How do you bond w/ a girl and get to know her better. I've been trying to develop a relationship. PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-01-25 17:00:35 · 12 answers · asked by Cool dawg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok. If you really want to develope a relationship with a girl you first be friends. It makes it more clear to be friends and when you do be friends with her then you can find things to stay away with when your going on a date with her *when you get there*. Then when you found what she dislikes and likes you stay with the likes. It would be easier to write down everything she likes and doesn't so it'll be like a test. But everything you learn about her you just write it down. Just don't forget to talk about your self too. Or else she might think your questioning her for a survey or something. Then after you learn enough *when you think that your notes are enough* then you ask her to the movies or a diner at some place. Or what ever she likes. Then there you go = ) wellz hope this works. Good Luck! = )
2007-01-25 17:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend to her, be there when she needs you and learn what she likes to do, be honest with her. The best way to keep a relationship going is to also keep the friendship aspect of it going as well if you do start dating don't lose that part or the relationship will fall apart.
2007-01-26 01:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do little things. They don't have to be big. Just small like going to the movie store together and talking about favorite movies. My relationship blossomed because neither of us knew really how to cook, so we just got bomb dig at making food. It doesn't have to be crazy, but they need to be active things where conversation is a possibility. Try mini golf or walking dogs. Just talking makes a huge difference. that and listening. call her up and see how long the two of you can talk. pick a big question like what do you want to do with your life and let the conversation flow. that's all there is to it. its just like a friend, both people have to work at it.
2007-01-26 01:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually girls love being close to their bf...but i think that bf don`t really know how to make the right approach, you should start a conversation, listen to her and when a girl feels that you understand her and that she is secure with you, she`ll gonna reveal to you a number of things perhaps even intimate things but you`ve got to be sincere and yes don`t forget try your level best to never hurt a girl...
2007-01-26 01:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to know what she likes. But remember, never be over the top with it. If she likes an actor, take her to a movie with him in it. If she likes a certain topic that you agree with, show her your interests and/or dislikes. Communication is the key. Also, flowers are always a plus! ;)
2007-01-26 01:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jen :) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make conversation. go up to her and ask her how she's doin. no lame hookup lines... jus be a gentleman and ask her questions about herself adn put out some details about u that mite attract a woman, "i went to so and so college for my... i work as a..." compliment her and hopefully somethin ull get started
2007-01-26 01:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by adg_libra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me the way to bond with me is to be honest and just be a friend. Tell her what your intentions are.
2007-01-26 01:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by karen v 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Learn to listen. Find out what her interests are and try to share them.
2007-01-26 01:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
U will get alert from ur brain at the right time.
2007-01-26 01:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women love to talk. Talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Be open to her questions and listen to what she has to say. Be attentive to her.
2007-01-26 01:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋