when you like a girl what do you do to get your message across and when you don't like them as more than friends what do you do to get your message across,besides asking them out or telling them
2007-01-25 19:15:18 · 9 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i become friends with her first to know what kind of person she is. Meaning, I treat her like one of my guy friends. Play games, hang out, get drunk, see movies I like to see.
That way, if I believe there's no chance between us, we can still be friends. If I like her very much, then I'll do things to get my message across. Such as holding her hands, hugging her, treating her more like a lady than a guy.
2007-01-25 19:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't play mind games like that. If I have feelings for a girl, it's usually after some time of knowing her and being her friend. That way I know how she acts and reacts to different situations. I like good personalities, friendly people, who are generally honest. So I treat them the same way--I ask them out on dates then let the relationship grow from there. If there isn't an attraction, I don't pursue them as hard, and I don't flirt with them or put them on to anything that would show that I did like them. I'm a direct person so I don't believe in games. There's no other safe way to do it.
2007-01-26 03:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ignore them. Well not really ignore them, if they are a good friend then obviously I can't ignore them. However, I usually ignore the fact that they like me and and carry things on as before. It works. Good luck
2007-01-26 03:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by KatieL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell them directly, usually. Sometimes it takes me a while to get the courage up, but if my feelings are strong enough I'll definately tell the woman how I feel.
2007-01-26 03:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as i get any kind of a vibe from a girl i tell her exactly how i feel, but i think this is because i am overconfident and from what my girlfriend tells me most guys don't have this problem
2007-01-26 03:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like you I will send you flowers and a card and i will call you and call you honey and baby and sweetie. If I jusy want you as a friend I would just call you by your name.
2007-01-26 03:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i like her then i would do the approach. if i dont wanna be a friend then i would totally ignore her, maybe say hi here and there thats it.
2007-01-26 03:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean '' Friends with benifits"!! Let them know where your comming from!
2007-01-26 03:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by pitman L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if we dont like her like that, we do nothing. if we do like her, we make a move. generally speaking
2007-01-26 03:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by Cole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋