hi all...i have a cousin...we havent seen each other since 15 ..he travelled to another country when we were so young and i dont remember him..but this year i met him on the internet and soo sweet and beautiful and smart and i liked his personality and i think hes the right guy for me..hes 22 and im 19 ..so pls tell me what should i do i think i love him and is it right to love ur cousin???? pls i need an answer
2007-01-25 17:31:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi all...i have a cousin...we havent seen each other since 15 ..he travelled to another country when we were so young and i dont remember him..but this year i met him on the internet and i found him soo sweet and beautiful and smart and i liked his personality and i think hes the right guy for me..hes 22 and im 19 ..so pls tell me what should i do i think i love him and is it right to love ur cousin???? pls i need an answer
2007-01-25 17:37:01 · update #1
Hi there. This is a tough one. Firstly, how closely related are you? If you are first cousins there may be legal, not to mention genetic issues involved. I think that you should keep this quiet, until you meet your cousin again. It may be that when you actually talk to them in person things will be different. And your cousin may not feel the same way. It could turn into a very embarrassing situation that your family will never let you forget, (because thats what families are for). You may be attracted to them, because you are cousins, and therefore similar in personality and nature. There is actually a name for this condition, where siblings and relations are sexually attracted to each other. Personally I think its a bad idea, but at the end of the day, you're both consenting adults, and free to do with you lives as you wish. Be Happy.
2007-01-25 17:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Poppy & Ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know you and I'm not going to judge you because you think that you may be in love with your cousin. my mom has always said that a person can't help who they fall in love with. i just hope that if he is really what you want that you stop and consider what the two of you may have to go through to be together due to the fact that he is your cousin. whatever may happen i wish you the best :)
2007-01-25 17:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and him are ok with being in love with your cousin then no one else should have the right to say anything.
2007-01-25 17:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should see other guys before you go declairing your love for a cousin.
2007-01-25 17:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in a state that says it is OK too. If not move.....
2007-01-25 17:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its dangerous
2007-01-25 17:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE!!!! YOU ARE ONE MESSED UP PUP!!!
2007-01-25 17:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋