My boyfriend and I have been together for two years, i'm 16 and he's seventeen. He wants to have sex, but I am not sure i should. Sometimes he makes me feel uncomfortable by touching me in places I dont want tp be touched, so I push him away. He says that I am being too uptight and bitter. Is he right?
2007-01-25 16:59:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is NOT right. He's not respecting you. He's just a horny teenager.
This is how I feel about it ...
You should stay a virgin till you're married.
God intended it to be that way.
But many, MANY people abuse that.
And God looks down on those people.
You don't just give your virginity to just anybody.
It is the best present you can give your future husband.
It is you... it is all of you.
If you become pregnant, you can handle it better when you're married.
You'll have that person beside you who promised to always be by your side.
It won't be some random guy or some guy who you THOUGHT loved you.
Sex makes many things complicated in an unmarried relationship.
It takes two very mature people.
You do not want to get yourself lost in everything that comes with sex.
Most people nowadays tend to just BASE their relationship on sex.
I am a virgin myself. I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-01-25 17:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U do not seem to grown as much as ur bf. In love, ur partner touches all those things which u tend to hide from every body. Do u not have the inquisitiveness for similar areas of ur bf?
2007-01-26 01:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not wrong. he's trying to put that into your head so he can get some. but if your not ready yet tell him so. things take time and you'll feel it when you want to go further. tell him not to be in such a hurry your only 16 your doing the right thing good for you
2007-01-26 01:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he isnt!!
You definately shouldnt do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Talk to your guy about it n try to get him to understand how you feel. If he really cares, he should be ready to wait!!
2007-01-26 01:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by trash_nt92z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - he's trying to make you feel guilty for not going at his speed. Stand your ground on this issue; you won't regret it.
2007-01-26 01:06:10 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is not right you can push him away if u want to...if you dont want to be touch then dont let him touch you
2007-01-26 01:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by hot_noe_1235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋