I am recently married,
And she broke out all the rules,
I can't drink more than eight beers,
I can't stay out past 2am,
I cant't go to the strip club,
I have to be home in time for dinner,
I can't see other women,
And a divorce is not a possibility, she is mega hot.
Anyone else thinks she is being unreasonable?
2007-01-25 17:48:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
more than 8 beers is fine
don't stay out past 2 UNLESS she's with you
strip clubs leave alone unless there is a baby
shower or a buddies wedding coming up
set a dinner time but SHE needs to
understand SOME times you might be late
OTHER WOMEN! you should follow that one.
- mom and sisters don't count-
ABOVE ALL don't give up after 5 or 7 years into the marriage.
Good Luck it's hard but I'm pretty sure it might be worth it. the more fun you have the better just spread it o-u-t.
2007-01-25 18:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by Harmony 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Married people do not own each other.
Both still have a right to have some time out.
You cannot change another person you can only live one life your own.
Love is made up of 4 parts respect ,emotion, sex, thought.
If you knock out the first and the last and all you have left is the middle you have nothing.
I think sometimes we need to put ourselves in another persons place and try get an idea of how I would feel in this situation.
If the tables were turned and your wife began going to such places would you be graceful toward her.
Take care!
2007-01-25 18:10:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 and 5 are Obvious. Unless you work past 2AM, then it's a respect thing. 3 is a fantasy cheat, it's not really cheating, but a respect thing also. #1, if you drink more than 8 beers a night, then you may be looking at her through BEER GOGGLES, and she probably isn't as good looking as you think... As for #4, Who would you rather eat dinner with. than your new wife, who looks really good when you've been to a strip club til 2 AM, wearing beer goggles.
2007-01-25 18:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by picalibur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dissagree with your wife a little but at the same time I wish I had the power to get my husband not to drink more than 8 beers. I am behind her 100 percent on the no cheating rule.
I think that she wants to build a future with you and she can't do that if you're not even home so I'd follow her rules if you really want to stay married.
2007-01-25 17:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
except that she wants you to come home in time for dinner, all the others are reasonable. she probably wants to make sure you don't ruin your health by restricting you drinking less than 8 beers at one time. that's reasonable. for the rest, that's what marriage for, can't see other women and can't go to strip bar. for staying out past 2 am, that you can bargain, because sometimes you have to be out late for the sake of work.
2007-01-25 18:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Besides the strip club and the other woman part everything is fine with her.Drop these 2 and you will have a happy married life.
2007-01-25 17:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your wife so much you should not want to go to strip clubs, stay out all night, and impair your judgement. This is very understandable what she is saying, but she most also follow her own rules and you two are now one so love each other and respect one another. Let nothing evil into your marriage because the devil is out to kill, steal, and destroy.
2007-01-25 18:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bummer dude sounds liked your whipped.8 strong beers should get ya buzzin and the strip club closes at 2 and if shes hot get her a job there and tell her you have to be there to keep an eye on her and who wants to miss dinner anyway and if see'in other women means doin em you probably should'nt have got'n married.
2007-01-25 18:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by John 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok life has rules my friend. If she is hot you will want to do things that please her. If your happy with her you will not need to drink to much, if you want to be with her you will want to be home long before 2 am
If your married to her you should never want to go look at another womans body other than the one you are married too.
And if you are married there should be NO other woman in your life other then your wonderful ( hot as you said ) wife.
2007-01-25 17:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds "reasonable" to me! Why wouldn't you want to please her if she's so hot? Why would you WANT to go to strip clubs and stay out late and leave your beautiful wife at home alone? You know, if YOU don't make her happy-she WILL find someone who will! Remember that. Congratulations on your new marriage!
2007-01-25 17:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋