cause no sex no love.
2007-01-25 17:43:56 · 4 answers · asked by canaan k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should not rush into anything and wait until you know each other well and are both ready. Me, personally because it can complicate a relationship see if they push you to have sex, then you know it's about one thing, otherwise you could get hurt. I would probably say 4 to 6 months into a dating relationship before having sex. But that's my opinion. If you are ready before that and feel like you really know the person, then that's totally your guys' call.
2007-01-25 18:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I made the mistake of having sex with my significant other the nite we went out on our 1st date. He was 49 and I was 36.
I had too much wine to drink and was so nervous about going out on a 1st date, I drank all of my inhibitions away.
To make a long story short, He liked it a lot and it ended up being a 5 yr relationship based on sex.
After 5 years, I am ready to settle down and he says he doesnt want to get married.
The moral to the story is..... if you have sex in the relationship before marriage, it will be based on sex. and we know sex and love are not the same thing.
2007-01-25 18:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends - sometimes sex only complicates things. On the other hand - If you are in a relationship and you feel it is the right thing to do, then it is.
2007-01-25 18:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Howshoulinou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you're an adult and she is too, there should be no barriers to sexual intimacy. After all, what's the point in calling someone your BF/GF if you aren't exclusive and sexually connected? Otherwise, you're just buddies...I can do that with my male friends and not have to put up with the mood swings!!!
2007-01-25 18:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋