If you married for like, did it grow into love? And if you married for love, did it grow into like?
2007-01-25 17:44:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You know, I used to think it's marry for love but I think 'like' is more important. When you love a person, you may not be able to live with what you don't like about him/her. But when you like a person, you just like him/her and it will be ok to live with him/her as you can accept him/her easily since you like her. I'm not sure if you get what I mean here, but until you meet someone whom you love but don't like, you'll get it. You love the person, but don't wanna marry the person. You don't love this person but you're comfortable with him/her and you like her, that'll be a more possible one to get married with.
2007-01-25 17:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married for love, and after having two wonderful parents who have been happily married for 45 years, i reckon i could do that. But unfortunately my cheating ex decided to have an affair after my first was born and i founf out about it just after my third was born!! they are 15, 13 and 11 now, and the last time they saw him, the eldest was 5. Love growing into like?? I think i would describe it as love growing into hate!
2007-01-25 18:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by tizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married for love. That should be the only reason that you get married.
2007-01-25 19:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married for love. 20 years later, it's still love.
2007-01-25 17:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married for both. I love my husband more than I ever thought it was possible to love someone. What makes it so great is that I really like him also. He is truly my best friend.
2007-01-25 17:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took a lot of soul searching to ans this but mine was for love,but it runs out and doesn't see you through the really tuff stuff,and in the end, yeah it only grew into like him,and we now are at different places in our lives, Divorce.
2007-01-25 18:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by live life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
i married just after i turned 20 yrs old,i liked him,and i also wanted away from my parents,it grew in to love,stayed together for 23 years,,good days and bad days,,but eventually we grew away from each other and got a divorce,,i am with someone now that i loved first,and sometimes find hard to like,,tables have turned,
2007-01-25 17:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by Susan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married for love/passion, and love turns into something else...not exactly like, but complicity, friendship, and stuff like that
2007-01-25 18:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there needs to be love and like to start with, in order to keep your relationship going. You need to be lovers, best friends, pals, buddies, partners and soulmates for you to be able to keep your relationship and to keep it growing and evolving. My boyfriend, he is all of that and it is fabulous. Although we fight at time - who doesnt? - we also know that every fight is bringing us closer to one another.
When I met him, it was "like" though. But it soon grew into "Hey, you are actually pretty cute!" to "Darn, I love you a helluva lot!". But the "I like you" and the "Damn , you are cute" are still there!
2007-01-25 17:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to keep the marriage working u need both , love and like . otherwise it wont go right , only love without like , or like without love ???? would be missing a lot of things
2007-01-25 20:23:24 · answer #10 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋