl turned SCANDOLOUS. He's a "shy guy" type and loooves simple girls like me. sooo why would guys tell me problems about their exes like that?

2007-01-25 17:07:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please explain your answers.

2007-01-25 17:07:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 17:06:09 · 15 answers · asked by babydoll_y2g 2 in Weddings

I have a guy friend that is calling and sending me text messages every day for the past two weeks. He wants me to come and visit him ( he is 4hrs away). We always have a great time when we are together, but last time he came to see me he was a jerk and I am kinda over it ...we have a past but now I am not intrested and he is....
What should I do....Go see him and just see what happens &/or act like a jerk to him, or just not go at all??

2007-01-25 17:06:08 · 15 answers · asked by nOna9 2 in Singles & Dating

My finace' and i live in NC and my entire family lives in ND. My finace' is a firefighter and wants to have a small wedding a few weeks after we are married in ND (The firefighter brotherhood is a little too strong sometimes) My question is, can i and should i wear the same wedding dress and have my bridesmaids wear the dresses they purchased? The guys will be wearing their formal uniform during the wedding in NC. Thanks for the help.

2007-01-25 17:04:43 · 14 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Any particular reason why?

2007-01-25 17:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have decided I need to get control of my life. I think the people around me are controlling me and its making me unhappy.. My boyfriend of 5 yrs told me he didnt want to marry me because I would withhold sex to get my way, and added, just like the ex wife. I responded too much information and I dont want to hear about his ex anymore. I told him about 2 weeks ago, if he was not interested in cementing our relationship with a ring and a future, I did not want to engage in sex any longer with him because it means he is just using me. Am I right?
My 19 yr old daughter ran off to live with a married, nasty, skank 26 yr old man who lives in a trailer with 1/4 the front door beat in.
I was upset about it until I started thinking she is not my responsibility any longer. She will make her own way in the world. Live and learn! I cant stop her. She is on her own now.
Am I sounding like a cold witch, or should I cry and be upset?
Only thing going right is my job. I work and work.

2007-01-25 17:04:22 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it different if the guy is a stranger/acquaintance?
Does it also matter if the guy doesn't smile?

2007-01-25 17:03:39 · 30 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

Women - why do we prefer to be intimate and physical with a man over our girlfriends? What do men give to us that women do not? How can you love a man more than any other woman??

2007-01-25 17:02:59 · 13 answers · asked by Natalie s 1 in Singles & Dating

Take an orange for example.

The color, so alluring. The fragrance, taking in the sweet odor
with every breath. The texture, delightfully pleasing to the touch.

Feeling its firmness in the palm of your hand as you fight back
the sensation to squeeze, yet knowing that the juices inside start
to flow as you fondle the delectable fruit.

And then the enticing toughts of a seductive peeling of its outer
layer. Finding just the right spot to begin. Gently removing the
genesis of ecstasy. Taking your time to comb over every morsel
of fiber awaiting separation from its inner core.

Just when you think you can't hold back any longer, you move
towards the orange's fault line. Exposing the virgin like center to
the warmth of your breath as you spread it gently apart. Your eyes
looking for a glimpse of the horizon that awaits you.

2007-01-25 17:02:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been hurt way too many times. i would like to find a guy that is not going to play games, who is honest, caring, faithful, and romantic once in a while.

2007-01-25 17:02:06 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa Z 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have planned a tenative wedding date of May 19, 07. I would like to compose a list of 10 really good questions to have him answer to make sure this is something that he wants as much as I do. But I'm stuck... I want the questions to have multiple choice like answer. I have 1 question so far:

When a couple gets married, what is the groom suppose to do?
a. Run like hell!
b. Hang himself because he just ended his life.
c. Depart from family and became one with wife.
d. Lay down the rules of the house.

The correct answer is C. It's located in the Bible. All the questions doesn't have to come from the Bible or be religious based. Just something that questions morals, values, trust, respect, committment..etc. Any suggestions, would be great!!! Thanks in advance! :)

2007-01-25 17:02:01 · 19 answers · asked by butterfly_347 1 in Weddings

What if you love someone but he or she doesn't have the same feelings as you do?

2007-01-25 17:00:44 · 20 answers · asked by Monkey Lips 4 in Singles & Dating

How do you bond w/ a girl and get to know her better. I've been trying to develop a relationship. PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-01-25 17:00:35 · 12 answers · asked by Cool dawg 2 in Singles & Dating

i have 2 sisters and 1 brother. for as long as i can remember, my mom has been partial to them a lot more than she has me. for example, my younger sister told me that she paid her $500 electric bill the other day and she (my sister) just got a $6000 loan a week ago. she constantly buys things for both of my sisters kids, but not mine. she also watches their kids for them so that they can go out and have a break. i do live 4 hours away, but i see her about once ever 2/3 months and she NEVER does this for me. my little brother gets everything he asks for and when he doesn't get what he wants he tells my mom he's going to take it anyway... and he does. i'm 26 years old and it has been this way ever since i can remember. i don't mean to sound like a brat, but it really hurts my feelings that my mom never does anything like this for my kids and i. are there any mothers that have gone through this and can maybe tell me why my mom does this? maybe if i understand it, i can get over it? thanks

2007-01-25 17:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by portuguese_tease 2 in Family

2007-01-25 17:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by ashwini r 1 in Friends

2007-01-25 16:59:28 · 8 answers · asked by Rollercoaster 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, i'm 16 and he's seventeen. He wants to have sex, but I am not sure i should. Sometimes he makes me feel uncomfortable by touching me in places I dont want tp be touched, so I push him away. He says that I am being too uptight and bitter. Is he right?

2007-01-25 16:59:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

4 reasons why lying leads to losing trust

2007-01-25 16:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by just me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfreind dumped me two weeks ago... and for reasons unknow... should i try to get back with her?

2007-01-25 16:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if it is just lust? How do you know for sure?

2007-01-25 16:58:59 · 5 answers · asked by Monkey Lips 4 in Singles & Dating

My mom loves my 5 year old more than my 4 year old. She will even tell you this. (but she doesn't tell the youngest that) She has a stronger bond with the oldest cause he was born the day her mom passed away. She watches my oldest twice as much as my youngest as well. She gives excusses sometimes and says he's just easier to deal with. Should she be choosing my oldest over the youngest? I've tried to talk to her about this. And the result was actually coming to get the youngest... she didn't before.

2007-01-25 16:58:34 · 11 answers · asked by Amanda 3 in Friends

So I broke up with the guy I was seeing and I found out today that I'm pregnant. I tried to tell him and he won't give me the time of day and actually got his current girlfriend to call me back to tell me to stop calling. What do I do? There is no way that I can raise this baby on my own. How do I get him to listen? Help!!

2007-01-25 16:57:03 · 19 answers · asked by typical_mandi 1 in Singles & Dating

When my girlfriend broke up with me she said that she wanted to take it back a step to when we were just dating and not a couple. this was back in october and, since then we've continued to go on dates and have became really close friends. Ever since day one i've been crazy in love with her. and she's told me a few that there's still a chance for me. so here's the question should i keep going after my dream of being with her or should i just be happy i got a real good friend out of it? any suggeston? what should i do?
thanks in advance for any answers.<(X_x)>

2007-01-25 16:56:01 · 15 answers · asked by Jeremy 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats up guys.. I've been with this girl for almost 9 years, not married, just together. Well recently she's been running into this guy that used to be my friend, but now I don't respect or care for him. The guy and my girl used to be friends as well. Recently they have been running into each other and having conversations. I told her I didn't like her talking to him, because I have my reasons. I am not controlling at all, she can talk to whoever she wants but I told her I don't like it when she talks to him. Of course I can't stop it but I don't like it, any other guy but him. All I asked her was that she keeps it short if she sees him out and about, and yet she can't give me a straight answer, yes or no. Am I being controlling or do I have right to not like her talking to him? ??Not that I am controlling but just some bad past with him.

2007-01-25 16:54:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can i shake the feeling of my girlfreind being unfaithful.

2007-01-25 16:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi everybody. A friend of mine believed I had a negative opinion of her for some reason. (I never did.) But as a joke I asked two female friends if mine and one of them jokingly said I disliked her in front of me and her. I now have to make it up to her as she some how genuinely believes this. I’ve let her known that I really don’t dislike her, but I kind of think as it came from a female friend of both of ours she refuses to believe this for some reason (girls eh…). I want to get her a present. I was thinking of a box of chocolates and set of flowers in the pattern of her name, but she has a boyfriend, and thought this might give the wrong impression. Any ideas what I could get her???

2007-01-25 16:53:59 · 4 answers · asked by Arun N 1 in Singles & Dating