ok well me and my girl broke up after a year cuz she wants a break and be single but wants to still be good friends..and i want her back...shpuld i stop talking to her all out and not be friends or should i be friends and see where it goes from there...i know we r ment to be ..we were perfect and she tell me that too and says she doesnt know y she feels like this..
2007-01-25 17:30:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man I have been down this exact road that you are in right now. You need to walk away break all comunication with this lady. If it is meant to be it will happen and nothing will prevent it from happening. But if you stay and try to keep it together and not let nature take its course you will lose her for sure.
2007-01-25 17:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants a break now how do you know that she won't want a break in the future? Say, in your marriage? If she needs to be single she has a problem with committing to a relationship. If you can be friends without trying to force your relationship back onto her that would be ideal. If you can't, don't try to. I made that mistake once and regret it completely. Infatuations pass. It is the girlfriend that becomes your best friend that will be the one you want.
2007-01-26 01:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Whateva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you "know" that you are meant to be together. maybe you are though, what i would do is stay friends with her. the best relationship anyone can have is a friendship. that sounds stupid but if you two do get back together, it would be way more special to know that you made it through some tough times. which is good because some people dont make it through and get divorced and that is not good. when that happens, you become a statistic. good luck!
2007-01-26 01:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by snunicycler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs space. If she's seeing other people you should do the same. She broke up with you. Let go of her and start dating someone else. If she really wants you you'll know. Good luck!!
2007-01-26 01:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jen :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its going to be too painful for you to watch her go out with other people, then you probably should back off a bit for awhile. Maybe you are meant to be, but that doesnt have to mean for right now.
2007-01-26 01:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be friends for now and go with the flow. Dont feel pressurized and if she wants to move on with some other guy then let it go. Everybody needs to move on in life.
2007-01-26 01:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times its hard to be friends with a person that you love. you have to see her with other guys. you can handle that then be good friends. let her know that you there for her. but, don't stop living. keep your self busy to get mind off of things.
2007-01-26 01:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by raquel j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both feel your meant to be together stay friends cuz u never know what might happen in the future
2007-01-26 01:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her the space that she need, if you want to get back
with her maybe down the road you can work your self bac with
her, if it meant to be it will. just take this time to find you self
and then see how it goes.
2007-01-26 01:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like it's no big deal to you. Call her only once in awhile (like once every two weeks). She'll come running, once she thinks you're not going to chase her.
2007-01-26 01:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by bentley b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋