my girlfreind dumped me two weeks ago... and for reasons unknow... should i try to get back with her?
2007-01-25 16:59:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my girlfreind dumped me two weeks ago... and for reasons unknow... should i try to get back with her?
EDIT: well i still do like her, but i see her every single day, and she still trys to talk to me but ive been given her the cold shoulder because she wouldnt tell me why we broke up.
2007-01-25 17:17:46 · update #1
Nope. If she didn't give you reasons at the time, then in all likelihood she isn't going to.
It doesn't really matter what her reasons are, it is over. You need to take the time to grieve and move on.
2007-01-25 17:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always wonder. Why boys and girls sometime act like dumb. I am sorry, but what I think, it is true. It’s not your fault, its L-O-V-E that makes you act like that. You cant accept that she dumped you for no reason at all. But LISTEN, ITS OVER, How can you get her back? I know you have feelings for her. And it’s really hard to say bye but what you can do; you can’t force her to have feelings for you. Any way thinking what you had and still have for her (feelings) wait for some days. May be she will change her mind and will comeback to you. Hey …I know you will never understand whatever I am saying so ok. …Call her and ask her why…she left you? May be hearing something from her will make you move on with your life, Coz whatever we will say you will never listen. And there will always remain “WHY “ haunting you forever. Anyway Good Luck, All The Best.:)
2007-01-26 01:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by Farrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being in a similar situation i would find out the details to why she broke up with you first of all and after that if you still feel the same way about her go for the kill.(not literally)
2007-01-26 01:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reasons are unknown to you only she knows way and maybe all around you know why. Do you think she has changed for the best in the two weeks?
2007-01-26 01:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by TheMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think that's something that anyone else can answer. You're the only person who knows your relationship and whether or not you think it's worth trying to save. But if she broke up with you two weeks ago and you haven't decided yet, you probably don't really want to save it...?
2007-01-26 01:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by m. claire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.
Do you still want to get back with her?
Yes: Then it really depends on the reason you want to get back with her.
No: Then why do you want to go back with her?
Do you love her?
Yes: Then of course, try getting her back. But if you can't do it there are still many other fish in the sea.
No: You just like her. But still want to be together, then I'll say to wait till she goes to you. But till then just be her friend.
Do you want to know her better?
Yes: Just be friends with her then if you start to like her even more, then you'll go and get her, or she'll get you.
No: If you just want sex then good luck...
2007-01-26 01:06:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what happened at least you should get a reason as to why she dumped you and go from there. perhaps its not enough affection or you dont' communicate or badger her. find out what cause her to leave you and if its fixable talk about it and get back together.
2007-01-26 01:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! you shouldnt get back together with her.
but... you could always take her to coffe and ask to talk about the break up and see maybe if you could get some anwsers
maybe the break up was for the best she probly just has some issues she needs to sort out
2007-01-26 01:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Find some one that will appreciate you for who you are. Trust me, once you start looking at others, she will start popping up out of the blue for no reason. Let it be!
2007-01-26 01:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? If she didn't have the decency to explain to you the reason she broke up she has very little respect for you. Are you interested in that?
2007-01-26 01:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋