OK, to start things off, I'll tell you a bit about myself. I'm a short, thin, shy, lazy Asian nerd, living in the US. The girl I like is 1 grade below me and taller than me. Recently, during the last dance of the first semester, a friend revealed to me why she said no when my friends asked her if she would go out with me. And probably everyone in the school knows I like her.
Now I'm about to graduate JH. There's one more school dance, which is about 2-3 months away, that's with the whole school. This will be the last year I'll be able to see her. Now, she already knows I like her, thanks to some genius friends. But I've never had the guts to ask her myself(I did say I was shy earlier). I'm want to dance with her, but I'm trying to think about it before I'm gonna jump the bridge. What should I do? I'm a chicken, I'm not really that good looking(I don't care, don't tell me to improve my looks).
Give a poor kid some help! And don't say I'm too young either. >.>
2007-01-25 19:00:22 · 14 answers · asked by The World Ends with You 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh come on, I had to explain everything. I at least made it as short as I could. You want the whole story, you probably would forget most of it 1 minute into the story.
2007-01-25 19:10:50 · update #1
And, no I don't have school I got Teacher's Institute Day, no idea what that is, but I got it off.
2007-01-25 19:11:15 · update #2
Just go up to her at the dance and ask if she wants to dance... See how it goes... There's no harm in asking.. If she dances with you, you could try and start up a conversation about whatever you want (school, music, the song that's playing, her friends, your friends, the weather, basically anything..).
Basically, she won't ever dance with you if you don't ask her... You have nothing to lose by asking.. Worse case scenario, she says no (hopefully nice and politely), and you just be like "Ok. Sorry to bother you" and continue on your merry little way, and maybe ask some other girl to dance (to make it seem less like you only wanted to dance with her, but that you were just looking to dance with someone..).. And then you'll know she's just not into you that way, and think positive about how you're gonna be out of JH soon, and next year there'll be lots of other girls...
Good luck!
2007-01-25 19:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by yogastar02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie if she liked you then she would have gotten the first warning there will be more girls your speed in high school, trust me. You have to have confidence, if you don't believe in yourself no one else will. Ask her to dance, you're not asking for forever, just a dance. If she's a jerk she'll probably said no, but at least you went for it. If she's not paying any attention to you chances are she's not interested. She would have asked about you or something. Oh well her loss. You're a good guy and there is someone for everyone, for now just concentrate on your studies. You'll have the rest of your life to be hung up on girls who won't give you the time of day. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-25 19:08:51 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I'm 21 so JH was a while ago for me. My advise is to ask her. If you really like her buy her a bouquet of flower. Even if she says no it's not the end of the world. However if you don't ask her you will never know what you could have had. Oh and when you approach carry your self with confidence.
2007-01-25 19:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by volvo_1989_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do better expressing themselfs on paper. You could try writing it on paper your feelings and hand it to her some how. Maybe a greeting card that you know she would like. And you can ask her that way. Your not chicken. You got this way because you let yourself think that your no good. Stand up and be proud of yourself. And if she turns you down so what! You have your whole life ahead of you to find the right one. And the right one will come along. Trust me.
Signed: Tall and dated short men.
Good luck.
2007-01-25 19:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by X-Woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't ask her face to face send her a note asking her to the dance. That way if she says no you won't have to deal with the rejection when she is standing in front of you. Sounds like you need to work some on your self-esteem, so you can overcome your shyness =)
Good Luck and I hope she accepts to go to the dance with you!
2007-01-25 19:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passing notes, or notes in the locker still work!
Try asking her in a note or telephone her and ask her, then you don't have to see her face and get scared all over again.
I was very shy in Junior High....don't ask what happened I don't know but I am now a social butterfly
2007-01-25 19:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Serenayowlerlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be confident in yourself kid. if she knows you like her then just ask her to dance. the worst that could happen is she could say no but even if that happens you can at least say you had the guts to ask her. good luck :)
2007-01-25 19:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man this is tough. u ugly, short, and scare and asian. im jk im asian too haha. um how about try to be funny and nice. have u ever thought of that? not all girls necessary like good looking guys. some how get her phone#, email, screen name... then work from there.
2007-01-25 19:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: be sure she doesn't love anyone else.
Second: Be brave.
Third: try to improve ur look!! (noway of that advice u must do it)
When u improve ur look, she'll know that u had changed for her...I think that works..!!
2007-01-25 19:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by 7atem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i also agree on what that girl said ...go ahead and ask her...and to be honest with u. the more u do things like that.. the more confidence u'll have...girls love confidence... and dont let the rejection effect u. if it happens. of course.
2007-01-25 19:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by OOOYEA! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋