Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

the girl im seein has been distant...shes always busy, when we hangout shes quiet, no sexual reference, never wants to come over anymore, when asked bout sexual interest and if she has lost it w/ me, her simple answer was "no" whats going on and what should i do i am confused...

2007-01-25 19:18:05 · 2 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a 5 year old son. i am planning to adopt a 2 year old girl child. what could be the possible problems that may arise in future???

2007-01-25 19:17:31 · 6 answers · asked by InBa 1 in Family

I'd only seen him 4 times due to distance and he'd let me down a few times.I put 'About coming
up.I don't want you to.I really need to make a fresh start and being involved with you compicates everything.I hope you understand.take care'
I received one back.'No problem I understand.What with the distance I have to travel and you only ok for Fridays we couldn't do much anyway.If you ever want to meet up if I'm up there let me know but looks like you have things to sort out.take care'

I'm hardly likely to contact him when i've sorted out things as he's the complication.I've got things to sort out with my ex-husband maybe he thought i meant that.
Anyway I'll never contact him again even though I loved him.

2007-01-25 19:17:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when you like a girl what do you do to get your message across and when you don't like them as more than friends what do you do to get your message across,besides asking them out or telling them

2007-01-25 19:15:18 · 9 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

u said u were my very bestest friend and u told me that u couldnt wait to get married and then al of asudden u hate me just becuz i went thro a busy faze i didnt kno how to handle...ur supposed to be there for me arnt u? not completly hide from me?

2007-01-25 19:14:58 · 2 answers · asked by justin scott 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm married n its not a very happy marriage... now there's a guy who younger say he like mi .. wat should i do? should i go ahead n have some fun or i should stick on to my like-dead marriage ? any suggestion?

2007-01-25 19:13:42 · 29 answers · asked by galaxyy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just met her then a few days later her former fiancé "committed suicide". I was there for her and then it turns out it was a prank and when she found out she broke it off with him. A few days later she told me she loved me and dreamed of me. I told her I just wanted to be friends because I wasn't sure if I was ready for a relationship. She told me she would never love anyone ever again so I tried to convince her otherwise because I did want to be more then friends, but I didn't tell her that and I felt it was too soon. We would talk everyday for hours for a month and I felt we were getting pretty close. She worked as a live-in housekeeper and got sick of her former boss harassing her so she moved in with a new guy and ended up falling in love with him within a week. I told her that was too fast and I had a breakdown when I found out because I had these feelings. A month later she's engaged to the new guy. I can't stop thinking about her sometimes and I don't know what to do.

2007-01-25 19:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by Green 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 19:11:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 19:09:52 · 7 answers · asked by savneesh s 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a male also and ive never had a GF. Is this a good thing? lol. Should i just go grab a girl or something?

2007-01-25 19:09:31 · 10 answers · asked by chequas 1 in Singles & Dating

If a man borrows money from his mate (around $10,000), and their relationship is pretty good (living together for over 6 months), and they are not kids (both 45 years old) and the man has always said he would repay and the woman knows he will but naturally, he plans on going on a trip right when they are having serious problems, and she is not sure he will return, the woman wants him to sign a "last minute" promissory note, (something pulled together from the internet), What kind of relationship do they have if he doesn't want to sign it because he wants to read it first - although there is no time (he's getting on a plane). If these people are in a relationship, should he just trust her and sign it (since she trusted him and gave him the money) or is he right in not signing with the excuse that "it was just sprung on him at the last minute" and he wants to read it first? What does that say about TRUST in their relationship. Please state your honest opinion. Thanks

2007-01-25 19:08:50 · 4 answers · asked by rfordham2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would only be on it for a year until my son was older, I am in a very mentally abusive as well as physically at times relationship, I need to get out or Im going to go crazy.
He is my bf and I have lived with him for 3 years or since I got pregnant,I live in his home and have been a stay home mom ever since, no income, he made it hell whenI wanted to work so I gave it up and stayed home.
Now I need to get out, I live in Edmonton.

2007-01-25 19:07:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 19:04:11 · 9 answers · asked by mystery 1 in Singles & Dating

I've heard this to be true but would like your opinions on the topic.

2007-01-25 19:03:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why men are not satisfied with their partners that they cannot make like women do in a relationship like being loyal for example.
Though some women do the same. Is it acceptable if they both just do the same way so that they can be fair to each other? Then why a divorce law was created if we think over the long run we couldn't also keep our oath or promises? If marriage cannot give us a guarantee then why do these ceremonies were created? Are these just a wallet depleting stuff?

2007-01-25 19:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by Pupung 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it should get a lot of members. you just got to know its that daft old man again and what can you do with him he keeps on coming back for more. have a nice day. pease with love.

2007-01-25 19:01:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need help finding an affordable attorney to do my dissolution. i've tried legal aid but i don't have qualifying circumstances.My income is low so i cant really shell out alot of money . my husband and i have been separated for 7 years and I need to get this matter taken care of.If anyone knows what i can do I would really appriciate it.Thank you.

2007-01-25 19:00:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, to start things off, I'll tell you a bit about myself. I'm a short, thin, shy, lazy Asian nerd, living in the US. The girl I like is 1 grade below me and taller than me. Recently, during the last dance of the first semester, a friend revealed to me why she said no when my friends asked her if she would go out with me. And probably everyone in the school knows I like her.

Now I'm about to graduate JH. There's one more school dance, which is about 2-3 months away, that's with the whole school. This will be the last year I'll be able to see her. Now, she already knows I like her, thanks to some genius friends. But I've never had the guts to ask her myself(I did say I was shy earlier). I'm want to dance with her, but I'm trying to think about it before I'm gonna jump the bridge. What should I do? I'm a chicken, I'm not really that good looking(I don't care, don't tell me to improve my looks).

Give a poor kid some help! And don't say I'm too young either. >.>

2007-01-25 19:00:22 · 14 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I've known this girl for a year now (met her at art school) and we've already become really close friends. I'm always able to make her laugh and she always brings a smile to my face. The whole time I've known her she's had a girlfriend, but they just recently broke up (citing the last year of her life as "kinda depressing"). It used to be just another unrequited love, you know, "she's a lesbian, there's other fish in the sea, I guess I should start having sex with fish or something". Now she's saying how much she "believes in me" and "supports me" alot and she suddenly starts hugging me and being more playful than usual. Her art has become almost entirely about either one character taking a train to go see a guy and feeling excited about it or another who opens a pandora's box type thing in the shape of a heart. Is she trying to tell me she wants to switch teams for me, or am I just chasing Amy...so to speak?

(bonus points to whoever gets that refference*)

* not really

2007-01-25 18:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Some_Jerk 2 in Singles & Dating

signs? i feel my girl has been slowly cuttin my privileges...is there anyone else?

2007-01-25 18:58:17 · 2 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

I live with my four year old son. Just me and him. What about you?

2007-01-25 18:56:12 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok here is the story...
i didnt talk to this girl for about 2 months already and she wrote something on her site that i cant get out of my head.. its not bad or anything it just got me thinkin.. we are in this big fight over cheating with a best friend and going out with that person the same day they broke up (Remember best friends) ... and now she is trying to get a hold of me and everything.. its not like i dont want to talk to her or anything.. its just kinda hard for me to say anything to her because ever since she moved she started acting like a real "B" so i dont know what to do right now so HELP please

2007-01-25 18:55:25 · 6 answers · asked by Exco12 3 in Friends

Okay I am currently with this girl I just started dating about 5 months ago,she is now 4 months pregnant by me, I know it sounds strange, but it happened and I can't change it now. She's 20, and I'm 19, she has told me I'm the 2nd guy she has ever had sex with besides her ex-boyfriend. BTW, we work on the same job together, I do stock work and she works the cash register in a retail store, btw we met at work. I recently heard a rumor that some guy in her department that like her and she claims she always turned him down so he lies about having sex with her before hoping it gets back to me and we break up, he always wanted her and wanted us to break up, but she wants me. Anyways I recently heard a rumor that she slept with him in the past, but I asked her and she denied it, and she even said she went to him and asked him why is he lyin and tellin people these lies. Though I didnt see her ask him, she even swore on her brother grave it didnt happen what should I believe? any opinion

2007-01-25 18:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by GRS 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 18:54:11 · 22 answers · asked by brian 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 22 years old and i don't have my license.my bf know this and he always promises me that he will take me out and teach me.but everytime the day comes he always comes up with excuses. how do i get him to keep his promise without getting him mad at me?please help!!

2007-01-25 18:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-25 18:50:53 · 3 answers · asked by chelsea 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex gf keep contactin me and goes like: i'll always be there for you. what she means? and what she wants?

2007-01-25 18:49:51 · 16 answers · asked by steve 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 18:49:32 · 5 answers · asked by mrgee32uk 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Besides love or marrying the person, is there steps/procedures/tricks to make a relationship last forever?

Example: surprising them with their favorite dish one night.

2007-01-25 18:48:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ladies...if u lose interest in a guy, or more specifically if there was initial sexual attraction and after a little while u lose ur sexual interest in a guy, but u still wanted him around what are some signs to look for?

2007-01-25 18:47:42 · 6 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating