Why men are not satisfied with their partners that they cannot make like women do in a relationship like being loyal for example.
Though some women do the same. Is it acceptable if they both just do the same way so that they can be fair to each other? Then why a divorce law was created if we think over the long run we couldn't also keep our oath or promises? If marriage cannot give us a guarantee then why do these ceremonies were created? Are these just a wallet depleting stuff?
2007-01-25 19:03:14 · 9 answers · asked by Pupung 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men that feel that they need to go outside of their marriage, for relationships are usually just insecure and need that reassurance that they are macho. Women do the same. No it is not right for either to do so. Divorce has become a joke, wedding ceremonies, a bigger joke, if you believe that a divorce is a easy way out. People are just fooling themselves and the only ones benefiting from a couple's demise are the wonderful lawyers. Hope this answered your question somewhat.
2007-01-25 19:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are no guarantees in life. Being married is simply the State recognizing your relationship with someone. It in no way strengthens a relationship. It's just a legal and sometimes a religious formality.
As far as women being more loyal? Study after study has shown that not to be the case. 1/3 of men will have an affair and 1/4 of women will. However men do it more often simply for the sex and will say that they prefer their relationship with their wife more. Women have affairs for emotional reasons and more often then not say they prefer their lover over their husband. If both are cheating sexually, which is more "loyal" to the marriage in the long run?
2007-01-25 19:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on individual. Some men really like to show others that he is charming even though he is attached. When their spouse do the same to them, he will feel that his spouse is not faithful. There is no such thing as fair in a relationship. if one party have an affair outside and is discovered by their partner,so what can the partner do? GO and have another affair, so the partner will that it is fair but what about the innocent party.
2007-01-25 21:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage started first with Adam and Eve for procreation, as the "fall" came men were sentenced to submit to their husbands and husbands were to work the soil until they died. Arranged marriages took place in those days and there was no such thing as a divorce. Marriage is ordained by God, but you have all these people who aren't doing things right to begin with. Premarital sex and every other thing, so you end up with marriages based on a sexual appetite and once that appetite isn't fed people go to other partners. It's inevitable. When you make love to someone feelings get all wrapped up, they end up marrying the wrong people. If you're marrying someone other than the fact that you think that they are the one that God has made for you then you are wasting your time anyway and bringing heartache on yourself.
2007-01-25 19:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! Believe it or not, there is someone out there who could make you so vulnerable to the love you would have for them, that all you would ever want is to be with them. The problem is waiting for the right person and not settling for the wrong one. If you have doubts, that is the big red caution. You must also give yourself plenty of time to date. Eventually, you will want more than that. Just be smart and wait for the one with "NO DOUBTS."
2007-01-25 19:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the time when both made the oath to stay together, I believe both really meant it. But life is unpredictable, and human change over time. I know this is no an excuse for being unfaithful, but we have to admit feeling do change over time.
2007-01-25 19:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you think that women are more faithful than men concerning marriage? Then just who are the men sneaking around with?
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2007-01-25 19:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by olin1963 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are greedy and pervert. Don't marry at all. Just be single and enjoy the freedom and peacefulness by yourself... ...
2007-01-25 19:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Daffodil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
biggest turn off for men are good women. men are constantly searching for loose moral women who would disrespected them, cheated on them and mistreated them
2007-01-26 00:32:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋